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Is a grand wedding really so necessary, does it have to be everyone's current romantic happiness to be romantic happiness? Or rather, it's just vanity. My wedding was on the soft sand, the sea breeze was blowing, and I invited three or five best friends to attend, so that my wife's best friend and I were witnesses, the number of people was small, but it was more sincere and affectionate than the blessings brought by thousands of people.
To this day, I still remember how it felt like to have the breeze on my face that day, and I still remember each other's movements as we exchanged rings. I can't think of a more romantic and sincere wedding than this!! This kind of plain marriage is our dream all along, my parents wanted to have a grand wedding, but my wife and I refused, our wedding is not for others to see, but for our lifetime of commemoration, not money and grandeur to measure.
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I also don't have a wedding, and I don't have wedding photos! At first, I didn't feel anything, but as time went on, I didn't think like I started to, and looking at other people's wedding photos I was more eager to wear a wedding dress myself! The first time I attended a friend's wedding, I was very sour, watching my friend's wedding grand, emcee, TV songs, photos and videos, I couldn't say what I felt in my heart!
It's not that I like to compare, but as a woman, who doesn't want to have the most unforgettable sweetness in their life.
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I was at my mother-in-law's house in the countryside at that time, there was a ceremony, but because of the time relationship, it ended in a hurry, I didn't feel these formal things, even the wedding photos were taken by someone, except for the wedding photos a little regret, I didn't feel anything else, and a good life is the last word!
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If I could do it again, I would give up those extravagant ceremonies and get married on a trip.
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When your husband is rich, you are going to have a divorce, right? Satisfy your vanity!
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I think if I really fall in love with this guy and feel like he's someone I can rely on for the rest of my life, and he can only have a simple wedding, that's okay for me.
Generally speaking, weddings and wedding banquets are a very sensitive topic for many young people who are now preparing to enter the marriage hall. Is it worth putting a new burden on the whole family for the sake of a ritual? Is everything simple for weddings and wedding receptions? Or is it atmospheric luxury?
For these questions, the answers given by the society are also the opinions of the benevolent and the wise. Some young people believe that the wedding is one of the important moments in life, or should have a basic sense of ceremony, do it quietly and decently, and leave good memories. After all, most people have good wishes for love and are ready to stay for life, and they don't want to wronged themselves at such an important moment.
There are also young people who believe that the wedding is just a formality, not a high-end and luxurious wedding, and life will be happy. In their eyes, it doesn't make sense to spend hundreds of thousands or even millions of dollars on a wedding. If it is really not bad for money, it is better to "use good steel on the blade" for food, clothing, housing and transportation, children's education and parents' pension.
As long as the family is happy together, no matter how ordinary the wedding, you can find warmth and happiness.
As long as the parties accept the two points of view, do not be extravagant and wasteful because of the luxury of the wedding, and are not dissatisfied because of the simplicity of the wedding, and can see happiness and feel sweetness in the wedding, there is no right or wrong. Because life is lived by oneself, the simple separation will not affect the happiness of two people is an important choice.
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<> "If you don't see these 8 points before the wedding, you will definitely regret it!"
1. All itinerary arrangements must allow some time to play the gods.
2. Management should be done as soon as possible.
3. Pay attention to your diet, eat more fruits and vegetables and light food a few days before the wedding to avoid acne or gastrointestinal discomfort.
4. Get enough sleep before the wedding.
5. Remember to prepare your parents' clothing and bag accessories for the day.
6. The day before the wedding, you will travel again to confirm the wedding, the four King Kongs, dresses, hotels, and wedding cars.
7 more shots**, all kinds of scenes.
8. Pay attention to expression management, don't laugh, sisters!
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I can't accept the marriage and don't have a wedding.
For most ordinary people, there is only one marriage in this life, and I hope that I can meet the right person for the first time, and grow old together, so the wedding will not be grand, but we must do what we can.
As a country of etiquette, China was even more cumbersome in ancient times.
1. Nacai: Nacai is what we call a marriage proposal now, the man needs to ask the matchmaker to be the matchmaker, and the matchmaker will send the gift to the woman's home, if the woman's family agrees, you can accept the engagement gift sent by the man.
2. Asking for a name: The man asked the matchmaker to come to the door to inquire about the name and birth date of the woman who sold the model, and then handed it to the fortune teller to make a good omen.
3. Najib: If the fortune teller has an auspicious omen, then the man will ask the matchmaker to prepare a thin gift to the woman's house, and tell the woman that the marriage can be continued. Nowadays, it is also called "passing a small ceremony" or "small determination".
4. Najib: After Najib, you can officially give a dowry gift, and the man will give gifts, cakes, gifts and sacrifices to the woman's house, which is called Nazheng, which is now called "too big a gift".
5. Invitation period: The man asks the fortune teller to choose a date, and after determining the auspicious date for marrying, he will send someone to inform the female family and solicit the opinions of the female family, which is called the invitation period, also known as the "begging day", and now called the "day".
6. Welcome: The last procedure of the six ceremonies, that is, the groom takes the gift code to the woman's house to greet the bride.
Now, they are all free love, both parties are happy with each other, and after getting the approval of both parents, they come to the door to propose, get engaged, and choose a good day to get married.
With the popularity of Western-style weddings, the wedding process is also being simplified, and a small number of newlyweds choose to travel to get married. Because not only can you fully enjoy the world for two, but you can also enjoy the stunning natural scenery.
But without a wedding, it always feels like something is missing.
Moreover, as long as the wedding is held, even if you do not go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to register and obtain a certificate, a de facto marriage has been formed and is protected by the law.
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Not accepted. The wedding ceremony can be simple, but it can't be without, it's just once in a lifetime (some people may have many times), everyone pays attention to life and has a sense of ceremony, not to mention the wedding of two people, although there are so many people who don't advocate weddings, but only a very small number of people really don't hold it, anyway, there is no one around me.
For most ordinary people, the wedding is rough, it is a sense of formality, a kind of proclamation ceremony. The scene can be big or small, but both parties to this ceremony, especially the woman, must explain it, otherwise it will look like a sneak. So, the respect that deserves is still given.
If your circle of friends advocates this, then you can completely skip the wedding ceremony as you wish, but everyone is vigorous, and you can't keep a low profile if you want to.
Marriage is not only a matter of two people, but also a matter of two families, starting a family represents the growth of a pair of young people, and it is also a return to their parents for many years of upbringing, which requires their witness, and should also have the testimony and blessing of relatives and friends.
If you don't want to have a wedding, of course, it's okay, and no one else can say anything, but whether the families of both parties willingly accept your wishes.
Will there be any regrets about the advantages and disadvantages of getting married without a wedding?
1. Do you want to have a wedding when you get married?
Holding a lenient wedding is nothing more than inviting relatives and friends of both men and women to witness the union of the two, officially swearing that the two are married, emphasizing a ceremony and a grand atmosphere, and then celebrating a big meal together. If both the man and the woman and their elders agree not to have the wedding, then it is okay to skip this link.
2. Analysis of the advantages and disadvantages of getting married without a wedding.
1. Advantages: 1) Time-saving.
There are a lot of things to prepare for a wedding, and it takes a lot of time to buy a lot of wedding supplies and arrange wedding matters.
2) Labor-saving. After the whole wedding, the couple and their families will be very tired and very tired. There are even many people who say that they don't want to get married a second time.
3) Peace of mind. In addition to physical exhaustion, Xiaochong will gradually become tired psychologically. After all, it is really tiring and tedious to prepare for the wedding after work. So many people are prone to premarital phobia.
4) Save money. If you don't hold a wedding, although you won't have money or anything like that, you can save a lot of expenses, such as banquets, clothing, wedding cars, etc. At the very least, you can save about 50,000 yuan, and you can save about 150,000 yuan at most.
All this money can be saved for other things, such as buying a new house, a car, a honeymoon, etc.
2. Disadvantages: 1) Lack of memories.
If you don't hold a wedding banquet, you will lack good memories, and it will inevitably be a big pity to think about it in the future. If you mind this, it's better to have a wedding.
2) Lack of ritual.
The ceremony of holding a wedding is very strong, which is memorable and unforgettable. If the wedding is not held in front of relatives and friends, it will give the couple, relatives and friends the illusion that they are not married.
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<> "Wedding. A little advice without regrets.
Tips for wedding food without regrets.
1.Take more photos with your parents, don't ignore them.
2.Set aside time before the ceremony to take some photos of the main stage at the main stage.
3.Try to remember the wedding process, order, and time.
4.3-4 games are enough.
5.Don't forget the skirt of the main yarn.
6.Try to go through the rehearsal with the lights.
7.Wear a trailing wedding dress and remember to remind photography! Take a full-body photo.
8.The wedding vows are written two or three days in advance.
9.Quick cuts must be reviewed in person to avoid undesirable shots.
10.The day before the wedding, the man and woman put away the clothes on the balcony at home, and the room is tidy, so that it will be more convenient to take photos and videos.
11.Repeatedly told not to serve food before the ceremony.
12.It is recommended that the master of ceremonies should not deliberately sensationalize.
13.Wedding vows should not be too long.
14.Before the bride officially enters, she should arrange the skirt in advance.
15. During the ceremony, arrange the personnel of the hidden celery infiltration control site.
16.The wedding ring is set to be kept by a special person, and it is best to have a backup for me.
17.On the day of the wedding, if you want to send 9 squares in the circle of friends, communicate with the photographer in advance.
18.Make sure someone collects things after the wedding.
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<> "Tips for Weddings Without Regrets."
1.Take more photos with your parents, don't ignore them.
2.Set aside time before the ceremony to take some photos of the main stage at the main stage.
3.Try to remember the first wedding process, high process, order, and time.
4.3-4 games are enough.
5.Don't forget the skirt of the main yarn.
6.Try to go through the rehearsal with the lights.
7.Wear a trailing wedding dress and remember to remind the photographer to take a full-body photo.
8.Wedding vows are written two or three days in advance.
9.Quick cuts must be reviewed in person to avoid undesirable shots.
10.The day before the wedding, the man and woman put away the clothes on the balcony at home, and the room was cleaned up, so it would be more convenient to take photos and videos.
11.Repeatedly told not to serve food before the ceremony.
12.It is recommended that the master of ceremonies should not deliberately sensationalize.
13.Wedding vows should not be too long.
14.Before the bride officially enters, she should arrange the skirt in advance.
15. Arrange on-site control personnel during the ceremony.
16.The wedding ring must be handed over to a special person for safekeeping, and it is best to have a spare me.
17.On the day of the wedding, if you want to send a nine-square grid in the circle of friends, communicate with the photographer in advance.
18.Make sure someone collects things after the wedding.
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The wedding is just a few days away, so the preparations should be almost ready.
You can confirm the number of guests, whether the meal at the wedding banquet can be tasted, if you can, try it, and if there are any details that can be modified, such as fried dices, you can explain whether you can put ginkgo seeds or something.
There are also all kinds of red envelopes ready, and the time to pick up the bride is calculated, otherwise it will not be good to be in a hurry in the later stage.
Actually, there is no preparation, so prepare for a beautiful mood!
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Get married once, enjoy being a goddess, and leave the troubles to your family.
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