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There is no way, because some families attach great importance to men, and the first child is a girl, and they will definitely have another boy.

Although the family has no money and no one to take the child, it can't stop others from having a second child. Many people think that as long as this child is born, no matter how difficult it is, they can support him.

Because only one child is too little, and from ancient times to the present, my country has always had the traditional idea of raising children to prevent old age.

Simply like children: Before pregnancy, some women feel that it is useless to have children, it will deform their figures, and there is a little trouble around them, they have to follow themselves every day, and there is no more free time.

Because they want to keep a companion for their children, otherwise they will be very lonely.

It is because of poverty that they pin their hopes on their children, who feel that after giving birth to a second child, they will be able to make money when the child grows up.

On the one hand, considering that today's children are particularly lonely, I feel that I can give my child a partner, and the child can also reduce some of the burden when he is old.

This is a common people's concept, thinking that it is good to have children in pairs, and only children will seem lonely, and two children can take care of each other.

According to your own situation, don't blindly chase after the second child. Before we are born, we really have to think about all aspects, we have to be responsible for our children, and we have to be responsible for ourselves. This varies from person to person, and I have seen many people who have someone to help with the child, and she is not willing to give birth.

And some people have no one to help take care of the child at all, but she is still willing to have a second child. From the perspective of both parents, correctly guide their own children's life and work methods; Help them take care of their children and solve the burden of the family; Support them financially, and don't leave behind them for the sake of retirement. If you focus on family happiness, then you can consider having a second child, after all, having one more child has a great advantage in terms of the happiness of life now and the support of children in the future.

You should discuss it with your husband, not ask for help on an online platform. After all, the advice and opinions given by others are superficial, and raising children is the joint responsibility of both husband and wife! Everyone's ideas and opinions are different, sons and daughters are the same, the education since childhood is the same, eating, drinking and wearing are the same, the only thing is to get married and buy a house, when the daughter gets married, she will give more money, and if she has no money, she will give less, and she will have a second child if she follows the trend; Some people think that the cost of childcare is too great now, and if they can't afford to raise them, they won't have a second child; Some think it's too tiring to raise a child.

If you encounter a child who is sick and can't sleep all night, you have to insist on opening a store the next day, because you don't have a store and no income, and when you get home at night, you are already tired, and you have to bathe the baby. Especially these 3 kinds of moments, that is really, the heart of a second child is going to be flooded, someone with a child is lucky, no one can bring themselves, as long as you want, there is nothing to hesitate, of course, tiredness is certain, but happiness is also real. Deal with panic from the unknown.

For the unknown, we are bound to panic. After more than 0 years of the one-child policy, the family of four is an unfamiliar family model for the vast majority of Chinese.

No, because having a second child will make the family's economic conditions very poor, and it will not give the child a good life.

If you don't have money and no one to take care of your children, you shouldn't have a second child. Because if you have a second child, you will have a lot of difficulties, learn to have a series of conflicts with your husband, and it may also affect the married life of the two of you.

No, because having a child is a waste of energy, and raising a child is also very expensive, if you don't have money, it's better to raise a child first.

With the advent of the two-child policy, many only children have given birth to a second child, for the absence of money, no status, and no one to bring the situation, it is recommended not to have a second child, the child's education and training is too difficult, but also for the sake of the child's future.

If you don't have the financial means, you shouldn't have a second child, because giving birth to this child will not give the child a good life, and it will be difficult financially.

No, the economic conditions are not good, two people can barely support a child when they go to work, don't have a second child, the child will not get a good material life, and the parents will also work very hard.

It is best not to have a second child, which will bring a lot of pressure to yourself, and will also affect your work and family harmony.

No, it takes energy to bring people economically. If you don't bring it well, it's not a pit baby.

No, because having a child has exhausted all your energy and money, and having a second child makes you have no energy.

<> will regret it. If there is no one to take the children with, there are two possible ways to take care of the children, find a babysitter or bring your own. Find a babysitter belt.

The quality of the nanny is uneven, and it is difficult to guarantee that they will be good for the child. **Often** the bad or outrageous behavior of some bad babysitter. I have a student who was brought up by a nanny before the age of 4.

I don't know how the babysitter treated her. She barely laughs now, always with a cold face, and doesn't talk much. She is not as sunny and cheerful as children of her age.

So it's really not safe to hand over the baby to the babysitter.

Taking care of children will leave your job, so the biggest impact is that you have no income. On the one hand, income does not affect the material living standard of the family, and one child and two children do not get good material conditions; On the other hand, it will reduce the family status of the non-income party, and the unequal status of husband and wife in the family will lead to family conflicts and affect the stability of marriage. And, when the second child grows up, parents who don't have an income will have a hard time finding a job because of their age.

Therefore, it is not conducive to the development of their own careers. The purpose of having a second child is to allow the child to grow up happily. If no one brings it, there will be a lot of problems.

Material conditions will be lowered, careers will fail, marriages will be in crisis, emotions will be hurt, and life will fall into a sea of misery. So, at this time, I recommend not having a second child.

Because the family status of each family is different, the standard of raising a baby is naturally different, and the measure of money will naturally be different. If a monthly salary of 3,000 yuan is considered no money, then a monthly salary of 10,000 yuan is also considered no money, which also depends on the family's standards and people's ideological attitudes. Just imagine, after giving birth, the biggest expenses in the first three years are nothing more than diapers and milk powder.

If you choose to breastfeed, you can naturally save money on milk powder, which is also a large expense. In addition, if you really don't have money, you can also choose diapers, which means that the family is a little tired. After all, diapers need to be washed frequently!

Moreover, after the baby is born, there are some clothes, shoes and socks, etc. Dabao can also wear it, so it is not too much to spend money when you are young. The time to really spend money should be after the child goes to school.

may regret it; Because in such a situation, it is very difficult to raise two children, and it may have a certain impact on the relationship between the husband and wife.

Of course, I will regret it, because the family has no money, and there is no elderly to help, having a second child will lead to greater financial pressure, and it will also lead to a rift in the relationship between the two people.

This is because giving birth to children and nurturing children requires economic support.

When it comes to having children, some couples seek to provide for themselves, while others seek to support well.

Of course, a netizen said well, "No matter how much you have, it's not enough to spend, and no matter how little you have, you can raise it."

As the saying goes, "the rich are rich, and the poor are poor". You can eat 10 yuan a pound of rice, or you can eat 2 yuan a pound of rice; You can spend a few hundred yuan a pack of milk powder for your child, and you can also buy dozens of yuan a pack of milk powder.

Why many young couples are reluctant to have a second child, in addition to lack of money, there is also a reason to be ashamed to speak.

There are related issues such as medical care, education, wife retrieval, etc.

Because raising a child is not child's play.

In order to give the child multiple companions, one is also raised, two are also raised, and one more child will not cost a lot of money, and if there is no money, follow the raising method of no money. Those who have no money to have a second child generally have a good mentality, and they don't take their children's education very seriously, and they feel that they can make do with it. After working hard for a few years, the children will have a companion in the future, and it is good that they are old and have many children to rely on.

Here's why:1. Multiple children, when they are old, they will rely on them more.

The only child is under a lot of pressure, he is old, and it is too difficult to raise one child alone, so it is best to have two, and there is also a care between the two parties. If you get sick and are hospitalized in the future, the two children can take turns to replace them, and they will not be exhausted. After his death, brothers and sisters can also help each other and have multiple companions.

Now I work harder, so that my children can be more relaxed in the future.

Second, there are many children and many blessings, and one is too little.

Chinese like to have many children and many blessings, and one child is too little. If you give birth to a girl and marry someone else's family in the future, your home will be deserted during the Chinese New Year, which is too lonely. Having one more child, even if it's a girl, one of the two daughters will always be by her side, and the family is lively and lively.

3. Seeing someone else's family having a second child, I want to have it myself.

Some people originally did not plan to have a second child, but in recent years, the state has encouraged everyone to have a second child. If the people around you have a second child, they must be very red-eyed, and they naturally want to give birth. There is no money to raise a child, when the child is young, you can wear a child's clothes, and it doesn't cost much if you don't buy toys or the like.

When you grow up, you can study as little as possible to enroll in interest classes, and you can also raise them.

Therefore, people who want to have a second child will have it even if they don't have money, and those who don't want to have it don't want to have it even if they have money, depending on their respective mentality. If you like children, you can have more children, give your children a companion, and you can also share the country's worries. Those who desperately want to have a second child will not have high requirements for their children's education, and they will generally just be well fed and clothed, and they will not hope that their sons will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes.

Different people have different opinions. Some people think that having 2 children can be more lively at home, and having 2 children without money may be more about pinning their hopes on children and being able to have a good life.

There is no money to earn, but if you miss the best childbearing age, you may not be able to have a second child for the rest of your life. Therefore, the mentality of these people is to give birth to the child first for themselves or their children, and then work hard to create a good family environment for their children.

The poorer you are, the more you have children, although you don't have money, you still have to have children, and only when you have children can you have a chance to change your fate.

People may just want to have children, but they don't have the long-term we think, they don't have money or anything, they just want to have children, and in the end they don't have money to talk about money.

They just want to have one more child to protect the rest of their lives and reduce the burden of living as an only child

In their hearts, children are their best gifts, which can bring blessings to themselves and add a companion to Dabao, so that the two can rely on each other.

On the three mentalities 1 will be taken care of by multiple people who will be sick in the future.

2. Like and be able to educate children well.

3 Don't want to be too lonely in the future.

Nowadays, there are many families where both husband and wife go out to work, although the salary is high, but the pressure is also high, and the work takes up almost all the time, and there is no time to take care of the children. It is generally left to the care of the elderly at home. However, the old man is already old and in poor health, and he has to spend energy to take care of the children, which is very difficult.

If there is another child, the old man will not be able to bear it. You can hire a nanny, but after all, it's not a family, and if you meet an irresponsible nanny, wouldn't it hurt the child, and it's useless to regret it when the time comes. Therefore, many families with good conditions only choose to have one child, that is, considering that they are busy with work and have no time to take care of children, and they don't want to increase the burden on the elderly at home, so they will not have a second child.

In addition, there is another reason: I don't want to be so stressed and want to live my own life. Modern people's concepts are not as old as in the past, and they only live for their children all their lives, and they are willing to dedicate their lives to their children.

Nowadays, people pay more attention to their own quality of life, of course, children still have to be raised, but in addition, they also need to have their own life and their own pursuits. Besides, I still have money, so why not enjoy life? One more child is an extra pressure, and it is definitely not as easy as having only one child.

They have the money and the ability to raise an extra child, but they don't want to lose their lives because of it.

Sometimes, as you said, the poorer the family, the more willing to have more children, and the richer the family, the more reluctant to have more children, this is because they spend their time and energy on doing business to make money, if they have more children, they will not have so much time to do business and make money.