How can I keep myself from loving someone

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It seems like you're having the same problem.

    Sometimes I force myself not to love him. But only their own core knows. I'm lying to myself. It's not as simple as you think.

    Don't love him...It's not that simple.

    She felt like trying to make the most of her life. Leave yourself without time to think about him. However, time is a good medicine.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Why are you tired? Crush? Then put an end to this situation, if there is no hope, then there is another person waiting for you to love, and that is yourself. Divert your energy to other things, such as work, school, career.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can't do it, although you say you don't like it, but if you really like someone, you will think about it unconsciously, and you will even dream of it, you must know that we are human beings, not gods! "Since you are mortal, you will move your heart."

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Since you don't want to love her, why are you going to this question.

    Forget about him. From now on, you can forget it slowly.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The heart is the freest and cannot be controlled. It's better to be bitter than yourself.

    If you want to forget someone who you once loved deeply, but hurt you, it is quite difficult, and few people can really do it.

    It's a good idea to start a new relationship, but if your heart doesn't fall in love with your new lover, it hurts her.

    Think about what you need for yourself and ask your heart.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Love is loved, how can you say that if you don't love, you won't love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you find someone to love again, you can slowly forget him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Not loving is a lifetime of regret, and love is a lifetime of tribulation. ”

    It is true that every relationship has joy and pain, but even so, everyone will be brave enough to pursue love and not want to leave themselves with regrets.

    In the process of chasing love, you may be scarred, you will find that the other party does not love you as much as you imagined, and even feel that you are infatuated with the wrong payment, doubting whether there is such a thing as love.

    Perhaps, there is love, but some people are lucky and meet at a very early age, and some people need to go through thousands of mountains and rivers to find the person who truly loves them.

    There are also many people who don't understand what it is like to truly love someone. In fact, love or dislove is obvious, people who love you deeply will spoil you as a child, and people who love you to the extreme will treat you like this.

    The person who loves you to the extreme, he will want to take care of you, he will want to do everything for you, he will treat you as a child, in his heart, you are the most important.

    Every woman hopes that she can meet the person who loves her deeply in her life and can spoil herself as a child, but not all of them can do so.

    Some people's love is very selfish, he will only take care of himself, and it is difficult to take into account your feelings, this kind of love is not advisable, and some people's love is willing to pay for you, willing to ask for love without asking for anything in return, his love for you is deep and irreplaceable.

    A person who loves you will always remember you in his heart, a person who loves you very much, and will pamper you everywhere in ordinary times. The best love is probably this: he spoils you as before, and you love him until you are old. You become his weakness, and he becomes your armor. ”

    I hope you can meet the man who spoils you as before, I hope you can meet the best love, let him be your armor, and the two of you will go on happily.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The easiest way is not to listen, not to look, not to think, and then let your attention be cast elsewhere, seal your emotions, and keep your heart.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Dispose of souvenirs. Seeing things and thinking about people, seeing anything about him or her will make you fall into memories, disposing of any other person's **, clothes, books, toys, or **records, etc. If destroying these things can calm your anger, destroy it, and you won't regret it.

    Otherwise, put all these things in a box and put them in a place where you can't see them.

    Disconnect. This may sound a bit cruel, but the best way to ** a wounded heart is to cool down and cut off all contact with the other party. Keeping in touch will only make it harder for you to forget the other person.

    Delete the other person's number from their phone. This will take away the urge to text or call someone, especially if you're feeling particularly vulnerable. Avoid places where you feel you might run into each other.

    Meeting the other person will only stir up your emotions and emotions, make the memories flood into your mind, and make you even more confused. Cut off contact on social **, delete the other party from the friend list, and stop following each other's Weibo, Moments, etc. It may not be this way forever, but it helps to do so in the short term.

    If you're frantically tracking the other person's status updates on social media, it's going to be even worse if you want to get through this phase.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's really hard to do it without loving someone or liking someone, because as long as you get along with him, or understand all his information and don't love someone, you will make a basic judgment about some of his behaviors and words, and then use this judgment as a basis to name which way to go? If you really don't want to like someone, don't love someone.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    That is, to be free of distractions, not to think about anything in the mind, to look at anything calmly, to let go of all self-cultivation, and to stay away from emotional troubles.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's really hard not to love someone.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    We've all had the experience of falling in love with someone you shouldn't. It's been consumed, and it's getting deeper and deeper. Knowing that this is a waste of life, this feeling lasts for so long that it is difficult for us to even get rid of it.

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