What would you do with something sent by your ex?

The objects she gave are still in full swing three years later; The memories she gave are buried in my heart and endure. ‍‍

I will return it to the person as it is, and since it doesn't have any relationship anymore, don't accept anything from others.

Throw it away, if it's not valuable, throw it away, if it's valuable, like a bag, I'll sell it and transfer the money to him, I don't like to owe it to others.

Returned it. Actually, I didn't mean to, but he was very stingy, and when he broke up, he said, you give me back everything I gave you, and so do I.

So we each returned our things.

My ex-girlfriend didn't give me much of anything, or we talked too briefly, or the relationship was too shallow, and she was a screaming chicken. A year later, I looked at what was hanging on the wall and suddenly had a lot of emotions, so I turned what she left behind like this. <>

My husband and his ex-girlfriend gave me a glass bracelet that he wears all the time. I thought it looked good, so I didn't care about him, and he just kept wearing it. Later, as a wedding gift, he asked me for a watch, and I bought him more than 5,000 yuan, so he took off the bracelet and wore the watch. ‍‍

Keep it, after all, it's the person I've walked through in my life. When I was a kid, I liked a boy who used to give me a glass ball like a dolphin and a small letter, but because he liked other girls and was shy, I tore the letter and didn't keep the glass ball. I think that human memory needs a lot of retained things to help me remember. ‍‍

After the breakup, I kept things for three years, until my freshman year I met someone I felt I could go on forever, and I resolutely decided to throw away all the things about him, and I wouldn't have any illusions about him anymore, and then live my life well, and now I think of my ex, and my heart has no waves. ‍‍

He gave me a pen. I gave him a watch. I never wanted to use that pen, so I kept it in the cupboard.

Later, on a whim, I wanted to find out, but I couldn't find it anyway. The watch I gave me was still wearing the ** I had sent in his circle of friends before. It's also my good eye, diving watches were worn with casual wear in college, and now they are worn with formal wear, which is not inconsistent at all. ‍‍

All stayed, blankets, wallets, satchels, suitcases, notebooks made for me by hand, **, scarves. Every single one of them has been her brainchild, so let these things forever remind me that there was once a heart that was hurt by her childish self. ‍‍

After breaking up with your ex, you should throw what you should throw and delete what you should delete. It's a very common thing, I think most people will do this, listen to me, don't be nostalgic, it's useless. ‍‍

I have read a passage that if you give a gift to your boyfriend and girlfriend, you will give luxury, and the more expensive the better. Then the two of you divide each other, and the other may be reluctant to throw it, and then use it. So every time I use it, I think of you. What a bargain! This is the true meaning of giving luxury. ‍‍

There are three ways to deal with gifts from my ex: throw them away, sell them, or keep them.

If I have a very unpleasant relationship with my ex and the gifts he gives are not very valuable, I will pack them up and throw them away, out of sight and out of mind. However, if the other party gives me a gift that is more valuable, such as a bag, jewelry, or ring from my ex, I will choose to sell it, which will not only solve the problem of upset, but also exchange some money for myself.

Although I still like some of the bags and jewelry given by my ex-boyfriend, and I don't know about them, I don't use them. Anyway, it's something from my ex, and if I always carry it with me and use those gifts, I think it's disrespectful to my current boyfriend. In fact, girls will be more emotional, and since they are with their current boyfriends, they will no longer worry about their exes and treat their feelings purely.

Therefore, if the gift given by the ex, if it is valuable, take it and sell it on the Internet, as for the kind that is worthless, just throw it away, don't keep it that affects the relationship between yourself and the current one.

I have asked friends of the opposite sex around me, and their choice is the opposite of that of girls, they will keep the gifts given by their exes, because they are more practical, and the boys' minds are not so delicate, even if they use gifts, there will be no waves in their hearts. They think they can keep what they can use, why throw it away or sell it, it's too wasteful. And everyone has been taught since childhood to be diligent and thrifty, those gifts can still be used, just continue to use it, people are people, objects are things, and they must be separated.

And they are not afraid of shadows, they feel that they use it openly, and they are not afraid that the current one will find out that this is a gift from their ex, because they did not use it secretly, and they also prove that they have a clear conscience.

In fact, when it comes to the gift of an ex, everyone has the freedom to choose a different way to deal with it. It is because this topic is discussed that people have different opinions. Some people think that keeping the gift of their ex means that they have not forgotten their ex, and it is also a hurt to the incumbent, which may affect the relationship between two people, and this part of the person is very principled and does not leave any way out for himself.

Therefore, I feel that I must not keep the gifts given by my ex, and I can dispose of them by throwing and selling. Another part of the population thinks that there is nothing wrong with keeping the gift of the ex and can be used as a kind of memento. If this gift is a practical thing, then keep it and use it without affecting anything.

Besides, the last relationship has passed, and you won't see things and think about people, and things continue to be used, it doesn't mean that you can't forget each other, and people and things should be treated separately. This kind of person is more rational, they think that if something can be used, don't waste it.

In a relationship, both parties are emotionally invested and have small items and souvenirs in common. If you still have your ex's things around you after the breakup, it depends on whether you can let go of this relationship, if you still think of your ex when you see the items and feel troubled, it is recommended to dispose of your ex's belongings, in fact, I personally think it's okay to sell them, and it's a waste to throw them away.

will be sold, what are you doing with things after they have all broken up, avoid seeing things and thinking about people, and sell things and forget about them completely.

No, because I think this gift can still be remembered as a memory. You can think of each other when you are very old.

I will just throw away the gift that my ex gave me, because two people have broken up and should not leave each other's gifts by their side anymore, there is no point.

I usually sell my ex's gifts as well, and there are some worthless gifts that I might just throw away because I don't want to think of my ex when I see them again.

The ex's gift does not need to be sold at all, it should be thrown away directly, this is because throwing away this behavior is more of an emotional expression, indicating the meaning of cutting it in two, and never contacting the ex again, which is a very resolute attitude, and it is more embarrassing to sell it.

If it's the kind that ends up being very unpleasant, I'll probably throw away all the other person's things, but if I still can't let go of the other person, I'll keep some small things that make more sense.

I'd throw away all the gifts from my ex because I thought it would be very relegatory, and I felt the need to keep things since we were separated.

I'll just throw it away. Because I get very upset when I see something from my ex. And I think of a lot of bad things, and I throw things away.

I'm going to throw it away, I'm going to throw these things in the trash, out of sight and out of mind.

Will throw away all the gifts of his ex, or give them to others, anyway, he will not stay with himself, and he doesn't want to stay by his side.

For many people, they may have experienced more than one relationship, and each relationship brings different meanings and feelings to them. So after a breakup, how do you deal with what your ex left behind and gave you?

For many people, exes are a relatively taboo topic, because after all, they are the people they once liked each other, but in the end there is no good solution, which will make many people feel sad and feel a waste of youth. After a breakup, in order not to think of their ex frequently, many people will throw away the things given by their ex, and they will also choose to completely remove the traces of their ex from their lives. This statement is very effective for many people, because it can make you forget your ex faster, and it can also allow you to better let go of the past and move towards a new life.

In fact, for many people, seeing the things left or given to you by your ex will only make you feel sad, and it will also make you constantly think of the past. This kind of practice is very sad for yourself, and it will also make you unable to get out of the shadow of the previous relationship. But I don't think so, because I feel that what my ex left behind and what he gave to me is a memory for me.

And these memories are my own life experiences, so there is no need to deliberately clear these things. There is nothing wrong with keeping the things that your ex left or gave to you, because it allows you to remember the relationship and the lessons that this relationship has taught you. So after the breakup, I don't deliberately clean up the things left by my ex or give me, but I will keep them in the same place.

To sum up, after the breakup, I will keep the things that my ex left or gave me, but I will not throw them away, because I don't think there is any need, and it is good to keep them as a memorial for myself. So what do you do with these things?

I think it's best to dispose of these things by throwing them away or giving them to someone else, and selling them if they're valuable, so that you don't have to worry about seeing them.

They may be returned to their ex, or they may be thrown away, or they may be saved, and these things also have a lot of good memories for themselves.

After staying for a few years, getting married and having children, I left my ex's things at my parents' house, ** or something, I regretted it after throwing it away, I was still reluctant, but I couldn't find it back.

If you don't want to see the things left by your ex or the gifts you give yourself, you can collect these things, put them in a box, and send them to your ex by courier.

After you break up, return to him everything that your ex left behind, or what he gave you, and return the things to their original owners, so that you don't feel sad when you see these things in the future.

I threw all these things away, because when I saw them, I would think of some contact between two people, and I would feel very uncomfortable.

I will definitely keep these things in my collection, and they are not easy to find, and it is also a precious memory to take them out occasionally in the future.

After the breakup, the things that the ex gave him back if they were valuable, and the ordinary ones were given away or thrown away, and out of sight was clean.

After the breakup, they will each pack up their own objects, and they will give each other gifts and valuables