As a teacher, what should I do when I encounter a parent giving gifts? To accept or not to collect?

It must not be accepted. Since I am a teacher, teacher ethics comes first.

Don't be embarrassed to face such parents. Sternly refused in person, emphasizing that every classmate is treated equally, and I won't care about your child.

I don't think this parent will give any more gifts in the future.

If you think you're doing the right thing, you can take it!

Now every school has it, and basically it is bribe, depending on what kind of etiquette it is and what the reason is.

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1 You are really a good teacher, thank you for the cultivation of our children's jujube and sleepy children, a small gift is not a tribute, and please accept our sincerity. 2 Teacher, just take it! This gift represents the hearts of our parents, it is really worthless, but it is our respect for you, the teacher.

3 The old man is a Kaishi, the courtesy is light and affectionate, and please don't think too much about it, don't have a burden. 4 Teacher, don't worry, we don't give gifts to "make connections", let alone "bribe" you. We are grateful for your selfless imparting of knowledge, for your care for children, and for your hard work.

5 Teacher, this is just a small gift, compared to your guidance and help to students, it is really not worth mentioning, please accept it! 6 Teacher, we are all a family, please don't be too polite. 7 One day as a teacher and a father for life, teacher, you are the closest person to our children, give you a small gift, this is what we should do, please accept it!

8 Teacher, this gift represents our respect for your hard work, but also for your selfless dedication. 9 If you really don't accept gifts, then that's fine, I hope you have the opportunity to come to our house, we will cook you some food, express our love for you, give a chance, okay? 10 Today is your feast, and if you really don't receive gifts, then accept our blessings for you!

Just insist on not collecting it.

Refuse the parents at the first time and explain the reasons. I will express to the parents of the students that they thank him for his recognition of me, but ask them to take back the gifts. Because giving and receiving gifts is against the requirements of the regulations.

I won't do anything that violates the rules. In addition to that, I will inform the parent that I understand his feelings.

Arrange more time to do home visits, talk to parents about the child's situation, be specific, detailed, and have solutions. When parents see their children's progress, they understand the teacher's good intentions.

Communicate with parents about their children's situation and cooperate with home and school.

In order to avoid any worries on the part of parents, teachers will communicate with them about their child's performance in school. Including his grades, progress, shining points, and his problems, etc. For example, in this exam, he has improved in mathematics, he is usually very willing to help his classmates, and he is good at sports, so it is recommended that parents can cultivate his interests and respect his hobbies.

For another example, he usually likes to slip and has a short attention span, and the teacher will tell parents how to cultivate their children's attention in home education and stimulate their interest in learning. Through the above conversations, parents can be relieved of their concerns, let them know that the teacher's attention to the child will not change because of the gift, and let them understand the teacher's personality.

In the class meeting or parent-teacher meeting, it is firmly stated that gifts will not be accepted, because receiving gifts will cause teachers to feel that students are treated differently, so that other students who do not give gifts will be anxious. In fact, some parents "help" their children to surpass others and enjoy more resources by giving gifts, which is a bad side of the Chinese people. And education is about changing that.

According to your own principles, if what you want in your heart now is not to receive, then maintain your thoughts, don't be damaged by these habits of this society, if you want to collect it a little bit now, then put an end to this kind of behavior, maybe the first one is not much, but if you collect more, trouble will come! That's not about taking care of a little, it's about taking care of everything!

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Teacher's Day itself promotes respect for teachers and the importance of education. Now, with the rapid development of social economy, some parents give gifts to teachers in the name of Teacher's Day to make their children get better care from teachers at school, and some students give gifts to teachers to get more care from teachers. This kind of behavior is a prank of the utilitarian thinking of parents, it "tarnishes" Teacher's Day itself and defiles the souls of children, which is not to be encouraged.

Parents and students give gifts to teachers on Teacher's Day, which inevitably has a negative impact on teachers' teaching. If a teacher receives a gift from a student's parents, it is easy for the teacher to adopt a tolerant attitude when the student has bad behavior. Over time, it can hurt students.

At the same time, the gifts of some parents will also cause great pressure on other poor students, which is not conducive to the growth of students, deepens the inferiority complex of difficult students, and is not conducive to the good development of the relationship between teachers and students. If this phenomenon develops, it will create an atmosphere of comparison among students and even lead them astray.

Personally, I think it's better to have more contact with a teacher than to give a gift, because teachers are also ordinary people, although now real life makes people more and more demanding of material things, but sometimes not everyone is interested in material things I am also a teacher I don't agree with parents after all, it is the responsibility and obligation of teachers to educate children, but if you meet a very irresponsible teacher, you can only approach him in the way he likes, but most teachers are not so unqualified.

If this happens, education in China will not develop and there will be no need to give gifts, but thank you letters are important. For teachers who are serious about educating their students, receiving a letter of appreciation from their parents at the end of the school year is more joyful and proud than receiving any award. That kind of happiness cannot be expressed in words.

Just like I celebrate my birthday, receiving letters of congratulations from my children is more precious than receiving any gifts. I believe that most teachers will cherish sincere thank-you letters.

If you really thank the teacher from the bottom of your heart, you should not just give a red envelope, but should be indifferent to your child; Instead, we should help teachers supervise children to prepare school supplies, guide children to prepare and review, and teach children to respect and appreciate teachers. In our daily lives, we often have to thank those who think about ourselves. I don't think teachers should be left out of these goals.

However, teachers don't teach just one child, so sometimes you need to think a lot. It's best to give gifts that express your heart so that both the giver and the recipient will be happy.

I don't think it's good because parents give gifts to teachers so that teachers can give their children special treatment, including in school and school life, but such actions will encourage teachers to be arrogant and form a bad social atmosphere.

I don't think it's necessary. Because a teacher's job is to teach and educate people, if parents give gifts to teachers, it will cause teachers to change their original intention of education.

I think this is a very bad phenomenon, which will have a very bad impact on the society, go against the original intention of the teaching profession, and corrupt the social atmosphere.

Summary. You can say something like this: 1. Teacher, you don't want a gift, but please accept my heart. You are horizontal and vertical, bit by bit, wholeheartedly, sincerely, and diligent all your life.

Dear teacher, you have taught me to be "consistent". Wishing you a safe life! 2. Teacher, you don't want a gift, but please accept my heart.

You are the mountain, tall and straight; You are pine, verdant; You are an eagle, take me to flight; You are an umbrella that shelters me from the wind and rain. Wishing you eternal good health! 3. Teacher, you don't want gifts, but please accept my heart.

Dear teacher, students would like to say to you that you will always be my teacher no matter when and where! I love you and please accept the best wishes from the students. I wish you a happy and happy day!

4. Teacher, you don't want a gift, but please accept my heart. You have silent and selfless dedication, you have the spirit of spring silk, you have the fruits of peach and plum all over the world, and you have earth-shattering causes. Have a good time!

5. Teacher, you don't want gifts, but please accept my wishes. You teach books, and you open countless wonderful chapters of life; Thou hast grown into a man, and thou hast grown into a son and daughter of the world. Wishing you endless and sincere wishes!

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You can say something like this: 1. Teacher, you don't want a gift, but please accept my heart. You are horizontal and vertical, bit by bit, wholeheartedly, sincerely, and diligent all your life. Dear teacher, you have taught me to be "consistent".

Wishing you a safe life! 2. Teacher, you don't want a gift, but please accept my heart. You are the mountain, tall and straight; You are pine, verdant; You are an eagle, take me to flight; You are an umbrella that shelters me from the wind and rain.

Wishing you eternal good health! 3. Teacher, you don't want gifts, but please accept my heart. Dear teacher, students would like to say to you that you will always be my teacher no matter when and where!

I love you and please accept the best wishes from the students. I wish you a happy and happy day! 4. Teacher, you don't want a gift, but please accept my heart.

You have silent and selfless dedication, you have the spirit of spring silk, you have the fruits of peach and plum all over the world, and you have earth-shattering causes. Have a good time! 5. Teacher, you don't want gifts, but please accept my wishes.

You teach books, and you open countless wonderful chapters of life; Thou hast grown into a man, and thou hast grown into a son and daughter of the world. Wishing you endless and sincere wishes!

Do you have any questions, dear?

Hope mine is helpful to you.

You should say: Thank you for your trust in the school and me! Put your children here to learn, don't worry, I will teach them well!

You have received the gift, but the gift cannot be received! The school has a policy that does not accept gifts from parents!

1.First of all, be sure to respect parents. Parents' gifts show that parents want teachers to pay more attention to their children or want to thank teachers for their education, so they must understand the starting point of parents and cut into this problem from the starting point of parents!

2.Secondly, when refusing a gift from a parent, be sure to explain the reason to the parent. Here's what we can say to my parents:

Teachers can understand the feelings of parents, since teachers are in this position, they will definitely do their duty, parents teach their children to me, and I will definitely be able to treat them the same as my own children.

3.Finally, explain to parents that it is the teacher's responsibility to teach and educate people, so I still advise parents to take things back, hoping that parents can respect the teacher's profession!

But in general, parents will think that you are posturing. Influenced by traditional culture.

Influence, and based on practical life experience, many people regard giving money and gifts to pull relationships as the preferred means to connect feelings, obtain benefits, and solve troubles. Teachers also eat fireworks in the world.

It must be a fake Qinggao, right?

Therefore, at this time, parents will not back down, and the teacher's attitude must be resolute. The so-called "euphemism" is inappropriate here, maybe people mistakenly think that you want to welcome or refuse?

I am particularly opposed to teachers accepting money from parents. Leaving aside those big and empty truths, it is extremely uncost-effective to evaluate from the perspective of risk and return.

The amount of money and property given by parents is generally not much, hundreds or thousands, which is quite considerable. But what he asks from you is very much: give the child a good seat, ask more questions in class, tutor more after class, talk more about your heart, take care of your life, and so on.

This is not a one-shot deal, and it is not worth it to receive this little thing, which has to be in your heart for two or three years.

Summary: If parents are not happy one day, a ** report to the Education Bureau, and the above will immediately come down with great fanfare to investigate, fine, report, and punish, and make you infamous in minutes. Last year, a parent was dissatisfied with the teacher and sent a red envelope of 88 yuan to the teacher.

Although the teacher immediately returned a 90 yuan red envelope to the parents, the parents deliberately did not accept it. The final result was not surprising, the teacher was disciplined.

1.Direct rejection. Explain to parents that as a people's teacher and an engineer shaping the human soul, it is their duty to educate children, and both the school and the Ministry of Education have clear requirements not to accept gifts from parents at will.

A heart received it, but please take it back as a present.

2.Tactfully refused. First of all, I would like to thank parents for their affirmation and recognition of our teachers' work, but as a people's teacher, it is an obligation to educate children, and the country and school have given encouragement and recognition to children's education.

If you accept a gift, you are ashamed of your industry.

3.Get vaccinated in advance. Before Teacher's Day or any holiday, say hello to parents in advance and refuse to accept gifts.

The weight of the title of people's teacher is not something that can be weighed as a gift, and it is already satisfying to be recognized and affirmed by all parents, and the gift is just something outside the body.

As a teacher, seeing the children you educate and raise to get ahead is already the best gift in the world.