The relationship is two sided and I m confused ? There was always a feeling of a wall between us

Under normal circumstances, you can only go to her house to work for her or something when the relationship is good to a certain extent, and in order to do this, you must understand whether she has deep feelings for you now, and if she is completely inseparable from you, you can do so. There is a certain truth in the second distance that produces beauty, the two people have a certain distance in geography, so that your shortcomings are not easy for her to see through, so that she will not dislike you. Third, to understand her personality, see if her belly is large, if she has a large belly, then you can get closer, but the most important thing is that you have to grasp her, and in the case of making sure that she loves you very much, try to get a marriage certificate with her as soon as possible, so that you can clearly help her do things.

Finally, although your parents are good for you, the concept of love in their time is not the same as the current concept of love, so it is recommended that you go to your friends to understand the concept of love, and you can ask them any questions, so that it can really help you.

I'll tell you a classic joke! Grope for it.

My mom said, "Women like handsome boys."

My dad said, "Women like rich boys".

Then I touched my trouser pocket and looked in the mirror. I cried!

You care too much about other people's opinions, do you give others life?

You don't have to decide your feelings, and you can be regarded as an introvert.

A person's life experience, family background, education. And so on, different aspects, different views and methods of doing things!!

It is useless to seek the opinions and ideas of others on these things, after all, this thing is different from other things. He's a thinking thing! (*Hee-hee.......)

Big man, go if you like, stick together every day, the woman said that her lover is good to keep a little distance from herself. Quickly stick together and bear fruit as soon as possible. Amitabha!

Feelings, taking the initiative is not a bad thing, and if you don't take the initiative, it may be bad.

Looks like you're a big fan of your girlfriend, young man. If you like it, do it as you want, cook for her if you want, and buy something if you want! Your parents' opinions are from their point of view, and they may not necessarily understand your feelings.

Love is the foundation of a good marriage, after all, it is not easy to find someone you love, so you must cherish it when you meet it. Everything you do to your girlfriend, if she is a smart girl, I believe she will have a number in her heart, and will know to cherish the relationship between you, and your efforts will not be wasted. Trust me and wish you happiness!

I understand your feelings, but I don't recommend that you go to her house every day to cook for her, you spoil her like this, if one day you really get married, and when you don't spoil her, she will think that you are not good to her. Women love to be cranky, feelings should be built on the basis of equality, only what you can get is not love, I hope not to develop the habit of her dependence on you, my experience is similar to yours, I am already married. But I didn't expect that my favor at that time would achieve the evil results now, and I was almost annoyed to death when I quarreled almost every day.

Finally, I hope you can be happy!

She shouldn't have bought anything! Because girls will feel that they owe you! If you buy frequently, I believe you will not be in the long run! In addition to major festivals, think about giving her a big surprise on major festivals!

You should start with her best friend! In this way, it will quickly integrate into her life, see her more, and pick her up more!

In the vast sea of people, two people from meet, acquaintance, acquaintance, or love each other, this is fate, fate does not need to wait, fate is fought for, is created by people, only people who know how to work hard to create fate, is the most rational, but how many people, when fate comes, can grasp it, cherish it! Fate is beautiful, fate is the same as love, it is an ancient topic, and fate also needs to be carefully cared for, fate is not poetry, but it is more beautiful than poetry, fate is not wine, but it is more fragrant than wine. Love knows no distance or region, in the sky of fate, fate is not never far away, cherish your fate, treat your love well.

Don't wait for the loss of empty hatred to be adopted.

Actually, I think that as long as you control yourself, it will last a long time, depending on your mind.

Yes, as long as you hold on to yourself and don't get out of here, I believe it.

My suggestion: confess first and get a definite answer is the best.

If you misunderstand, pay attention to 1 later

She should have a crush on you. No matter how cheerful the personality is, it is impossible to hug and hug with the alien.

The results of my analysis are like this:

1.I have less experience in love and I know less about women.

Being with you, not being able to understand you, your being too demanding, or his lack of exposure to things that have experienced a woman's life leads to stress.

2.Because of the pressure of work, irritability, the inability to self-regulate in time, and the pressure you give him, it leads to him being what he is now.

Life is simpler, maybe he is not a romantic person, maybe he is not a careful person, maybe his love is not enough

You need to give him time not to use your feelings to get angry.

It's mainly your reason why you're going to get better.

Give him some space to relax.

I wish you all happiness.

I'm in a similar situation to you, but not as lucky as you! My boyfriend and I split up! I think you just care about him too much, and the more you care, the more afraid you will be of losing, so you get along with him in a different way, give him space, and not contacting you doesn't mean that you don't love you!

Who doesn't have a problem? If it's okay to stay with you? I just didn't go out with you because of something, I didn't send a message!

Feelings are a matter of two people, and when they are not together, they must believe in each other! Don't think about it, you are happy to be together, I wish you happiness! What affection needs is trust, space, and don't let him feel that your love for him becomes pressure on him!

Don't always look at him, let him have some space for himself. He doesn't send it to you, you can send it to himSay something like he wants him to come back to him. Women sometimes have to learn to overcome rigidity with softness.

Of course it's good to be together, because I can put my arms around you and kiss you, but when you're not there, you may do things that you don't do, smoking, drinking, things like that, men need to be free, and they don't like it if they don't care too much.

If you often threaten him with a breakup, many men are like this, and after a few breakups, the relationship will become very weak, of course, you should believe him, but it is also possible that you really like something else, maybe when you are with him, take his mobile phone to see if you talk too much with other girls, if not, it will not be the best to take it every time, because it is possible to delete it, but sometimes you don't remember to delete it.

You should spend more time with him, don't worry too much about him, and give him some freedom.

If he ignores you, you don't pay attention to him, he has his own world, and if he loves you, he will find you.

Give him some space and time, let him think more, so that your relationship will slowly get better, you should also tolerate him, wait for him, and think more.

He still loves you, it's just that the two of them are often together, and they feel uncomfortable from time to time, so they will be depressed, so you don't think too much, and the two of you will go out for a walk if you have nothing to do in the future.

He just feels that you are putting pressure on him, and after a long time, he really treats you as his daughter-in-law, and there are not so many rhetoric, if you don't send him a message for a few days, he should give you a reply haha.

Give him more free space and see what happens.

You can do this through very modern methods, such as e-mailing, texting, and chattingBut I think I would prefer to write letters, although it is very old-fashioned, but it is really romantic and very emotional. It's cheaper than modern means of communication.

It is best to choose an envelope and stationery that the other person likes, and the other person will definitely be happy. And there is a sense of mystery, and the relationship still needs to be maintained by both parties

At present, there are very few people who can afford to buy a house on their own after the 80s and 90s, and half of them rely on the help of two parents to pay a part of the down payment and buy a house, and then it will be provided for decades, we are in Guangzhou, and the property price is at least 20,000 or 30,000. So don't be too pessimistic, and your boyfriend is a civil servant, his salary will go up soon, and your income will also increase.

Many people have dreamed, but at present, what can you do, and do you really need a big house to live in a family? I'm scared of hygiene.

Many people think that there is no hope in life, so you have to live a beautiful life.

If your mother doesn't agree to pay, you can buy it a few years later, but you have to work harder, and the house price has been the pressure so far.

In fact, 89 square meters is not small for our generation, if it is second-hand in Guangzhou City, it will be more than 2 million, and the down payment will be 60.7 million.

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You're going to the extreme.

Isn't life just firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, and it doesn't mean that food and clothing can't be satisfied, it's a traditional concept in China that a house is to be bought.

But it's not impossible to think about the lot or rent it for 1 or 2 years, if you say that, wouldn't most of China not have to get married?

And is there anything bad about buying a house together? Community property. If the man has a house, it won't be yours after marriage.

Buying a house can't be said to be two buyers, it should be said that two children buy it themselves, you should both have your own jobs, don't always rely on your parents, the other party is a civil servant, and you are also a civil servant, isn't it better? Besides, even if you are not a civil servant, and you have a civil servant husband to support you, your life will not be worse there??? Besides, don't both fathers work as ordinary clerks?

You know, but there are still contradictions, which means that you have not so good a relationship with him. Don't get married for the sake of getting married, and don't be swayed by your mother's disapproval.

If you are an only child, I suggest you convince your mother that your mother can tell them to pay less if it is difficult, and that it is so difficult to buy a house now, you can explain it to her.

Then it depends on how much you love him, how long you have known him, how good the relationship is, whether you love him deeply, whether you can entrust your life, and whether he can give him the life you want to live.

As a man, it is necessary to buy a house, and this ability mainly depends on the ability of the man's parents, which is a normal value of society. His job may have a stable income, but if he can be promoted in time in the later stage, he still has a lot of future (money), it depends on his ability.

The reason is the same as what you said, in fact, what you said is important and important, and it is not important to say that it is not important, and your mother does not agree with it, of course, it is for your own good. You can understand the hearts of parents all over the world. Shyness in the pocket is also a real problem.

That's why I don't say it's important. It doesn't matter, a man mainly depends on his essence and whether he will take responsibility. A man who has no sense of responsibility or is not responsible, and both rich and unrich are useless men.

Getting married is a lifelong gamble. No one can be sure of the future Lang Jun, and the most incomprehensible thing is the hearts of the people. The only thing I can say is the feeling.

I don't know if it makes sense, I hope to help you solve your troubles, after all, I'm from here.

Reality can kill emotions ...

Whether you can go back to the past and get back your beautiful face, reality does not exist forever.

Alas, again the contradiction of bread and love. Actually, it's good to be admitted to the civil service, but it depends on what your family pays attention to.

I'm a 33-year-old man, I also came step by step from college, I am better in college, and there are a lot of girls who chase me to tell the truth, to this day, I feel that I was more naïve at that time, and today and ten years ago can not be the same day, so, you should also be realistic, enrich yourself more, you will know your gap. After a while, maybe 5 years later, you'll know.

Moreover, your love will not be blessed by your family, and if you don't get blessed love, it is often difficult to be happy in the end!

I hope you can grasp your study, work and life well, and don't be hit by temporary pain, there are many good women. The level of effort you work now can determine the quality of your life in three years, brother, take advantage of it!

To love her is to respect her and not to put too much pressure on her.

Suggestion. At this time, you don't need more words to express your love for her, use your actions, your real city to impress her, haven't you ever cared about ordinary friends? There are no boundaries to love.

I hope you can touch her at the end. But it's unpredictable. You figure it out for yourself.