My parents don t like my boyfriend, my boyfriend s parents don t like me, is there any good solution

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I suggest that if you really love him, give him some time to develop, don't blame your parents if you are killed, your parents will not harm you, as long as he has a prospect and can give you happiness, your parents will accept him sooner or later, and you don't want to have only love, drink the northwest wind to live. Just fall in love, keep your purity, and if he is really good to you, I believe there will be happiness. Don't pass on all your parents' words to your boyfriend, I'm sure no boy will be grateful to his girlfriend's parents for not liking him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    ..That's your boyfriend's failure, and a man who makes the other party's parents like him is also a show of love for the woman. If you really love you, he should consider your feelings (the status of your parents in your heart) and will naturally make your parents like it, and you should talk to your boyfriend.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Tell your parents directly, your boyfriend will understand, and it's annoying to hide it from you, so it's better to say it. Move your parents with action!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you like him, convince your family to accept him.

    After all, the ultimate goal of falling in love is to get married and start a family, a lifelong thing.

    If you casually agree with your family's opinion, then you don't like your boyfriend too much!

    Because I like someone, I won't change because of someone else's words! Even if it's family!

    Look before you leap. Hope you make the ideal decision!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    How is it similar to my troubles. Alas.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Just tell him! Let him know himself correctly and let him make up for it from other aspects. For example, career success. In fact, the appearance is just something ethereal, the key is the inside.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Tell your boyfriend directly, because this isn't necessarily a bad thing. You can see from this incident that your boyfriend deals with problems and his attitude. Don't underestimate this.

    The road ahead is always to face things, and his handling and attitude will greatly affect your feelings!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Take your time. Let your boyfriend prove himself as soon as possible.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you really don't have a clue, it's better to think about this question differently, my boyfriend's parents don't like me, it's not what I should do, but whether my boyfriend and I should work harder and love each other more.

    Make a suggestion, self-confidence is the key to success, it is better to hint to yourself in your heart before meeting the other party's parents, his parents like you very much, don't be timid, you have to find your own shortcomings, in order to change in the future, you have to believe that dozens of minutes of getting along with each other can not let them know the real you, try a few more times. And don't grieve yourself, don't be too tired in love, everyone is alive for the first time, they are all parents' little babies, there is no need to carry it yourself, it is comfortable for others.

    If you want to go down, be brave.

    A little, push yourself, slow heat.

    It's not an excuse, you have to work hard if you like him, so that even if you divide it in the future, you don't have to regret it. And the family really affects the marriage, if his parents insist, it is better to be free and easy.

    Girls must find someone who loves themselves to marry, it seems that your boyfriend doesn't love you very much, if he loves you very much, he will handle it on his parents' side, and you said that his father has a strong aura and family relationships.

    If his father is also strong with his wife, then you should quickly thank him for not marrying and leave him. You won't be happy living in such a family, you must look at the family when looking for a husband, see how his father treats his mother, I wish you happiness, you must marry the right man.

    It's better to know more about your position in the other person's heart, if you mind the problem before you start falling in love, it will still become a problem after marriage, don't choose to ignore it because of temporary touching and love. Most of the marriages that the family objected to did not marry, but those who opposed the marriage did marry.

    Fate is a wonderful thing, and not being suitable does not mean who is right and who is wrong. On the other hand, it is difficult to be happy even if you are barely happy. It is often the case that there is nothing suitable for you in this store, and the next one will be available.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You can go and talk to your boyfriend to see what kind of opinion your boyfriend has, and if he insists on being with you, then you have to have the confidence to try your best and make your boyfriend's parents change their opinion of you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There is no need to redeem it, I suggest giving up this relationship directly, if the man's family does not accept you from the beginning, it will inevitably affect the relationship between the husband and wife after marriage, and the long pain is better than the short pain, or it is better to be realistic.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think the best solution is to have more contact with your boyfriend's parents, so that they can discover the good in you and gradually like you.

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