What should I do if a child is timid and can t fight back?

Really don't teach children to hit people! Now he is just cowardly and doesn't dare to hit anyone, in case one day he returns and wins, then your child may be difficult to stop! Boys, in particular, have an aggressive mentality, and if your child doesn't fight back, it doesn't mean that he won't be aggressive.

But you can't let your child be beaten, long-term beating will make your child feel angry and unhappy about the world, and if this negative emotion breaks out one day, the consequences are unimaginable.

In fact, I think parents should come forward and find the parents of those children to reflect the matter! Let those children and their parents know the seriousness of the matter, and tell your child the right thing to do next time they encounter such a thing, (by the way) hehe, so that your child can have a correct outlook on life.

I'm in college now, I was about the same as your child when I was a child, because of family reasons, I was a little inferior since I was a child, I was looked down upon by my classmates, and I was often bullied by others...

But then after meeting a few friends, I gradually let go of my mood, and because of the gradual improvement of my grades, I had a certain amount of self-confidence, and then I learned taekwondo by chance, and now not only has my body become stronger, but also I am confident, and no one will take the initiative to bully me. Moreover, the first sentence that the taekwondo teacher taught us at that time was: learning taekwondo is not to fight, but to strengthen the body and protect yourself and your family!

But people who learn taekwondo do do not allow others to bully themselves again and again!

Hehe, so I suggest that you send your child to learn taekwondo, it will really have a profound impact on his future life!

Hope my answer is helpful to you, hehe.

There are no timid people in this world, only people who are not aggressive by nature.

Your child has a good character, nurture it well.

Do you want your children to be like those two bastards, who have nothing to do with them?

What you should teach your child is the truth of being a human being, and teach him from an early age.

This is not a war year, and self-cultivation is very important.

Alas, this can only tell you that your child is more cowardly and has no explosive power!! Go to the children who often play with him and beat him, I imagine that some parents should have done this, but it is more wrong, or find his parents to comment, let the parents of those children teach them, maybe they don't dare.

You little kid is very kind.

Let's learn taekwondo.

Or karate or something.

It can also strengthen the body.

Kill more than one stone. But don't ask him to do anything to other kids.

Or you'll regret it......

Don't let him play with those two kids, it's a big deal, when they hit your kids again that day, you will come forward and scare the two kids.

Let him go to exercise, learn martial arts or something.

Let him practice beating people starting with his family.

Find a kid and let him hit him, he doesn't hit him, you hit him.

Grow up and play less with that kid.

In life, many children will not fight back after being beaten, and there are two main reasons. The first reason is that he is relatively thin and weak, and he is afraid that he will do it himself, which will cause the other party to beat him more violently. The second reason is that because I am more timid, afraid, and inferior, I can only let him beat myself.

In either case, parents should educate their children appropriately. <>

When it comes to children's education, everyone must be very distressed, and they don't know how to educate their children. But if you don't let the child fight back, it will make the child more and more cowardly, so the correct way is to ask the cause, process, and effect of the matter, and help the child analyze the right side and the wrong side in the matter, and then make a corresponding evaluation of the child's behavior. If the child is the one who was beaten, you can find the teacher or the other parent's parents to comment, ask the other child to apologize to their child, and also tell the child that in the future, when this situation is encountered, the teacher should solve the problem.

Many parents are unreasonable, once they hear that their children are beaten, they will be very angry, and they will also go to the school to find the teacher and the child who beat them, criticize them, and will also criticize the children and cry, and at the same time, it will also cause a certain shadow to the children's psychology. Therefore, in life, you can show your child some animation of the beating to help the child analyze the fight, so that the child will have a clear understanding of the fight. Therefore, when this situation occurs, it will not be beaten, but will come up with corresponding solutions to solve the problem.

I believe that through the introduction, everyone understands that children can be educated through these two methods. However, each child's personality, including temperament, is different, so appropriate changes should be made. You must know that children want to hear praise and encouragement from their parents, and they don't want to hear criticism, so parents should not be angry, and do not beat their children or scold them, which is not good for them.

And only when parents seek justice for their children, then they can be able to have a tall image under the child's psychology and tree.

No, being beaten and not fighting back is upbringing, when children play together, if the other party is very young, ignorant, a small fight between playmates, or because of some innocuous small contradictions such as grabbing toys, disagreement and other trivial contradictions and being "attacked" by the other party, these "attacks" have not had an impact, humble to the other party, not fighting back is a kind of upbringing. When some children are bullied, they want to fight back, but they usually receive more "virtue education", which makes him have a lot of concerns when fighting back.

This is not the reason for timidity, it should be the reason for personality, and it may also be the reason for family education, but it is also related to timidity, and parents should educate their children well according to their children's personalities.

Yes, if a child does not fight back after being beaten by others, he is particularly timid, afraid that he will not be able to beat the other party, and he is afraid that the other party will continue to beat him.

No. It may be because the child is kinder and thinks that violence is a bad behavior and is unwilling to use violence against others.

The child is small, and he is beaten and does not dare to fight back, but only cries. In this case, parents should be properly educated. Of course, children should not be allowed to be the perpetrators of violence.

But you can't always be bullied by others. Three-year-olds. I have just come into contact with some of the problems of human nature.

So lead it right. When a child is bullied by others. Parents should tell their children.

I can stay away from the children who hit people. The second is to take the initiative to tell parents. Or take the initiative to tell the kindergarten teacher.

The teacher mediates. It is up to the parents to mediate. Parents should also inform the parents of the child who hit the child in a timely manner.

Let the parents of the other party go back and educate their own children.

Although children cannot be taught to fight violence with violence. But. Tell your child to call back if necessary.

In this way, other children will not dare to bully her again. Sometimes parents can do a simple presentation at home. When dad goes.

When bullying mom. Mom took the initiative to fight back. At this time, it may have an impact on the child.

Of course, when the parents are performing. As a mother, the first thing is to stop Dad's actions. Say it out loud.

You can call back if necessary. Let the child gradually learn to stop first. If you can't stop it, you will fight back.

After all, children will not hurt much if they hit each other. Because they don't have that much strength either. Just tell your child to protect themselves in this way.

With development and progress. Bullying incidents on campus are also endless. Hence our education of children.

It is also necessary to grasp a degree step by step.

I think children should participate in some when they are younger. The study of taekwondo. Or Sanda learning.

When it comes to bullying. You can fight back hard. Prevent bullying from happening.

You can't let your child put up with it. Let your child learn to protect himself.

In fact, there is a fight between children. It's all short-lived. Watching them fight just now.

Reconciled again a few minutes later. And then we had a lot of fun together. So sometimes you don't have to get too tangled.

Or there is no need to teach children something. There are some things that children learn gradually in their daily lives.

Three-year-olds should be in kindergarten. Choose a kindergarten with high quality parents for your child. Relatively speaking, it will be much better.

Because children live with their parents. A parent's words and actions have a decisive impact on a child's life. Therefore, choose a kindergarten with relatively high quality parents.

Relatively speaking, the quality of kindergarten children is relatively high. Therefore, the probability of children hitting each other is also relatively low. Parents don't need to deliberately teach their children some ways to fight back.

In short, the little ones together. Small friction may occur frequently. Including snatching toys. Including playing some public facilities and so on. Parents should give a step-by-step guide. Make your child's growth happier and healthier.

It is not normal for a child to fight back after being beaten, such a child does not know how to protect himself, parents should teach their children to learn to protect themselves, so that when the child faces others bullying him, he can fight back correctly. Many children are not fully aware of the outside world, and they think that others are just joking when they hit them, so they don't pay too much attention to it. Some children grow up under this kind of education, and they don't have a complete understanding of the outside world, so they become the bullied side over time.

When they encounter problems, they do not want to seek back their legitimate rights and interests, but are unwilling to make changes. What's more, they don't know how to solve the problem, and it is precisely because parents do not put the education methods in place when they are educating that it will lead to children who cannot fight back and scold back.

Parents should teach their children that they can not fight back if they are beaten, but they must learn to seek justice for themselves. Solve this matter well, start from your own interests, and let the child understand that he must react in time when he is beaten, rather than being wronged there. When children have a sense of self-preservation, then their behavior will change.

Only when parents can educate their children from the heart, then they will let their children have a comprehensive understanding of themselves.

Nowadays, many children are still very kind, and what they do when facing the outside world is to hope for world peace. But there is a premise for this kind of peace, that is, people do not offend me. Parents should understand that if the child is blindly bullied, it is a wrong phenomenon, and if you fail to correct this phenomenon in your own way, then the child's growth will change.

In fact, it is right for children to grow up in an environment of love and learn to recover the legal rights and interests they deserve for themselves. Don't let your child become too timid, otherwise, your child will be reluctant to step out of the outside world because of being bullied.

This is very abnormal because the child's personality is very timid and cowardly, and it may also be related to the child's mental health, which is generally the case with autistic children.

If it is abnormal, it proves that the child's personality is particularly cowardly, and it also proves that the child's personality is more introverted.

This is a normal phenomenon, and this situation may be due to the fact that the parents do not pay attention to the guidance, so the child is more obedient.

This is not normal, you have to have a bottom line in everything you do, and you have to fight back when others beat you.

A child may not fight back because he or she is timid, or because he knows that fighting back is a bad behavior. Some children are very timid at a very young age, and if they are hit by others, they will have an instinctive fear of this person, and it is simply impossible for them to fight back in such a situation, so there will be a phenomenon of not fighting back. For such children, parents should know how to enhance their children's self-confidence and make them stronger, so that they can better face future challenges.

However, some children do not fight back when they are beaten because they know that hitting someone is not good, and at this time the child will know how to deal with it in the right way. They won't fight back at first, and then they can go to someone who can handle the matter to help them solve these things, and all in all, this is a very good way for children to solve these problems. The education received by such children is very prominent and very significant, so parents should also learn this way of education.

Some parents will tell their children to go to the extreme of telling their children that if they are bullied, they will fight back, and in this case, the children are likely to be stimulated with some violent factors. If children develop this kind of violence at a very young age, it is likely that various problems will arise in the future. Therefore, parents must pay attention not to let their children develop such a character, which will have a very bad impact on the child in the future.

Parents should let their children learn to solve these problems by themselves, and only when they learn to solve problems can they take a better path in the future. If children fight violence with violence, then children are likely to take a bad path in the future. When educating children, parents should guide their children in the direction of positive energy as much as possible, and only in this way can it be regarded as a better education for children.