For feelings, whether to give up or communicate

Is there no other choice between giving up and communicating?

It's just two extreme choices, isn't it?

You have to be yourself

Just love him with peace of mind

Of course, if there is a good one, don't hang yourself with him

It's not good, and you don't look forward to it all day

That's it、Maybe it's hard to understand.

Naturally, it's fine

Just like in the first place, why were you with him?

If you love him who talks to you sweetly all day long、

So why did you stay with this person who always snubbed you in the first place?

Didn't see it clearly? So why not see clearly?

Anyway、Now you can see clearly、Right?

If you love him after the change, then give up

If you love him now, then please continue

A little empathetic, seeing you write and you are also exchanging emails, reminds me of a person.

Give it up. If he loves you, these are not reasons and excuses.

If you don't love, anything you want will become an excuse and a reason.

Work hard and believe in something. When you get better, there will be a better one.

When the eyes are magnified, how can these men be rare.

I don't think he loves you.

Feelings are something that can't come barely.

In that case, don't waste time.

Many people are reluctant to mention the word breakup.

But if you think about it, you will find out.

Sometimes a breakup isn't necessarily a good idea.

After a breakup, I was able to be friends.

It's weird for everyone to be in this way.。。

There's no need to put it off, it's not going to work out at all.

If you don't have feelings, don't waste your time.

It's hard to give up, but time can change everything.

Sometimes you have to make a cruel decision.

Be strong, let him go, and let you go.

You'll all be able to find the right one. Since you don't love it, what's the use of dragging it.

Baby, don't lie to yourself and say maybe he still loves me.

Baby, if you love you, he will hang on to you, not perfunctory you.

If you love you, he will give you a ** every day to see if you are safe and ask you what you are doing.

Don't tell yourself that it's okay to worry about coming home when you get to work. That's comforting yourself. Don't live in the world you think you want anymore, okay?

It's hard to face reality, but when you're done, you'll find that I've come over. Don't kid yourself.

The two of us will change the way we communicate with each other, and we will also change our attitude towards each other, so that we can change the way we communicate with each other.

If you want to enhance the communication between the two parties in a relationship of feeling, you must respect the other party and put both parties in an equal position, so that you can better communicate with each other.

If you want to improve the communication between each other, you must need to sit down and chat more with the two of you when you have nothing to do, and then when necessary, you can go to a coffee shop or a bubble tea shop to talk to each other, which is also very good. Chang Ying.

3. Most of the time, the contradictions in life formed by long-term habits are that different people cannot be resolved because of their different personalities, and finally the Cold War destroys the feelings between each other. In fact, for us, most of the time the contradictions in life are caused by the different personalities of different people, and they cannot be resolved in the end, and most of the time the Cold War-style contradictions will also lead to the breakdown of the feelings between the two sides, and the misunderstanding between each other will deepen.

Most of the time, the reason why there is a love that cannot be shared is also because there are many contradictions between the two that cannot be resolved, precisely because of the difference in the three views, and there will be many differences in behavior expression and lifestyle, which leads to the intensification of contradictions and ultimately cannot be resolved.

You can quarrel with any little thing in life, and no one can persuade anyone. For example, you can quarrel about whatever you eat today.

quarrel at every turn, think that the other party is an unloyal person, always cuckold himself, and then turn over old accounts to quarrel.

If love can't communicate, it can only create a problem. It's just that they don't know each other well enough, so even if they barely stay together, there will definitely be a lot of conflicts in the future.

Both are self-centered, thinking that the other party will always owe themselves, and what they pay will always be their own, and if they don't get anything in return, the contradiction will be more serious slowly.

The values are different, one party values the material more, and everything in life is based on the material. On the other hand, art and ideals are more valued, and you can live with flowers. No one is wrong, but no one understands anyone.

1.Angry and angry. Some people say to break up as soon as their emotions come up, and even Balabala turns over the old accounts of the two people before and quarrels, this kind of communication is actually meaningless, and will only destroy the relationship between the two people.

2.Don't make it clear, digest the emotions yourself. If you don't talk about it, it will always exist, and if you encounter the same problem in the future, you will still not be able to get around.

Therefore, it is recommended that the communication between two people is still a face-to-face conversation calmly.

First, forced Q&A, some questions are not willing to be asked by the other party, don't keep asking. Second, self-righteousness, there are many times when the other party does not focus on the truth of the facts, but on an attitude of yours. Before expressing it, you must think more about whether it will hurt the other person.

If you grasp a small thing and don't let go, you have to fight each other to the end. This will only consume the patience between you, and once you lose your patience, then the breakup is not far away.

When you chat with him, ignoring your chat invitation and feeling a cold reception weakens the intimacy of the relationship. Conflict avoidance, quarrel is essentially a process of seeking resonance, but avoiding conflict can only escalate small contradictions into big estrangements.

The way of communication that complains about each other, complaining that the other party is not good, is all negative emotions.

Blame communication, always feel that others are wrong, but you are not at fault.

Expose short-term communication, hurt others and hurt yourself.

Don't be reluctant to do anything because of time, if you really love him and feel that you are happy with him, then you should satisfy him, if you think that his requirements are not to make you motivated, but to satisfy his own vanity, then you should separate, there is cleanliness This can't be regarded as a problem that only appears now, seven years, you should get used to it, clean is good, although he is too much, but you have to think, it is better than dirty.

If you love him, you give him everything you can, if you feel that you are tired, you can also give up on him, he puts pressure on you, is hoping that you will live better, if he just unilaterally puts pressure on you, and it doesn't feel related to you, it means that he doesn't like you enough, so you still love him, you choose to bear it, slowly try to change her, if not, then you leave her.

The Buddha said: "All living beings can be saved", you must first clarify your own position, and you have to think about your own mistakes, men, I think that men are people who do not let women suffer, women are a rib in the man's body, you still have to be kind to "yourself", you find a time to have a good chat with him, ask him what kind of life he wants, you can be satisfied, if you love her, and you can be satisfied, then be satisfied. If you love her and can't be satisfied, then you should be happy that he is leaving, because he is free to pursue the life he wants, and you should bless her.

If you don't love him anymore, that's a different story. Also, I don't believe you've been nice to her and lukewarm to you. Finally, I wish the landlord can come together with the person he loves, and love each other forever until the moment of the end of his life.

True love should be fought together and cherished together. Such a girl is really realistic and insecure. You should talk calmly, if you both cherish each other, you will fight together, instead of letting you bear the pressure of life alone.

Let's talk to her yourself, I hope you don't miss your true love! Remember, compromised love is called a burden!!

The girl is really realistic, but there is no way, the reality makes our minds more sober, so we learned to struggle not to do nothing, but some of her habits are really unbearable, although to love her to tolerate everything she has, but vexatious is really not good, friends, people often say that it is better to demolish ten temples than to destroy a pro, but I can only say sorry, or break up, after all, she brought it up, but you have to continue to struggle, for the next girl who understands you, just don't put too much pressure on yourself! Come on... Hey.

Are you sure she's not empathetic and using this as an excuse to talk to you about breaking up?

her"Suddenly, she was separated from me"And "moved into her company dormitory" and "occasionally came back for a meal and left immediately" is something that people who love each other will do?

Also, "It's not that he has bad shortcomings, I can bear it and understand." "You can do this now, but what about after marriage? You really have to think about whether you can accept her for the rest of your life.

** people have a concept of "stop loss", in short, "cutting meat", which refers to a ** loss when it reaches a certain amount, it will be cut out in time to avoid forming a larger loss. Professionals often use the "crocodile rule" to illustrate the importance of "stop loss" – let's say a crocodile bites your foot, and if you try to break free of your foot with your hand, the crocodile will bite your foot and hand at the same time. The more you struggle, the more you get bitten.

So, when a crocodile bites your foot, your only chance of survival is to sacrifice one foot.

You can also learn from this principle in marriage and love - if you break up with him now, you will delay 5 years of youth, delay until next year is delay for 6 years, and delay until the year after next is delay for 7 years......And if you marry the wrong person, you will be delayed for a lifetime.

Marriage is a lifetime, you have to figure out what she wants to do now.

What's the point of her asking for money, for a house, and not for your feelings?

If she's just momentarily confused, then you can solve the problem with the right medicine.

Give me two years, when you have money, when you are talking about feelings, and you want to buy a house in Shenzhen" This condition is the material foundation, but not the necessary foundation.

So, whether you want to resolutely "stop loss" depends on your judgment of the market outlook of this "**" - she now says that she wants money and a house, and when you are satisfied, does she want a 200-square-meter house and more money? It took 7 years to get along, and her love for you is like this, will this change when you get married? Is your love for her strong enough to support you in her constant demands that she make her request?

If all of the above are negative, it is recommended that you "stop loss" in time and re-select "high-performance stocks" to invest.

Or give up, she seems to be more greedy for money. There are times in life when you have to have it, and there are times in life when you don't want it. Or find another better one, the two of you are not suitable.

Sometimes giving up may be a good solution, for the feelings that only focus on money, don't be, the right person in life may not always be wrong, the relationship has deteriorated, it is time to give up. Good luck finding better.

It's good to break up early, if women think that you don't have money, they already have no feelings for you, and they are already talking about feelings with money.

Communicate well, if the woman has been with you for 7 years, she must have other reasons, don't misunderstand.

If it's really because of money, she hates you, you should feel glad that this kind of woman doesn't.

Give it up. She's also with you for the money.

This kind of girl, it is recommended that you break up, otherwise you will have a hard time in the future!

Love should not be premised on money, two people should work together.

Give it up. There's no need to stick to ......

Love is not about money.