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Nizi, I can understand you completely, because I just fell out of love, and my first love has been 6 years, just like you, all kinds of reluctance. He secretly had another her.
This kind of feeling, you can only save yourself, and you must guide your thinking in a more positive direction.
As soon as I wanted to send him a message, I told my friends who were more rational and understanding of me, and let them talk about me and scold me. I guess the desire to send messages is not as strong.
Moreover, a few lovelorn groups have been added. The people and things in it can make you slowly understand the cruelty of reality, and we are nothing.
Also, you can take a look at some similar experiences on the Internet, which may be easier to help you get out.
There is one of the worst stories about love that I have seen on Tianya, you can check it out, connect.
Then, if you really have nothing to do, it is recommended that you go to volunteer, so that it will not be so easy to fall into your own love.
In the end, I hope you can thank this relationship and think about what this relationship has brought you and what you have learned.
Remember, true love is equal, not something you just ask for. To truly love someone is to hope that he will live well, not to get. Fulfill him.
Improve yourself and you will get better.
Bless you.
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Start the next relationship and forget about him.
To forget is to give him and to give himself another chance, and to indulge in it will only lead to falling into the swamp of pain.
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My girlfriend and I have been separated for two months, and I understand your feelings, because we are similar, but there is a limit to loving someone, can you give him freedom and give yourself a piece of the sky?
Sometimes you have to endure the pain of parting love When you let go of someone, you realize how ridiculous it is to care desperately in the first place, no one will pity you, and if he comes back purely out of sympathy, is this what you need? Reality is cruel and you can't let a certain emotion occupy your psyche and you should turn it into motivation.
It's only three days to be sad, and after three days you have to cheer up We can't hang ourselves from a tree You still have friends and relatives who are worth caring about and loving Believe it's yours or yours Don't force it.
After a long time, I hope it will still help you, and if you have any questions, continue to ask me, I hope it!
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A good man does make a woman not forget for a long time. Even if he doesn't want you anymore, you have to understand. He's not yours anymore, you have to learn to be strong and put your energy into work and study. Only then will you have the possibility to succeed!
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Time will make you drop everything and try to do something that diverts your attention.
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I know, although I'm not as big as you, don't deliberately forget if you can't forget, but don't act Since he lets go of your hand, then don't look back Even if he turns back to you, he can throw you once, he can throw you a second time, don't fall down twice in one place, don't think about it, write a diary, write what you want to do, what you want to say, or vent it in your own way, don't fall like me, you will regret falling in the first place, and after all, you can't change it, both men and women are cheap, you stick to him, be good to him, he doesn't know how to cherish when you're not looking for him It's not like the beginning, he will think about your good, but it's too late, let yourself learn a little more arrogantly, girls have to live their unique self, it's not that you can't live without him, we want to live better.
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Find him and make peace, and disagree with him and find someone better than him.
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You should focus on your work, make your life full, and you will quickly forget about each other.
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You can divert your attention and let yourself let go of the other party, if you still can't let go of the other party, you should take the initiative to chat with the other party and take the initiative to keep the other party back.
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At this time, you have to reconsider the relationship, you can't let go of the other party, so make a careful decision, reconsider, and redeem the other party.
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You should be brave enough to contact her, because if you don't do it, you may regret it for the rest of your life.
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You can post some of your better ** in the circle of friends, or send some ** of your travel, which will let the other party take the initiative to contact you.
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If you are reluctant to contact the other person, it means that you still don't like the other person very much, and you should divert your attention at this time, and you should also meet some new people.
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In such a situation, I think you should adjust your mentality and state, if you really can't let go of the other party, you should take the initiative to contact the other party, don't miss the other party.
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You can go directly to her and get back together with her, you like this person very much and want to know about this person.
I advise you not to waste time, no matter how reluctant it is, it is better than living in pain, people want to be happy, maybe you will be sad when you leave him, and then it will be fine, and it is best to find someone who loves you after that.
No matter how good things are, there is a day to lose, no matter how deep the memory is, there is a day to forget in the person you love, there is a day to go away in the person you love, no matter how beautiful the dream is, there is a day to wake up, you should never keep what you should give up, never let go of what you should cherish, and you can't be friends after breaking up, because you have hurt each other. and not to be enemies, because they loved each other dearly.
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