If you meet the love of your life after marriage, do you want to divorce?

Updated on society 2024-02-18
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think it's like in "The First Half of My Life", Chen Junsheng used a sentence"I love her, hopelessly love her. ”gave up his wife and son who had just entered elementary school that he had vowed to take care of with his life. But is Ling Ling really Chen Junsheng's "incorrigible" love?

    The truth is that after he desperately stayed with Ling Ling, he found that his new family was not as good as the previous one, which made him feel at ease.

    At that time, Lin Jianqing said to Xiaoxiao:"If Ian (on behalf of Jianqing) can't find Kelly (on behalf of Xiaoxiao), the world will lose its color." After they broke up, it became black and white, and even when he got married and had children, it was black and white.

    Until the end, "Ian always loves Kelly" appears in the game, and the world returns to color.

    There was previously a saying that described the ex:"There is a grave in the heart where the surviving are buried. ”You are willing to pay tribute and wake for the lost love, please don't pull an innocent woman with you.

    Even, Lin Jianqing's father had poor eyesight and called his current wife "Xiaoxiao", but no one explained. His current appearance is in the form of urging and checking posts, and he doesn't even have a straight face.

    Today's society is developing rapidly, love is becoming more and more materialistic, marriage is becoming more and more improvised, and the divorce rate is getting higher and higher. And the three words "I love you" are becoming cheaper and cheaper, so cheap that they blurt out, like "Hey, hello!" "Same.

    When everyone is not serious about their feelings and doesn't want to invest in their sincerity, they just want to find someone to accompany them when they are lonely, and then there will be a cycle of ambiguous feelings now. It can't be said to be malignant, at least not very good.

    Love comes from a sense of mystery, distance, and freshness. It doesn't matter how outstanding the other party is, or how gentle the personality of the opposite sex is, or how much the opposite sex has a common language with you.

    Mystery, distance, and freshness all together constitute a blinding of your reasonLeaving you in a state of temporary mental disorder, hormones rise, IQ decreases, and judgment decreases. This temporary mental illness is what we call love in literature. The reason why love is great is precisely because people will do a lot of earth-shattering things when they are in an abnormal mental state.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't get divorced, they're all married, how do you know that the current is not the beloved.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I'm definitely not, I'm intellectual, rational and emotional, I choose intellectual.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No, it's better to stay away from anyone. What if you encounter one again in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    How can you tell that you are the love of your life? Shallow.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't divorce when you meet the so-called love of this life in marriage, because it is likely to be just a novelty, and after getting married, you find that the relationship between you and your lover is no longer as close as before, and at this time you fall in love with other people of the opposite sex, so you feel that this opposite sex is your true love.

    For most people, the so-called true love after marriage is just a state of mind to pursue romance, not the so-called true love, and it is impossible to achieve happiness.

    Since you are married, and your partner does not have any vices, don't divorce easily, even if you meet someone who makes your heart flutter, you must have at least a moral bottom line.

    First of all, restrain impulsiveness, it is your right to like, but don't be impulsive, liking does not necessarily have to be together, sometimes, your liking is not necessarily really liking, just because it is fresh, just like when you and your current lover first met.

    At that time, you definitely didn't stay with each other because you didn't love each other at all.

    Secondly, it is normal to have a heartbeat, everyone will be tempted by beautiful things, and if you meet someone you like, you will divorce, then there is no moral bottom line, and when you get married, you will bear a burden called responsibility, and you can't let it go casually, because you are an adult, not a child.

    Secondly, if you meet a loved one and have the idea of divorce, it is likely that you are dissatisfied with your current marriage, and it may come from your unmet needs, but if you divorce and be with the love of your life that you know, can you guarantee that you will be happy? The answer is definitely unknown, so we have to learn to read our own needs, and we have to learn to give ourselves what we need.

    Finally, don't feel that you have finally met true love, you have to hurry up with him, this kind of behavior is called betrayal, if you really have no feelings with someone, then deal with your current marriage, and then consider being with true love. After thinking about it again and again, and weighing the pros and cons, to be with this person, I hope you have really decided, and you don't regret it. Don't just get divorced today, and after a while, you feel that your current marriage is not as good as your previous marriage.

    In short, if you meet the so-called love of this life in marriage, don't divorce easily, you must think clearly, marriage is not child's play, it is sacred, don't blaspheme at will.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you meet the love of this life in marriage, you should not divorce, you should look at this issue correctly and rationally, because marriage does not allow you to go back and forth.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No. When you got married, did you think that the other party was married because of the love of your life? When you fall in love, you think it's beautiful, but after marriage, you lose to firewood, rice, oil and salt, and the distance and poetry are defeated by chicken feathers, and you begin to feel that the other party is not the best.

    Even if you get divorced and remarry the love of your current life, you may be able to repeat the same mistakes. After experiencing firewood, rice, oil and salt, it is boring again.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hello, after marriage, I met the true love I think, I can only say that you have no fate, since you are married, you should be loyal to your marriage, especially if you have children, you should be more rational, don't ruin a family because of a momentary impulse, you must know that divorce hurts the child a lot, and even will affect the character development of his life, and no matter how vigorous true love, it will be dull after being together for a long time, how should you face it at this time, life is so incomplete is perfect, Loved ones don't have to be together, and keeping a distance from each other may be the best thing.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hello, you don't need a divorce, because you like another one before you get married, do you want to divorce when you meet your beloved? This is no longer needed.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Let's get divorced!

    It is impossible to meet the love of this life again when you get married, and if you can meet them, you still don't like each other, and you are looking around for other people of the opposite sex all day long, this kind of marriage is like chicken ribs, personality is like this, how many times you get married after divorce, it is still like this.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Isn't it also your love to marry someone at the beginning, Huaxin is the nature of loyalty is a choice, and people with responsibility and responsibility will not raise this question, and it is not easy for two people to live a good life together for the rest of their lives, of course, this is your freedom, you can also choose to leave or not, and you are already sorry for your family when you come up with this idea.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Don't leave, if you leave, you are not responsible for your wife, and you must do your duty.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Don't, keep to yourself, don't be infamy. But as long as you like it, it's up to you to use it anyway, and you don't have to care what other people think.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't choose divorce for the sake of love because you don't know if you're fit to live together. Life is a day and night of firewood, rice, oil and salt, and you can't rely on a momentary heartbeat.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In today's society, many people are very casual about their feelings, even if a person is married, but they will still find a mistress, which is actually disrespectful to marriage, and it is also disrespectful to their other half, so everyone must be loyal to their wives or husbands after they get married.

    After getting married, many people think that it is not so good when they are in love, so they think about divorce, and they don't have to think about other things when they fall in love, but when they get married, they have to consider the daily expenses of the family and firewood, rice, oil and salt.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Meeting a soul mate is a rare luck in life, but meeting after marriage makes life a difficult choice. On both sides of the scale, on one side is the existing marriage, on the other side is the soul's confidant, and the final choice depends on which side of the relationship is heavier, and which side the balance tilts. ”

    The relationship he said is not only love, but also the affection between husband and wife, and the relationship between children. Of course, in the end, how to choose depends on which party the parties feel is more important.

    In addition, he reminded that soulmates do not have to be partners, and that it is also very good to have a pure friendship.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This premise is that in marriage, if you are not married, without this condition, without comparison, will you still think that he is your love?

    Marriage is always indispensable for firewood, rice, oil and salt, and if you are really together, it may not be as good as it is now.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This question is that you are thinking too much, and you need to know whether your current daughter-in-law is the love of your life. Does the love of your life love you?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Why did your current husband, my daughter-in-law, marry him in the first place? Is it also the love of this life? People change, and now they change again. This goes back and forth, and in the end you don't get anything left. Morning and evening.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The point is, why do you think that you have met the love of this life? If a single person seduces a married person, the character of this person is problematic.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you meet true love every time, what can you do?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    No, everyone will meet a better person in marriage, but we can't give up the person who accompanies us through thick and thin because of a momentary heartbeat. Maybe your other half also met the cake, but he didn't give up the fruit tea, he is still with you, marriage is trust, companionship, is unswerving, is long-term together, try to change your thoughts and concepts maybe your other half is your beloved. This is my understanding, I hope it helps you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you don't have children yet, I think you can choose to divorce, and pursuing your true love is the principle of our life.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You shouldn't choose divorce, because it's not your favorite, maybe because you have a good impression of the other party, don't make a decision that you regret.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Of course, if you meet the person you love the most in this life, you should make the right choice, which is good for everyone.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I think that when you meet the love of your life after marriage, you should think calmly and make a decision. First of all: when we had a marriage, that is, we had a contract with another person we could get along with, but today suddenly you tell him that you have met the love of your life and you are going to divorce, I think it is very cruel for him, he has done nothing wrong.

    Secondly, if we are helpless or forced to compromise when choosing a lifelong partner, we can choose to pursue the love of our love after calmly thinking about the consequences of pursuing the love of our lives even though we are married.

    Let's see if the love of life we meet after marriage is the real love. I think it's hard to get along with someone without the trivial things of life, and I feel that this person I identify must be my beloved. In the beautiful feelings can be consumed in firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, why can our marriage last a lifetime?

    Not because of love, but because of love to the end, we become relatives, and family affection is the kind of emotion that lasts until the end.

    However, if we are happy with each other when we enter the marriage hall, then we should calmly and carefully consider whether the love we meet after marriage is really what we want? Is it because of the negligence of your lover for a while, you feel wronged or disappointed, and the angry behavior arises?

    For families, it is a sign of respect for each other to cut off in time when the relationship deviates. If you have the love of this life but don't chase it, the former cinnabar mole will become mosquito blood, and the former white moonlight will also become rice grains, so it is better to cut off this kind of passionate feeling. For long-term relationships, it is true that the new love may not last long, but in the process of this pursuit, you can gradually recognize your own mind, restrain yourself from dispelling your thoughts, and at least not let yourself regret it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    There is no need to divorce, because now that I am married and have lived a very happy life with each other, I should let go of the past at this time.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Don't get divorced. Because you are responsible for your marriage, and you don't have a marriage because of your feelings, don't let yourself regret it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You can divorce, if you and your wife have no feelings, then you have to divorce early, otherwise it will be unfair to your wife.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    No matter how much a couple of lovers are, after the baptism of time, the advantages of the original other party after the stirring of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar are not so perfect. This situation is nothing more than two consequences. Marriage is a matter of two families.

    If you have children, you need to think calmly. Because there will be a big change in the child's life after the divorce, if you are confident that you can give the child a better life, then it doesn't matter. In many cases, marriage is more about responsibility.

    Marriage is a big deal, don't settle, wait until you get married and find that the two people are not suitable is the saddest, marriage is only left to live together, more often it is consuming feelings. For the future, it's just a matter of getting by. So be sure to marry the person you like, don't be in a loveless marriage.

    After marriage, when you meet the love of your life, will you divorce?" is incorrect from a certain level, because a good marriage should be married to the person you love the most, and you will not meet someone you love more than your partner. Husband and wife respect each other, care for each other, discover each other's strengths and learn from each other's strengths, and create post-marital romance with love and action, so as to maintain the freshness when they first met each other + be grateful for the efforts and contributions made by both parties to married life, and do and cherish it. Since you are the beloved, you should be responsible for your beloved, you are already married, if you are divorced, if your beloved is not married, then your beloved will not be lost?

    If your beloved is also married, isn't that hurting both your beloved and your beloved marrying partner?

    For what love do you disregard morality? What's more, you've hurt your marriage partner too! If you are married, you must keep to yourself and be responsible for your family!

    If your marriage partner is not good for you, you can choose to divorce! But it's definitely not a divorce because you met the love of your life! Even if you don't meet your beloved, you have to divorce!

    If you meet your beloved after divorce, and your beloved happens to be unmarried, and your beloved does not dislike you for being married, then you are lucky, and you must love your beloved after you get married! If your loved one is married and your loved one is not good to your loved one, you can wait for your loved one to divorce before marrying your loved one!

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