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This is the best memory of teenagers, puppy love...
How do you know what reality is at this age?
They just want to love and love. Is it so hard? Is that right?
Girls will always suffer if they pay so much. He said it might have been a setback to separate. Or maybe you're tired and want to get your attention back.
At the age of 17, I appreciate that you are so serious about your feelings. Because, many people at this age, they feel that someone likes to dating, often regardless of the consequences! So, continue to learn to be serious about everything, especially feelings.
Friendship will inevitably have hurt, pain, disappointment... Target.. Not to mention love!
But, now the main thing is, is this your love? Or is it a little better than friendship? or appreciation, or something like that...
17-year-old, 20-year-old things can't be grasped. And how do you know what will happen in the future?
And if you promise him, it's your promise to him! Maybe you don't think it's a big deal, but the girl is so careful that she remembers him in the deepest part of her psyche. So, if you don't fulfill these promises, you may end up with a girl who will never be happy.
It may be too much of an exaggeration, but it's definitely possible.
The impression is only temporary. The emotion can't last forever. Be constantly updated.
3 years later, you may meet a better and more suitable girl, 3 years later, he may also meet a boy with better conditions and more suitable for himself, at that time you or he will think, oh no! I promise Him His promise to me ...
Then you will really miss out on this happiness ...
So, brother...
Let's concentrate on reading.
Study hard to make yourself better in the future, and it's still too late to pursue it...
You know? Feelings are not the whole of life!
Think it through...
At 17, it's time to grow up!
Support you :)
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Let the happy thing go on, accumulate happiness to fight the sadness that may come.
Classic not?
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You're too young. How can you support him if you don't have money. Excuse me.
You tell him that when I make money, I will marry you
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Love is built on a certain material basis, you have nothing now, talk about love.
What do you take to love, and can love really be eaten?
Practical point.
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As a relationship that has passed, it is better to let go. Let's not talk about the consequences of such a reckless invitation, just whether she will agree, what to talk about after getting together, and your emotional control are some very troublesome problems.
First of all, you were just tacit and did not have a more precise relationship, and this regret will affect your rational judgment. Secondly, after so many years, you don't know what life she is living, and you don't know that she may be disappointed after getting together now, and then regret the original miss or something else, it is better to let the feeling of first love stay in your heart in a beautiful form. Finally, since she hasn't been seen at class reunions for so many years, she will definitely not be invited by you easily, and even if she agrees, this unusual behavior will attract the attention of her and your relatives and friends.
This kind of thing is small and small, but big is also big. After all, both of them are adults and have their own families and responsibilities, so it is better to handle this kind of matter that is easy to cause emotional disputes.
The above is only a personal opinion, and the key is to do it yourself.
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I think it's better not to meet, even if you have a clear conscience, but if your wife knows, what will she think? Now that we're all here, let's be relieved, everyone has their own life.
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As a post-90s generation, I may not be qualified to speak. However, we all live in a China with a strong traditional color, and receive a Western-style open education. It's hard to live your own real life.
On the one hand, most of our parents and the people around us have a traditional vision, and on the other hand, we have our own dreams and hopes! My advice is: if you can let go of everything and follow your own psychology, then you should be brave enough to do it, because you think of contacting her, and as for what you want to say, you are saying what you want to say!
If you can't let go, you are worried about what people around you will think of you, this kind of worry, more than you are urgent to see her, it is better not to contact, because once you contact, the result is something you can't afford! However, I prefer that you don't go, the power of shock under tradition is really great! One of my sisters is because she is entangled with a man, and now her parents ignore her, her friends are unstable, and she has a mess!
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I already have a family, so I don't want it, I can only take it as the best memory.
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Don't meet again, it's best to keep a good feeling in your heart. Now you don't have anything to do with each other. Why bother her.
First love is the most beautiful thing. I also often dream of the boy I had a crush on in junior high school, the most innocent feeling at the beginning. But it's gone, forget about it.
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You can get in touch, provided that you're a friend, have a meal or something, but I don't dare to say, that woman will make an appointment, or maybe, he's about to forget about you.
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If your wife agrees, you must know that this relationship is difficult to explain to your wife, and the scope of involvement is very large. It is recommended that you do not contact!
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Class reunions can be chatted.
Give up, if I were him, I would ignore you, you broke up first, and now you are reconciled, you are the vegetable garden gate, you can go in and out if you want,
As long as you live, there must be a play, you go and find out if there is your rival in love, if your girl's own problem is easier to handle, I think the problem of your parents should not appear, and it will be more difficult to deal with the rival, after all, you don't have an advantage in distance, she doesn't like to be too far away, it means that there is no sense of security, you know how to do this kind of problem, don't be too sudden, it will scare her, I am a girl, it is estimated that she is in a tangled period, at this time it will be a push, you still have a play, don't give up, but if you really meet a girl who is better than her, you have to learn to make trade-offs.
No matter how much you worry, you can't leave your work alone, and only think about personal emotional issues. Men can't do that. It's actually very simple, you are doubly good to her, and if she chooses you, it means that you are more important than that person. >>>More
Although separated, but you can contact through the Internet, or **, or letters, or wait, I can't understand your heartbreaking discomfort, but I still support you, I hope you can be together in the end, eliminate difficulties, have lovers eventually become dependents, you are a boy, you have to learn to be strong first, in order to protect her, since you love her so much, you have to work hard, maybe after hard work you will go to a foreign country to find her, you can be together, no, now it's just temporary, As long as you want to, you can do anything.
In fact, it's also a matter of family, with whom's surname! If you love her, you can persuade your family's @ if she loves you very much, she will think about you!