Now many class reunions show off their wealth, why?

First of all, this is related to the social atmosphere, now this kind of laughing at the poor and not smiling at the prostitute has completed the people more and more worshipping money, and the friendship between classmates should be fundamentally very pure, but most people have experienced the baptism of society, and their inner thoughts have changed. Secondly, most people's hearts want to be recognized and praised by others, and there may be people who are not recognized when they are in school, so after going out of society, those who have achieved a little bit want to show it at the class reunion, saying that they are very good, and hope to be envied and appreciated by classmates or teachers. In the end, maybe the person I liked back then was at the class reunion, and the youthful time left feelings in my heart, so I wanted to show my demeanor in front of the people I cared about in my heart, so that he or she could be impressed by him.

There is a good saying, "What a person lacks in his heart, he shows off, and what a person has low self-esteem, he hides it", which is probably what it means! I found that many people who always show off their brand name with various materials, they are often not spiritually satisfied, so they can only fill it with materials, constantly show off to get the attention of others, and more people's praise and admiration to satisfy their inner vanity, in fact, it is a disease in itself, a disease in the heart! Yishu mentioned a sentence in "Round Dance" that "a truly temperamental lady never shows off everything she has, she doesn't tell people what books she has read, where she has been, how many clothes she has, what jewelry she has bought, because she has no inferiority complex", so a really strong person, he doesn't need to show off anything at all.

The society we live in is a material and utilitarian society, and the longer we stay in society, the more we will be subtly influenced by the social atmosphere. These people who love to show off may not be so good in their student days, or even "lag behind" people, they are eager to prove themselves, and later after entering the society, under the influence of the big environment, they think that "others will respect me if they are rich", and over time they have developed the habit of loving "showing off", which is actually a strong desire for the recognition and respect of others.

I think it's a sign of self-preservation. On the day we stepped out of campus, each of us added a mask of hypocrisy to our faces. In social life, it is actually difficult for us to have simple interpersonal relationships like campus life, and we have to wear this mask of hypocrisy, false smiles, false greetings, false show-offs, and exquisite in all directions.

This is a socially accepted means of interpersonal communication, which can be said to be a kind of "growth". But over time, it has become difficult for us to clearly distinguish between our true selves and our hypocritical selves, so much so that we all show our hypocritical side in front of our former closest classmates.

People who used to always lag behind other classmates were always left behind by teachers or called to the office, and deep down in their hearts, there was always a voice saying to themselves, I will not always be behind. They are not affirmed when they go to school, rarely get praise, in their hearts, they are very eager to be respected, affirmed, praised, especially some people have a deep sense of inferiority in their hearts, they value the evaluation of others more, so when in later years, they have some achievements, they can't wait to be recognized by everyone, and the most convenient way is to show off in the class reunion.

There are more and more successful people among our classmates, they are eager to share his success with us, "Gou Fugui, don't forget", they just want to express that they have not forgotten us, we are still best friends and classmates, if you encounter something you can tell him, he can help will definitely help, I feel that if this is the case, these people are more cute than those who "pretend to be poor" in the classmates and prevent their classmates from being like thieves.

The root of people's inferiority, what was once lacking, whether it is money or official positions, now only a small number of people such as themselves can get it, of course, they have to show off, as the so-called lack of what is to show off.

The original purity has been dyed colorful by the big dye vat of society, and interests and desires are forcing everyone to become more and more realistic, in fact, this is also a normal phenomenon. I think when I was in school, my classmates would compare with each other, and when I entered society, the mentality of comparison was magnified.

People who have been helped by others in their studies and lives, they are not the current Zhi's gratitude, because when they are fishing, they really don't have the ability to repay, a few years later, with their own hard work, they have some influence in the society, and there is more and more free time, I can't help but recall the student days, the grace of the past dripping water, and the charcoal in the snow, in short, all are, with everyone's help, to achieve today's self, so, standing in today's position, Take advantage of your time, experience, and ability, and you should be rewarded and helped.

Showing off wealth is the most important thing in class reunions in modern society, and no one wants to be looked down upon!

Materialism is rampant! Wealth and power are now a symbol of status! It is the mark of the so-called success! So you will show off your wealth!

In a material society, classmates have something to do with their peers, and it's normal for this phenomenon to occur, but it will make the party boring, and there is nothing else to talk about.

There are so many three-legged cats who have the ability to spoil the relationship between classmates, and the more they show off their wealth, they are either lack of affection or lack of love or bad looks.

Prove that I am better than you. I'm better than you. I'm richer than you. Come and worship me. I'm going to be the boss.

There is no need to judge any classmates, you just have a good life with your family! It's not interesting to put it bluntly.

Returning to the hometown has been since ancient times.

The rich should give more charity, and the wise should not show off.

This kind of person is not normal in his heart and gets a sense of satisfaction, but in fact he is nothing, and those who really have the ability and achievements will not say it.

Remembering the bittersweet and eating bad sweet potatoes, compared to the background, the era of no values has passed.

Generally, they are fake and rich, and the real rich people are very low-key, and their wealth is not exposed, and rich people understand this truth. At class reunions, the rich man may cry poor for fear that others will borrow money from him. And those who are fake rich are eager for others to pay attention to him, so they will brag about their wealth, which is the poor man's thinking.

The embodiment of the . 1. The real rich are very low-key, especially in places like class reunions. At class reunions, many rich people will not expose themselves to being good and rich at all.

Because he was afraid that others would get close to him, he begged him for help, and he was even more afraid that his money would arouse the jealousy of others, so he gave himself small shoes to wear. Therefore, when the class reunion is usually held, the rich will take care of the glass hearts of the classmates.

It's not too ostentatious.

Second, the poorer the person, the more he likes to be broad. At class reunions, there will always be two or three people who are very ostentatious, saying that they are good at mixing. In fact, this kind of person is generally not very good.

When he says this, he is packaging himself, and maybe he will borrow money from you to promote his products in the future. Only by proving that he is good and successful, others will lend him money.

3. A rich man will only say that he is rich in front of people who are richer than him. Rich people understand a truth, that is, don't say that you are good in front of people who are not as good as you, which will cause others to be jealous and cause unnecessary trouble to yourself. But in front of people who are richer than themselves, they will definitely not cry poor, but will say that they are good.

Because if you get mixed up badly, people who are richer than you won't want to deal with you.

So those who have been showing off are basically fake rich. In order to let others see that they are good, or to satisfy their vanity.

Or it is to package yourself, so that you can sell yourself like others later. At class reunions, people who mix with ordinary people are generally transparent, because they don't want to pretend to be rich and show off, just quietly participate in class reunions.

People who will always show off are likely to be "slapping their faces and making them fat", and people who just want to show off how good they are likely to not be doing well. Those who are really rich will keep a low profile.

Of course, it is fake and rich, in fact, really rich people will never show off, and they will be particularly low-key, for fear that others will know that they have the ability, such people are really rich.

Those who have been showing off are fake rich, because the real rich man will not care about this.

In addition to showing off his wealth, he just wants to find some connections to see if anyone can help him.

The living environment and economic conditions contribute to the occurrence of this phenomenon, and the degree of this phenomenon will improve with age.

Although with the development of society, the gap between the rich and the poor has widened, this is a reality, and then there has been a wind of comparison, which is an unhealthy wind, but after all, it is a small number of people, maybe you meet this kind of people, but you must know that most people are still cultivated, do not be pessimistic, you must take this phenomenon as the driving force for your own struggle, and wait for your own achievements, you can carry forward the positive energy of the society, lead the social trend, and also impress those people, and change their concepts with facts.

Now there are fashionable class reunions, and students with successful careers will of course become the focus of the reunion.

Old classmates who haven't seen each other for many years get together to talk about their career prospects, which can also increase the friendship between classmates.

It can't be said that it's all like this, it should be very rare, this is directly related to family education, parents may be a person who loves to show off, parents never educate their children to be low-key, no matter how rich your parents are, it's your parents' not yours.

Personally, I think that the current class reunion contact is secondary, and the main thing is to develop contacts for myself.

It seems that this is the case, so let's mix it up less.

A class reunion is all about connecting and connecting feelings.

Personally, I don't think it's meaningful, and I don't have the face to participate if I don't mix well. There are all kinds of show-offs, and there is nothing to communicate.

The New Year is a good time for class reunions, many people go back to their hometowns to put most of their time on class reunions, however, with the improvement of living standards, the development of old classmates who go to different places is different, many people say that they have no feelings for class reunions, and the party has become more and more a "show off wealth" for some people.

Class reunion should be a thing full of good memories, but now it is listed by some people as one of the "nine fears" of the New Year, and some people jokingly call themselves "fear of gathering", mainly because they are afraid of comparing themselves with each other in the party, worrying that their career development and living conditions are not as good as others, and they are embarrassed to face the crowd of classmates and old friends.

The class reunion, which was supposed to reminisce about the past and recount friendships, has gradually evolved into a vanity fair for showing off, fighting for wealth, comparing or accumulating contacts, but some people believe that with the development of students' careers, there will always be people who will make progress, feel inferior or difficult to accept in class reunions, and some people's lack of self-confidence is at work.

People are more popular than people, if you often compare like this, and take this very superficial money status as the standard of success, I think it is not advisable, everyone still has their own mentality, and the measurement of success should not be simply based on money or social status, but to adjust their mentality.

If you put your mind at ease, you won't get entangled. Practically everyone has a way of doing things.

If you look at it with a normal state of mind, then you won't be in a tangled state, and you won't feel very uncomfortable.