What s going on with my girlfriend not wanting to see my friend

Updated on psychology 2024-02-29
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Maybe you have someone she knows among your friends, and she doesn't want him to know about your relationship.

    Maybe she's not quite sure about you yet, and she's not at the stage where you let others know about your relationship.

    Maybe she's really shy ......

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think she wants to have a good time with you There are more people and places to go, it is estimated that there are disagreements and so on I don't want to see your friend You can ask the real reason After all, she hasn't seen your friend There is no holiday.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Is she inferior? I didn't like to go out in crowded places before... Because I'm fat. I don't know how to dress up yet. Now I'm fat though. But I'll dress up. So I went out with confidence. Hey..

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    She's not confident enough, you can help her buy new clothes, dress up nicely, she'll consider going.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    That's right, but I think it's more appropriate to travel back and forth after getting married, but it's okay to arrive overnight, because please note that the woman also has parents, people are not at ease, I hope you can understand.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Quite simply, she's shy. You have to persuade her more.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If it's because you want to travel with friends, I think your girlfriend wants to go with you alone.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Maybe you have someone he doesn't want to meet, or maybe he has low self-esteem!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Maybe she wants to be alone with you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Your friend may have hurt her, and you may not know it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The first situation analysis: she doesn't love you.

    In fact, from the moment he told me, I could immediately feel that this boy would not fall in love, and his girlfriend might not love him as much as he thought. No matter what age a woman is, as long as it is the man she loves, she will definitely have clingy times and want two people to spend time alone, but she can't see it in their relationship.

    From his love, he can feel that he loves his girlfriend very much, and he has put a lot of effort into pursuing it, but in fact, the other party's response has not been great, and he may just regard him as a suitable person to get along with, rather than someone he really loves.

    Women and men have a particularly different characteristic, that is, women can sometimes find a suitable person to fall in love and get married, but men are often only willing to find the person they love to fall in love and marry. When you love someone, you are willing to give it your all, and when you are loved, you will enjoy what the other person has to give you. So for the most part, his girlfriend is just enjoying the feeling of being loved.

    It can be seen from this relationship that the boy thinks about his girlfriend all the time and will make various arrangements for her, but the girl does not appreciate it, and even feels that some of the things arranged by the boy are very boring, which may be a sign of unlove. When a woman truly enjoys being in love, she will always think about each other, do a lot of things for each other, and even take the initiative to correct each other's mistakes and deficiencies.

    The second situation analysis: she has feelings for you, but you don't really get into her heart.

    On the other hand, a girl will not agree to a boy who has no feelings at all, and it seems that the boy is not rich and powerful, so in this relationship, in fact, the girl has feelings for the boy, but this feeling has not yet been transformed into a particularly deep love.

    As I said before, I can obviously feel that the boy does not talk about love, and he does not understand his girlfriend's true preferences at all, but simply asks the other party out for dinner and movies, and these are actually ordinary friends can do it, so they can't touch the girl's heart at all.

    Boy, you really know what your girlfriend usually does, what she likes to do, what she likes to eat, what she likes to eat, what she likes to wear, what she wears, what cosmetics she uses, and so on, because you never really know her, and naturally you can't get into her inner world.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The reason for not meeting, it depends on whether there is no relationship between the two of you, if you don't see each other often, the relationship will fade, and slowly you don't want to see each other again, usually communicate with him more, and then often give him a little surprise, and then let him have you in his heart.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If it's not that I don't like you, then there's another situation:

    The two of you get along a little awkwardly, maybe the effect after meeting does not meet her expectations, it may be that the activity arrangement is boring, or it is possible that she is very sincere, but she just doesn't like to go out.

    As for going out with friends, my understanding is that some people can only socialize with friends when they go out, such as exchanging a certain gossip (which is not).

    Considering that you didn't mention the amount of time you spent together (being friends), and you have been in a relationship for more than half a year, I think you can try to create some scenes where both parties feel happy on the basis of deepening communication and understanding each other's preferences.

    When I was in a relationship before, I liked to go out, but my boyfriend didn't like to go out.

    At first, I was very aggrieved, because the two of us met in online dating, all online dating that does not run is a hooligan, the first time it is okay to run now, we had lunch together, went to the mall to play electric in the afternoon, watched movies in the evening, and finally held hands on the way home to send me home.

    Just when I was looking forward to a good love life, the state of this guy's date with me gradually became wrong.

    My favorite dating items are watching movies, eating, amusement parks or free parks, walking together at night, short trips, mountain climbing, swimming, skiing and other sports can also be, but he also behaved very actively at the beginning, and told jokes to tease me along the way, just fell in love, that is, sitting on the bus to lean on the shoulders, rubbing the palms, eyebrows and eyes, and then looking at each other with a "poof" stupidity, but often halfway through, his words will be significantly reduced, if we go out for lunch, Maybe he stopped cooking before dinner.

    Originally, I thought that he might lack sports, so don't schedule his time so full, but when he got to the back, he ate his own meals, and he came out for a walk, and he also made excuses to push back.

    I'm very unhappy, what reason can a guy not want to see his girlfriend?

    I just asked and said if you don't like me.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There are many reasons for reluctance to meet. First of all, it may be because she doesn't know you well enough, so that she naturally won't meet easily, which is a sign of her caution. Secondly, meeting is not a simple process, it requires a lot of financial resources, if the two parties are closer, it is fine, if it is a long-distance relationship, it takes a lot of money to meet, if you are willing to bear everything, I think he should be able to agree.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Since he doesn't want to meet anymore, doesn't it mean that he doesn't like you anymore......People you really like, no matter how far away they are, will be in a hurry to meet. Breaking up early is the only way to let each other go.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Are you online dating? 1: In general, girls who like to stay at home are introverted.

    It takes time to adapt. Reach slowly. 2:

    I didn't have confidence in my appearance and personality. I'm afraid I'll make a bad first impression on you, so I choose to shy away. 3:

    Her private life doesn't match what she says online. 4: I'm just trying to find someone online to spend time.

    I suggest you take more time to ask her out. I'm sure if it's the first time, she'll go out with you slowly.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    What if I don't want to meet? If he doesn't want to meet and talk about it, maybe he hasn't seen each other for three months, I think there must be a problem, and his own words are to talk to him clearly no matter what? It's best to say that if it really doesn't work, it will break up anyway.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Dude, do you know why the failure rate of long-distance relationships is so high, it is because couples rarely see each other, which will make the relationship fade, and once it fades, they will break up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    That's a lack of feelings for you, she doesn't like you. Maybe there's something else, there's a lack of communication between you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Maybe it's going to break up like this.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Keep waiting, she's just gambling on anger, if you don't wait, it means that you have lost patience, and she will be disappointed. It's okay, sooner or later she will forgive you, after this incident, you will be better, don't experience wind and rain, how can you see the rainbow, you just text and say, it doesn't matter if you don't want to see me now, I won't force you, I'll wait for you every day, until you want to see me... Coaxing, the girl hasn't been moving and coaxing lately, but it's still very sincere, and I'm going to behave better after forgiving you, hehe.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Let's figure out why I don't want to see you. As.

    If Du himself has a mistake and thinks of a way to correct his mistake and admit his mistake, he should be sincere and sincere, and send her a text message. If there is something hidden from you, at this time, you have to find out what happened, and then solve it according to the matter. If it's right, it's okay to send her a text message, say something nice, it's a big deal to think of some romantic methods, girls are sometimes hypocritical and need to be coaxed.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There are three reasons why:

    1. I found a new love.

    Second, I vomit with you.

    3. I thought of a surprise for you.

    But in this case, you'd better go to your girlfriend yourself, man, be proactive.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Then you can go and meet other girlfriends...

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If the enemy doesn't move, I won't move, and she will naturally come to you.

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