Zhihu Why girls play games as well as boys

Poor mental endurance is not reflexes and brain power.

Because today's boys are either timid, or superficial and uneducated.

Because in the past, women could not pursue men casually.

Women are no longer reserved.

Then feminism is rampant at the moment.

I had to let the man be more reserved.

However, both men and women have the right to pursue or be reserved, and there is no universality.

Not. That's because he didn't meet a girl who made him tempted.

In the case of the student group, it may be more common for men to pursue women, and in the group of men who have entered the society, it may be common for men to stop pursuing women. What are the reasons?

1. If you play friends in school, you pay less attention to material and career, and the impact of these two aspects is relatively small, I think there are two reasons:

First, there is no pressure on the student group, the living expenses of everyone when they are studying are basically given by the family, the meals in the school cafeteria are also cheap, and falling in love is more because the psychological feeling does not care about the material, for most families, it is still affordable to give a thousand living expenses a month, and the higher cost in the school is basically not, and the range of activities of students is also near the school;

Second, everyone lives in the school dormitory, eats in the school cafeteria, and attends classes in the classroom. The disparity in the affluence of families will not be so obvious. Everyone doesn't pay so much attention to food, clothing, housing and transportation.

Our traditional atmosphere is that men chase women, and women have a natural reserve, so it is possible for girls to be chased, and the ratio of men and women is basically balanced at this time. So at this time, the success rate of flirting with girls can be greatly increased by relying on image and flirting routines, because girls at this stage don't pay much attention to other things.

2. Women who enter society begin to consider their careers and personality images, and the probability of success is greatly reduced, and I think there are the following reasons.

First, after entering the society, the male and female groups are generally around 24 years old, and the needs of boys and girls for marriage at this stage are very different, women may have more pressure from the family and society plus their own marriage needs, while men are not, not so urgent, so it causes one to have an urgent need but not so fast, so there is this problem;

Second, the cost of male flirting is too high. Let's put it this way.,When I was studying, I went to flirt with my sister and spent 1000 a month.,But my girlfriend broke up with me.,If I play games.,This 1000 can be saved completely.。 And the cost of entering the society is even higher.

Moreover, women's index requirements for men in this period, house, car, career, to be honest, many boys who have only graduated for a long time have no (except for those with family background), so many boys are discouraged.

So, how can it be that women are so demanding and want someone to chase you, and spend all their time chasing you, when will they be able to earn money to buy a house?

Girls with muscles make boys feel safe.

It is a demand for weak boys.

It doesn't matter if the girl has muscle or not.

As long as she is a good girl, she will be liked.

Because the total number of men is decreasing, the base number of good men is also decreasing, which is the butterfly effect. And the atmosphere of today's society can't create the kind of good man you think.

Everyone of the same age has a home.

Nowadays, people are very impetuous and lack a lot of virtues. But I'm a good man.

Because good men are soaked away,