Write a short essay about your experience and feelings of getting along and communicating with your

Friends are indispensable in today's competitive society, and with friends, there is an extra layer of barrier, and when the wind and waves are swept in, they are still standing. For example, when you are having financial or career difficulties and your family is unable to help you, you need a friend. He can help you get through it.

If you don't have this friend, you'll be devastated, or you may be destitute. This shows how important friends are, and we can't live without them.

Friend, my understanding is: the one who does not give up on you in times of crisis, helps you when you encounter difficulties, takes care of you, rejoices with you, shares weal and woe, does not value your status and origin, brings you happiness, and comforts you when you are sad. That's what friends are.

Friends are everywhere, but friends are easy to find, but it is very difficult to find a soulmate who is really like-minded with you. As the saying goes: soulmates are hard to find.

Finding a good friend is not easy, and many people will never find a soulmate in their lifetime. Aristotle said, "A close friend is like a different body."

Making a good friend will benefit you for life, and making a bad friend is self-defeating. Make good friends who can assist you and help you in case of danger. Make a bad friend, he will make it easy for you to go along with the dirt, make you embarrassed, and lead you astray.

Friends are important, but you have to be careful when choosing friends. The consequences of making friends are not something you can bear alone. The principles of making friends are roughly like this:

We must treat our friends sincerely, we must not hide ourselves, we must be honest and trustworthy, we must be heart-to-heart, tolerant and trust our friends, we must be willing to stick a knife in the ribs of our friends, respect our friends when necessary, elevate the position of our friends, and lower our status. When making friends, you should pay attention to his character, and you can't blindly choose his status and background. Don't choose a friend who drinks and meat.

The basic principle of making friends at this time, if you follow this principle to make friends, you will definitely make a like-minded friend. Making friends, from ancient times to the present, has been praised by people throughout the ages. For example:

Uncle Bao in the Spring and Autumn Period, Guan Zhong; Baili Xi, Uncle Jian. These are true friends in trouble, they help you when you are in trouble, and they are willing to stick a knife in your ribs, this is the real friend.

Everyone understands the truth that "one chopstick is gently broken, and ten chopsticks are firmly held together". It is difficult to achieve the climate by relying on the strength of oneself, but if there are a few like-minded friends working together, success is not unattainable. As Sadie said:

The mosquitoes will charge together, and the elephants will be conquered. ”

The 21st century is an era of fierce competition for talents, just like the truth of "survival of the fittest, elimination of the unsuitable" in the "Theory of Advancing Generations". Therefore, if you want to have your own foothold, you must not only have a solid basic knowledge, extracurricular extension in place, as well as the ability to grasp opportunities, and keen observation, but also have a group of friends. Because only when you have friends, can you learn and progress with them, and you can keep improving your level.

Friends can not only help each other, but also find each other's shortcomings and correct them in time, which is an indispensable condition for people who want to perfect themselves as much as possible in the 21st century.

As long as the friends are right, there are no disadvantages. As the saying goes: "Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black."

How do you measure the "quality" of your friends? Confucius once said: "Those who benefit have three friends, and those who lose have three friends."

Friendship, friendship, friendship, and benefit. Friendship is open, friendly and soft, friendly and committed, and it is a loss. It can be seen that the ancients believed that true friends should be honest, honest, or knowledgeable, and that it was harmful to make friends with hypocrites, flatterers, or sharp-tongued people.

Therefore, in daily life, you can observe that those who see your mistakes come to you and sincerely hope that you will correct them, those who dare to admit their mistakes, and those who are motivated and knowledgeable are the ones you make friends with. In the continuous communication between friends, you will receive subtle effects, and you will also become honest, upright, and have more and more knowledge, or get the opinions or suggestions of the other party in your study and life, and constantly improve yourself. At the same time, when you are in trouble, you will also have friends to help you bear it.

Don't always think that those who say hello are your friends, although friends do need praise and encouragement, but if the other party only praises you, and turns a blind eye to your shortcomings, this kind of person I don't think you have to make friends with him, and making friends with such people will only fuel your vanity, and if you don't do well, you will be proud, not only can you not move forward, but you have to retreat ......

Imagine if you not only have extraordinary talents, but also have many friends around you who share them with you when you are happy. In your sorrows, they bear them with you; They congratulate you when you are improving; They give you advice and advice when you do something wrong. In such an environment, everyone makes progress and grows together. Three stinkers can top one Zhuge Liang, not to mention that your friends may not only have three, maybe thirty, three hundred ......

With so many benefits of making friends, what are you waiting for, keep an eye on the people around you and see if you can make friends.

Over the years, I've been exposed to a lot of questions about friendship, and it suddenly seems that friendship has many times more weight in some people's minds than I usually think.

I found that there are two factors in the hearts of these people who are troubled by friendship. One factor is loneliness, and the other is too little self-confidence. Loneliness makes a person focus all their life on friendship, and lack of self-confidence makes a person suffer from friendship to the extent that once they lose it, they can't find themselves.

There is no one who does not know what is important, but after I met these friends who are troubled by friendship, I feel that if a person relies too much on friendship, then he will not get happiness from friendship, but more distress.

We often emphasize in our conversations that "if a person puts his happiness in others, he will inevitably be disappointed." This "other" includes all people—friends, parents, children, husband and wife, everything.

Make friends, you should. Love friends, yes.

Give everything for your friends, it's worth it!

But you can't live without yourself.

Not only have yourself, but also trust yourself!

Therefore, I would like to revise a common belief that I would like to advise everyone not to always seek friendship on their own initiative, but to let it come automatically.

To quote a quote from a French movie, if a person has more friends, he has no friends!

You can be in a position of mutual attraction with your friends, and it is best to make yourself attractive enough to attract friends first. In other words, first of all, you must enrich yourself and let yourself shine. In this way, in terms of making friends, you can attack, retreat and defend, so that you will not worry about friendship and be nervous, and you will not be able to live all day.

In other words, make friends with attraction, not by favor or sycophancy.

Don't expect everyone to be your friend, friendship should be natural.

Another key to maintaining friendships is to "keep your distance".

No matter how good two people are, the respect they deserve for each other is always indispensable.

Many people, as soon as they get acquainted with their friends, do not distinguish each other. I don't pay attention to the politeness and proportionality when I first met. As soon as friends have no respect for each other and do not pay attention to politeness and proportion, misunderstandings and frictions are about to occur.

These days, as the exam approaches, my mood fluctuates greatly. Because I have always attached great importance to this exam, I always feel that if I fail the exam, it will be over. So the more I thought about it, the more pressure I felt.

Running around at three o'clock every day: home school cafeteria, burying my head every day and only thinking about studying, but knowing that I am in a bad mood. But I'm glad I have friends by my side.

With their support and encouragement, I gradually came out of the shadow of my psychology and my grades improved. So friends are important.

Making friends is roughly divided into four categories: the first type is general friendship, this type of friends greet when they are in a good mood when they meet on the road, and turn a blind eye when they are in a bad mood, with a friendship index of 10; The second category is "fox friends and dog friends", but it is not a derogatory meaning here, but it is emphasized that this type of friends is the kind of inseparable, laughing and laughing together all day long, coaxing together, destroying together, and the friendship index is 40; The third category is people who have common hobbies, common pursuits, study together, and make progress together, with no more than ten such friends, and a friendship index of 80; The fourth type is the boudoir close friend type, two people have almost no secrets, the other party's heart is clear, even in the classroom, these two people sit in the first group, one sits in the eighth group, but they will also form a tacit understanding at the same time, such friends are limited to 1 person, friendship index 99. I wish my friend her:

is not indifferent, but can always care about others; Not arbitrary, but able to listen to the opinions of others extensively; not cowardly, but someone who can stand up for me; Not stupid, but someone who can give me advice; Not sluggish, but a person with a sense of humor......He cannot yet be cunning, greedy, hypocritical, miserly, ......He should be an honest man, who has not deceived me or has deceived me with good intentions; Someone who should be straightforward and bold enough to make well-founded criticisms of me; It should be an upright person, a person who is upright and upright; It should be a diligent person who can develop and progress together with me; should be open-minded, generous and bold people; It should be ...... to be brave and dare to face any reality

However, "no one is perfect." "Don't be too your friends. When you ask someone, think about whether you can do it yourself. ；