What was the mood you had on the night before your wedding?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-20
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I believe that everyone is very excited and busy on the night before the wedding, because they are busy preparing the necessary things for the wedding and putting on makeup. At that time, we all put on makeup one night in advance, and now young people go to put on makeup in the morning, so they don't delay sleep, I put on makeup the night before, so I don't dare to sleep all night, I am very excited and nervous.

    I was very excited, I was afraid of makeup, I was afraid that my hair would be messed up and I didn't dare to sleep The night before I got married was spent with a very excited mood, at that time I went to make up in advance, and my hair was also freshly styled, I didn't dare to sleep, I was afraid that my makeup would be spent, and my hair would be broken, I remember that I just sat on the table all night. I was still very excited that night, and I talked with my mother and stepfather for a long time, because a family came to the house, and everyone talked late, and talked a lot about how to do daughter-in-law at my mother-in-law's house in the future. At that time, I felt very nervous, I thought that getting married was a very happy thing, but the night before the wedding, I listened to my mother tell me a lot of things, and I felt that the things that I might experience after marrying my lover would not be a lot of happiness, it might be thorns and bumps, so I was also very nervous in my heart.

    My mother-in-law was very kind to me when I was busy talking about it the night before I got married, but I don't regret it at all. I called these relatives and friends of my mother's family, and my mother-in-law said that they would do things according to their customs. At that time, I thought that since all these relatives of my mother's family had come, we should also prepare a few bags according to the custom of our marriage, because this is also the custom of my hometown.

    My mother-in-law was unwilling, because she wanted to give the person who was holding the bag, and each person would have to pay dozens of yuan, which was also a slam on the door, and she was particularly unwilling. At that time, I was relatively busy, I had to prepare for these things, and then my mother and her family had to go back after eating, and they had to be busy with these things, so they all had to prepare, and the night before the wedding was very busy, and I was really tired.

    Looking back on what happened 25 years ago, I am really full of emotion and mixed feelings. As a middle-aged person, I envy the young people nowadays, they handle the current things very well, and there are not so many trivial things, the key is that the old people have special energy to help them handle everything well.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I feel a little nervous, I don't know if the person I choose will spend my life with me, and I feel a little confused.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I spent it all with nervousness. I'm afraid that on the day of the wedding, people will make a lot of trouble at the wedding, which will make me very embarrassed.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The night before I got married, I spent the night with apprehension, and at the same time, I was full of expectations for my future life, which was very conflicting.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The night before the wedding was very anxious, very irritable, and very tired. Because the thought of tomorrow's long and tedious wedding ceremony collapses.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I'm still a little nervous, after all, this is a major event in my life, of course, I am looking forward to it in my heart, and there is a trace of excitement.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Although I haven't experienced marriage yet, I often imagine what I was thinking about the night before I got married, and I think I must be thinking, how will I spend tomorrow? Am I nervous? What should I say?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Personal feelings. I got my license in July last year and got married in December. Before the wedding, because of all kinds of busyness, it is actually easy to be irritable, and the reluctance to marry from the parents' side is actually very uncomfortable, easy to be irritable, and easy to lose your temper. Anyway, I'm not in a good mood. ‍‍

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I remember feeling like I was finally going to complete a ritual and really fit into each other's families, and I was quite excited. ‍‍

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't know, because I'm not married, but according to what my cousin told me at that time, getting married is a more comfortable mood, marrying a beloved woman, anyway, a few days before marriage, maybe the first half a year, are the least contradictions and the happiest, and the contradictions increase over time, although it is not a big contradiction. ‍‍

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'm about to get married, my mood is very average now, my face is very happy, and I really know that when I get married, I have a home, my own small home, I will be very happy, and the two of them live their own lives, but if we say that for a long-distance relationship working in the field, this sentence is about to get married, they should think that this is the best word in the world, and love is great.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It has been said that marriage is impulsive. And I say that marriage is a natural outcome, but marriage is actually happy and frightening. This contract is a promise.

    Anxiety that I can't put into words. But not unloved. Loved, loved.

    But I still feel a little happier. ‍‍

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think it should be anxiety, after all, my identity has changed, starting a family is a major event in life, more people should be in the process of adjusting their mentality, after all, getting married means that a very important responsibility falls on themselves, because two people have to live together plus their parents and other different situations before marriage, so most people should spend this time in anxiety, but this anxiety is mixed with happiness. ‍‍

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The talking partner has been able to enter the palace of marriage for several years, of course, it is very happy, there is nothing more happy than getting married, or passing the exam, the so-called family is really hot This is what it means, and the family is officially formed in the Chinese tradition, and the parents at home don't have to worry about other things. My parents were very happy when I got married, but in today's society, there are more men than women, the ratio of men and women is not harmonious, and it is difficult to find a partner, so it is a joy to be able to get married. ‍‍

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When I got married at the age of 28, I was very happy at the time, and I still think about it now.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I, who are not married and do not hate to marry, cannot understand this feeling at the moment. Two people who have really loved each other for a long time should be very calm when they get married. In fact, obtaining a certificate is to be recognized by the society and law.

    And the wedding is to get the customary approval between relatives and friends, or it is just a personal need. In fact, marriage is just a formality, maybe you have expectations and worries. Looking forward to the wedding or a happy life after marriage, worrying is that after marriage, the things you face will be more complicated and the responsibilities will be greater. ‍‍

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I got married at the age of 26, got a girlfriend at the age of 22, had a long-distance relationship, and broke up two years later. And then there is the fact that he was alone until he got married. After a long time, I got used to being single, and I moonshine every month.

    In three or four years, I haven't saved a penny. When my parents saw me like this, they began to be anxious, and when they came home for the Chinese New Year, they helped me arrange a blind date. I didn't resist, because marriage is something that must be done sooner or later in life, for myself and for my parents.

    I think it's also a kind of mission, so I wasn't very excited on the day of the blind date. When you see girls, you don't hate them, you don't dislike them. As a result, the first blind date, and then the natural marriage, I felt very bland, and finally she became my century-old companion. ‍‍

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's been more than a year since I got the certificate, and I still have more than 20 days to get married, so I don't seem to feel anything.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Chat with others more, because chatting is also a way to relieve, if the mood is always in this complex depression, then surely, there is some discomfort.

    You can ask others for experience, because there are many people who get married, so you can ask them how to spend the experience.

    You can also take deep breaths, as deep breathing moves your lungs, or rather, gives you a better blood supply and allows your mind to cool down for a while.

    Before two people get married, they should prepare everything they want to do, or do it well, so that they will not be so anxious at that time.

    Finally, if you are really excited and can't calm down for a long time, then let go of this feeling to the fullest, because this day is also the happiest day of your life.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Depressed mood before marriage means that you don't trust the other half of your feelings enough, only good communication, will be full of confidence in your piety, I wish you sweet love and a happy marriage.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you are depressed before marriage, you can have a good talk with your partner to relieve this depressed mood, and then look forward to some bright prospects after marriage.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    This situation should be considered very normal, very normal, in general, it is premarital phobia, because marriage is a lifelong thing, you may think too much, but when you really need to go on yourself, you may no longer be so nervous, how to face it?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's okay, don't be nervous, many people have premarital phobia. Marriage is a big event, tension is inevitable, depression is a manifestation of nervousness, and this emotion will disappear when you get married.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    1, I never thought about getting married before I met you, I just wanted to get married after I met you, and the most beautiful thing I have ever seen is your appearance.

    2. Suddenly I want to get married, I really want to wear a wedding dress.

    3. Looking at other people's weddings, I want to get married too.

    4. I don't want to be in love, either hurt or hurt, I want to get married.

    5. If you want to be single, continue to be single, if you want to get married, get married, and if you want to be in love, you should fall in love, anyway, in the end, this is your life.

    6. The timing of marriage is very important, once you miss the opportunity to get married, you will never have a chance again.

    7. When I was a child, I always wanted to grow up, and when I grew up, I wanted to be smaller; When you are single, you want to get married, and after you get married, you want to be single; When you get it, you don't cherish it, you lose it, and you want to get it back. People are like this, what they wanted before was what they didn't want later, and what they wanted later was what they once had!

    8, where are you, my her, I want to get married.

    9. Men want to get married because they have figured it out, and women want to get married because they want to open it.

    10, girl, I want to get married, do you say today or tomorrow?

    11. Don't fall in love because you're lonely, it's a playmate when you're bored; Don't get married because you want to, it's because the world is doing tricks!

    12, the most ideal marriage: I only wanted to get married when I saw her, and I never regretted marrying her.

    13. Some people say that they are tired, so they want to get married. Some people say that they are afraid that they will be in love all the time, and the two will consume too much, so they will get married quickly; Some people say that they want to find someone to live a small life of firewood, rice, oil and salt. It's like the besieged city that Mr. Qian Zhongshu said, the people outside want to go in, and the people inside want to come out.

    Do you want to get married, see that your friends are already married and have children, and when you see children, you suddenly want to get married. If you ask yourself if you want to get married, you won't be so anxious and eager to think about it again. Because, to get married, you first have to meet the right person.

    14. No man really doesn't want to get married, he just hasn't met someone who really wants to get married.

    15. Some people get married because they want to rush two people to buy a house earlier; Someone wants to get married because they want to have a ...... childThere are many reasons to get married, but it has been a long, long time since I heard a person say that he wants to get married because he loves someone very much, because he wants to be with another person forever.

    16, Lu Yu told his husband when he first met him that she wanted to get married! Two weeks later they got married! After getting married, Lu Yu said, in fact, loving someone is not how much you promise, but really hurting you, you can't wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep, and you can't move a person who doesn't love you, there are many reasons not to love, but you only need to do one thing to love:

    Just have to be with you!

    17, marriage is not child's play, not you can get married if you want to, you have to consider the consequences, everything is ready to get a certificate, the thinking is not mature enough, the material foundation is not solid enough, it may only cause tragedy.

    18, if you want to get married, get married, if you want to be single, you can be happy, the important thing is to spend the money you earn, and you want to spend a man's money and talk about self-esteem.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    1. What we like, either missed, or already has the Lord; Like us, I always feel that there is a feeling missing. So we report the attitude of pursuing true feelings and looking for love, but we always feel that the communication is too narrow, and there is no way to know the ideal type; So we report the attitude of preferring lack to abundance, free and lonely.

    2. The sky falls in love with the earth, but it is too far away from the earth. So, whenever the sky misses the earth, it rains heavily...

    3. Life is actually very simple, do two things well and be happy: first, find a job you like, and be happy when you are so happy. Second, find a lover you like, so that you will be happy for the rest of the day.

    4. Life is simple, but the process is complicated, and the lucky ones in this complex process have the beginning and end of a relationship, and the end point of this beginning and end is the ordinary and not simple pursuit of love.

    5. There is only one time in a lifetime, there is only one time of happiness, joy and chic once, a night of joy and singing, from then on, one person signs the hand of the other, goes down together, and works together to make happiness permanent.

    6. I suddenly think that if the couple gets married, there will be constant quarrels, and if the husband and wife don't get married, will they live every day like glue? No wonder more and more men and women don't want to get married.

    7. We all want to be married as soon as we hold hands, but we live in an era when there is love when there is money.

    8. The younger a woman is, the less she wants to get married, and the older she gets, the more anxious she is to get married. Men are the opposite, the poorer they are, the more they want to get married, and the richer they are, the less they want to get married. For a woman's faith comes from youth, and a man's faith comes from wealth...

    9. Before I met you, I didn't think about getting married, and after I met you, I didn't think about anyone else.

    10. I always feel that if you can't be with your favorite person, life is really meaningless, and with the person who is not what you want, even if you get married and have children, you will still be too lonely and lonely in the end. So never understand those who say"I can't live with anyone in my life"people, all their lives, with whomever they live, really not everyone can do it.

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