In life, what words you hear hit your male self esteem

Because of family genetics, my height is short in the normal height range of boys, and very thin, giving people a very weak feeling, once in the class to move books, a girl said to me, you are too young, you don't need to go, I come. At that moment, my self-esteem was hit by her words, and I was very sad, thinking that boys should be taller.

One time I heard someone say what kind of car she bought, millions of dollars, and then I felt like my pride was broken, because I'm only 20 years old now. I can't afford a car either. But I also wanted to have a luxury car like that, so, at that moment, I really felt that my self-esteem was gone, and I needed to work hard to buy such a car to regain my self-esteem.

I once heard a saying, "You're not as good as your wife." When I heard this, I felt that my self-confidence had been hit very hard, and my work ability was very bad, but I still wanted to be able to get a certain amount of respect, so I kept working hard and hoped that I could get better.

I think the words that hit my male self-esteem the most are that you can't do it, I think why I can't do it, I can do it, but when others deny me like this, my self-esteem will be very hit, but I'm not afraid, I want to work hard to prove that I can do it.

The biggest blow is that the girlfriend said: Look at xx's boyfriend, he has a car and a house at a young age, and he is obedient to xx, why are you so different from others. This was the biggest blow I suffered, and then we broke up because we didn't want to affect my ex-girlfriend, but I guess my girlfriend will regret it when I see what I have achieved now.

Once when my girlfriend told me why are you so stupid, I really felt that it hurt my self-esteem, because I felt that she was disgusting me and making me feel inferior to her, which would make me feel very uncomfortable, and it could also be the reason for machismo, which always made me feel that she was under my protection, so when I heard this, I felt that he hurt my self-esteem.

I'm three years old this year, and I haven't talked about the object yet, every time I go home, my parents urge me to find a partner, and I still say this, just like you, the object can't be found, and I'll live well in the future.

Every time my parents say this, I feel very depressed...

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You look at other people's husbands, what they bought for their wives. Other people's children are the first in the exam again. I've been waiting for you for so long, and you haven't even paid off the mortgage, and everyone else is starting to prepare for a second house.

You look at other people's husbands, they get promoted and raised every day, only you, it's always like this, you can't go up or down.

First of all, it is normal for boys and girls to see things from different angles and ways. In general, it is more empathy.

Here I want to talk about boys' self-esteem and some small ways to get along. And between the two people, no matter what the distance, must be to do a good job of communication, sometimes one of the parties loses his temper, of course, there is a reason, you have to fully let the other party know what the background of your bad mood at this time is.

Context can be simply put into terms of what is happening around you today or recently, and what emotions are going to put you in for a long or short term. In this context, if the other party does not understand you and does something that makes you angry, then it becomes both of them angry.

In this case, it's either because of the other party's scum, or because you don't communicate well with each other, and he doesn't notice your irritability background at this time. The angry party should clearly describe the background in which they are located, and then repeat it in combination with the actions of the other party to know the reason and background of their anger.

Respect when you should respect, strike when you should strike, really can't let him get out.

Self-esteem, especially lip service, is a humble existence in my dictionary, especially for adults.

In the relationship between the sexes, I never think that this kind of so-called self-esteem is a good thing, in fact, more often this kind of self-esteem is just an excuse, a kind of self-preservation, self-defense, unwilling to face reality, unwilling to accept reality, and a reason to escape.

It is not so much that a man has self-esteem, but that he is: unwilling to face reality, unwilling to accept reality, and likes to find reasons to escape. It's a little more accurate.

This is a selfish and shameless behavior. Selfishness is to only care about one's own feelings, and shamelessness is to like to put oneself in the position of a victim and make the other party feel very guilty.

So in the relationship between the sexes, a man can take his self-esteem for granted, which is a sign of immaturity! I never realize that I need to improve, I need to improve, I need to look at myself, this is completely a naïve little kid, and usually such a little kid is very reasonable.

Self-esteem is something that varies from person to person. Some men have a particularly strong self-esteem, which is not easy to control at all, so it is better to treat it with a normal heart, not to ask too much, and not to compromise easily.

Respect his self-esteem, and at the same time let him respect the self-esteem of girls.

Respect each other, emotional energy is balanced, and if you want a woman to value your self-esteem, you have to think about her feelings first.

Respect him, the boy may be a bit machismo, and you have to give him face outside, and then clean him up when you get home.

Men love face, no matter what his status is at home, he must give him enough face in front of outsiders.

Respect each other when you get along with each other on a daily basis, and give more praise when the other person is doing well.

When you encounter a problem that you can't solve, you have to learn to ask him for help.

Don't hit him casually in front of outsiders, respect each other and save some face for him.

You can't let go of a boy's self-esteem, respect when you should respect, and refute when you should refute.

I think that if a woman is outside ignoring her boyfriend's feelings and casually talking about his privacy, it will destroy a man's self-esteem and always scold her boyfriend in front of his friends.

First of all, any man is more or less more face-loving and has strong self-esteem. If a woman often talks about her husband's shortcomings in public or in front of outsiders, and laughs at them along with others, it will destroy a man's self-esteem.

There are some women who always see the shortcomings of their boyfriends, often do not see his strengths, and always compare their boyfriends with other men, and over time, it will destroy a man's self-esteem.

Women compare their men with other people's husbands, always feel that other people's husbands are good and have various advantages, and at the same time keep criticizing their husbands, which will destroy a man's self-esteem.

In many cases, such as when a man confesses to a woman, the woman does not show any tactfulness at all, that is, she refuses in a tough tone without leaving a face, which hurts people's self-esteem.

I think if a woman often breaks ties with her ex and is still entangled with other men outside, it is easy to hurt her boyfriend, and it is easy to destroy this man's self-esteem in the long run.

Women often emphasize men's shortcomings, and when they say it on any occasion, in front of a man's best friend, a man will feel that he has no face. Women also often compare their men to other people.

In front of his circle of friends, he did not care about his image and feelings, and declared his sovereignty and family status; Contact with other members of the opposite sex without scruples, and blame each other without limits in life.

Well, there is a certain truth in what your male friend said, if a guy really likes you, he will pretend.

The inner is very strong, and he will not show his weak side in front of you, which may be the common point of men, because men are heaven, and the backbone of a family is also men, so if he likes you, he should be embarrassed to borrow money from you.

Not necessarily, some men may borrow money to get your attention, people are different, everyone's way of thinking and personality will be different, so it is not necessarily. If you talk about self-esteem, you can only say that some men have it.

This friend of yours is right, as a self-respecting man, he will never borrow money from his beloved, and he will not let his beloved know his embarrassment.

Real gentlemen, men, men will not borrow money from women, nor will they take the initiative to spend women's money, let alone ask for it. Only scumbags, cartilage men who eat soft rice, will borrow money from women and not pay it back. Self-esteem is air to them, and if they don't have a face, they still have self-esteem.

It depends on the situation, and some people think that men are du

Self-esteem is generally high, such as the fact that the fruit is not to the point of not being thousand.

When you get back, you will never ask a woman for money, especially the woman you like, so your self-esteem will be hit, but there are also men who will borrow money from the woman they like when they encounter difficulties and lack of funds.

If a bai man likes you, his purpose is to treat your money, let alone in front of you.

DAO loses self-esteem. Two people love each other is trust, understand that each other wants to pay for each other, this is only in terms of feelings, a person's self-esteem is often just the last line of defense in the heart, if even this is lost, then it is not easy to find it back, of course, if you can also pay self-esteem for love, this is a choice.

Sometimes it's okay to say that, but not everyone.

This sentence makes sense

It is impossible for someone who really likes you to borrow money from you. Dao because he is in front of the one he loves forever.

The Far East will retain its self-esteem. So I'm embarrassed to ask someone I like to borrow money from. Even if he is short of money to borrow from friends, he will hug the person he likes to borrow money.

Only people who don't really like you will ask you to borrow money, because being with you is for money.

What do boys often get angry about? If you think about it, most of it is because your self-esteem has been hurt. Don't think that boys are very strong inside, in fact, many of them are external, at home, in the face of family and lovers, it is a fragile glass heart.

So you should also be very careful with your boyfriend.

1 Defend him in front of your friends.

It is often said that falling in love with a girl is actually falling in love with a group of women, because when a girl encounters something in love, she will always tell her girlfriends as soon as possible. And everyone must know that there is really no topic that cannot be talked about between girlfriends. So the male friends who read the article, her girlfriends all know about you and your girlfriend.

This kind of intimacy between girlfriends has advantages and disadvantages. Everyone has a different point of view on feelings, and when you encounter something to tell your girlfriend, all she can give you is her thoughts, and her way of dealing with it may not apply to you. The other is the perspective of the bystander, although the suggestion may be more rational, but as the protagonist in it, sometimes he is not willing to accept it.

And if you talk about mostly negative things, it is easy to cause your girlfriend to have a bad impression of your boyfriend, so it is normal to say something bad about him in front of you.

2 Show dependence in front of his friends.

I believe that nothing makes him feel fulfilled in his self-esteem more than relying on his boyfriend. When the two get along to a certain extent, they will definitely slowly get into contact with each other's circle of friends, so it is normal to meet each other's friends and become the focus of attention. But many couples will also quarrel because of this, because now the relationship between men and women, most of them are boys playing with girls, no matter what happens, when two people, this is the love between lovers, but if it is in front of the boyfriend's friends, it may make him feel faceless.

The most embarrassing thing for a man should be that you quarrel with him in front of his friends, which will make him very embarrassed, coax you unconditionally, he feels that he has no face in front of his friends, don't coax you, he is worried about losing you. It is said that family ugliness should not be publicized, so no matter how you usually get along, in front of your boyfriend, you should show sensibility, affection, dependence on him, protect his fragile self-esteem, and satisfy his man's macho self-esteem.

It is difficult for lovers to get along, because you are people from two worlds, you have different growth environments, different ways of thinking and logic, but you have to overcome all kinds of differences to integrate the two worlds together.

Love is hard, and it's even harder to maintain it. Lovers get along with each other, no one has to give in to whom, accommodate whom, so both of them should understand each other and tolerate each other, so that this relationship can last for a long time.

Verbal acts do not deliberately speak of what he does not have for the time being; For example, when your boyfriend is not rich enough financially, avoid comparing him with other boys, or even boasting about how rich and generous other boys are, and don't deliberately say in front of him that his girlfriend's boyfriend has given him a lipstick envelope or something, he also wants to send it, but he really doesn't have the financial ability yet.

When your boyfriend comes from a humble background, you really don't want to dislike it! This refers to living in a relatively poor family since childhood, or he thinks it is a relatively inferior growth environment, a girl told me before that her boyfriend is a rural hukou, she once told her boyfriend that her parents do not like people from rural areas, and do not want their hukou to be transferred to the countryside in the future, feeling very ashamed, and then her boyfriend got angry.

Don't denigrate what he likes; Compared with the cosmetics, bags, clothes, shoes, perfumes, ornaments that girls like, boys will like fewer things, such as my friend, who was addicted to AJ when he didn't have a job before, but now that he is working, he wants to wear work clothes, and he is addicted to games, which I dare not denigrate, which is not only his hobby, but also his belief.

Just like which football team he likes, I won't deliberately sing the opposite tune to slander how bad the people on that football team are, just like which game team he likes, I won't denigrate the team's looks or technical ability, his life is sometimes really boring, games are the only few hobbies in his life, so I need to be a girlfriend to help him love his hobbies.

When maintaining his self-esteem, he must maintain it secretly. My boyfriend was very poor when he just graduated, and he was too embarrassed to ask his parents for money, and he didn't tell me that he had no money, so he let me eat, drink, and dress well, and buy me what I liked.

But when I played with his mobile phone late at night, I found that he was borrowing a friend's money to turn around, and I went to buy a lot of clothes the next day, most of which were bought for him, and pretended not to care about it and lied to him that it was a discount if it was full of money, and his clothes were just making up the bill. Thankfully, he believed.

Then he secretly transferred money to his friend, helped him return the money, and asked his friend to transfer more money to him in the name of borrowing money, about a year later, he was financially better, and when he returned the money to his friend, he learned about it, that night, I remember that he hugged me and cried for a long time, and said something very gratifying, he said: Thank you for protecting my fragile self-esteem, it is really worth meeting you in this life.