What should I do if I have been talking about a boyfriend for five years, but my parents don t agree

There are no parents in the world who do not feel sorry for their daughters, the starting point of parents must be for your own good, you need to communicate with your parents well, find the key to the problem, what is the reason why they are so opposed, find the reason and then think about whether this problem can be overcome, if you can, then work hard with your boyfriend to make your parents feel at ease, and everyone is happy. If you can't change it, it depends on whether you really identify him, and if you do, don't care about anything else.

Since you have been talking about the object for five years, you can't just say break up because your parents don't agree with you, you have to work hard for yourself, after all, it is your lifelong happiness, so don't give up the relationship between you easily, you can discuss it with your parents to see what your parents are not satisfied with him, you can let him correct it, of course, appearance and height cannot be changed. But you can work a little harder together on material things.

There must always be a reason why they don't agree, right? Ask them well, if there is really any reason, I suggest you still listen to their advice, after all, they are your elders, they do see more things than you, and they also consider the problem from the perspective of your good, you don't have to listen to them completely, but it can be used as a certain reference.

I think love is a matter of two people, and parents don't agree, and there should be reasons for them. But don't be an obstacle to you, you should talk to your parents and tell them that you really love each other. Of course, you must also prove to them with practical actions that your choice is not wrong.

If you really love him sincerely, then just stick to it, your parents' opposition is only temporary, and after a long time, they will agree, after all, your parents still love you, and it is impossible to embarrass you.

I've been talking about my boyfriend for 5 years, if my parents don't agree, I will think about whether I and my boyfriend are suitable, if after thinking about it, I find out that my boyfriend and I really love ice hockey, I think the two of us are completely compatible, and my parents still don't agree, then I will choose to follow my heart's wishes and continue to be with my boyfriend, my parents' side, after a long time, they will definitely receive it.

I think since you have been talking about the object for five years, you can't just say break up because your parents don't agree with you, you have to work hard for yourself, after all, it is your lifelong happiness, so don't give up the relationship between you easily, you can discuss it with your parents to see what your parents are not satisfied with him, you can ask him to correct, of course, appearance and height cannot be changed. But you can work a little harder together on material things.

It mainly depends on what you think in your heart, if you really love your boyfriend, there is no point in your parents' blocking, because if you are particularly persistent, they can only choose to accept you. If you don't love her that much, you can choose to break up, which is better for yourself and for your parents.

The boyfriend who has been talking for five years is not said to be able to let go, you can have a good talk with your parents, figure out why they don't agree, and then solve the problem with your boyfriend, if you love each other and don't give up easily, your parents will agree.

Nowadays, this society pays attention to free love, and you can communicate with your parents as much as possible, so that they understand how much you love your boyfriend, and show enough confidence that you will be happy with him, and believe that no parent will not want to make their children happy. For example, I said to them: I want to be with him, even if I eat bran in the future, I am willing, and I will never regret it.

This way your parents will definitely consider your ideas and agree that you will be together.

If your boyfriend has to be with you, then you are worth going on with your boyfriend, you have to believe that you will one day be able to impress his parents, and use your own actions to influence his parents, after all, parents hope that their son can find happiness, find a daughter-in-law who will take care of their son, if your boyfriend doesn't care about this, then don't continue.

Parents don't agree, either die, or break up, the family is very important, your family has 10 million, you will marry a high point with your family, or similar, your family is an ordinary people's family, then find a similar people's family!

Parents must be thinking about you from a realistic point of view, and what they say is definitely for your good. First of all, you should be sure of this. The most important thing is to know what kind of life you want, what kind of life you can't stand and what kind of life he can give you.

If there is no contradiction between them, you should have no problem with him. Plus, you have to think about your next generation. If there are only two people, you can do anything.

Yet can you tolerate your children living in relative poverty and your parents not being able to afford a good ward when they are seriously ill? I have a feeling that you are actually hesitating. If you really don't care, you won't say that much.

Only you know your inner voice best.

Love without material things is a plate of sand, which doesn't need to be blown by the wind, and it will be scattered after two steps. What I want to tell you is that no matter what parents do, please understand them. What parents want most is the happiness of their children.

Being in a relationship can make them feel secure. But if your boyfriend is self-motivated, he will work hard and be nice to you. They will see it slowly.

Now this society will never be poor as long as it is willing to work hard. As long as you're willing to work hard, it's only a matter of time before you can afford a home.

So when you look at a vision, you can't stop at whether he can afford a house or not. Your parents, because they don't know your boyfriend, will definitely look at something from the outside first. But you're different.

You get along day and night. You should know him better. It's worth judging for yourself.

The love that parents have for their children is unmatched by others. They don't talk about things for no reason. If this happens, it's likely that the person you're dating with is the cause.

It may be because of the other party's personality, character, work, etc., that they feel that if they give their daughter to the other party, their daughter will not be happy, so from the perspective of the people who have come before, they will stop it. At this time, as a client, you can't think that your parents are deliberately making things difficult. No matter how upset you are, ask your parents why they disagree and what they say.

You may not see some results, but your parents' analysis should give you some help and food for thought.

You shouldn't give up, if you really know him, and you like him very much, and he thinks he is very suitable as a marriage partner, then you should stick to your own ideas, communicate well with your parents, and let your parents discover each other's strengths, so that they can choose to accept each other.

I don't think you should give up, you should work hard, the relationship between the two of you is already relatively deep, if you break up at this time, then you may not find a better person.

You should give up, because parents know a lot of truths in life, since it is said that two people are not suitable, it means that the other party is not a very reliable person.

If you shouldn't, you should convince your parents that they respect your feelings, so that you can take care of both.

What shouldn't be should be better than your own cowardice, so that your parents respect your emotions, so that you can take care of both.

Hello subject! First give you a warm hug in the air to soothe your flustered mind. Let's take a look at your question.

You say you're 25 years old and have a boyfriend you've been talking to for over 5 years. During the relationship, there were no major quarrels or conflicts between the two of you, but now you two have reached the age of talking about marriage. Your parents know about the two of you, and your parents have also seen the boy, and they think that the boy is very simple, very smart, and sensible, but they just think that his own conditions are not good.

To have academic qualifications without academic qualifications; To look good and not look good; If you want a family background, you don't have a family background; To work there is no good job. The parents really don't look down on the boy, they can only say that he is a good person and can allow the two of you to talk to him, but they can't marry their daughter to him. The boy asked to come to the door many times to talk about marriage, but your parents refused, so it dragged on for more than a year, and your boyfriend was also under pressure from his family, and now he especially wants to come to talk about marriage.

Your boyfriend also thinks that your parents don't want you to be together at all. If you go with him then, your boyfriend will accept it; If the marriage can't be negotiated and you can't decide, then break up. Don't you know what to do?

Do you feel that the relationship between the two of you is really inseparable, but you don't understand that you feel inseparable? Or does your boyfriend feel? Or do you both feel it?

You have to understand if he is the person you are going to marry in your life? This is very important, because if you get married, it means that you have to live with him for the rest of your life, and the person you choose is the person you want to spend your life with. From your description, from your parents' point of view, it seems that you don't like your boyfriend at all, so from your point of view, what do you like about your boyfriend?

Although you said that your parents are very strong and conservative, I believe that your parents absolutely love you. They pull you up with a handful of and urine, and raise so much, they must love you, and of course they hope you can be happy. You can tell your parents about certain characteristics of yourself that you value your boyfriend, see if he will recognize the good things about your boyfriend in your heart, and whether he will change his opinion of your boyfriend, and then make the next steps according to the situation.

Subject, good luck! May mine be helpful to you! The world and I love you!

Summary. Dear, first of all, this situation, after talking about it for so many years, the boyfriend still doesn't dare to let his parents know, there is a possibility, that is, the boy is not ready for your future, and he has not yet figured out how to live your future, and at the same time he is different, after the parents intervene, if you are not together in the future, the situation will become complicated.

Dear, first of all, this situation, after talking about it for so many years, the boyfriend still doesn't dare to let his parents know, there is a possibility that the boy is not ready for your future, and he has not yet figured out how to live your future, and at the same time, he is different, after the parents intervene in the source rock, if you are not together in the future in the dismantling, the situation will become complicated.

Dear, how are you usually feeling?

Generally, in love, boys will be more anxious than girls. If you really want to start a family, the boy will often ask you, take you to meet his parents, and if the other party's parents know that you are in love, they will also urge him to take you home, but from your description, he doesn't seem to let the family know, so I always feel that maybe he hasn't thought about the future yet. Rotten stalking.