What did he think mentally? Does he have psychological problems?

22 years old. Boys are especially attached to their first contact and to girls they have a crush on. (Everyone is the same) is obedient to the girl until the relationship is confirmed.

You told him to be a lover, which is not to be said. And then you're willing to be his girlfriend It's hard to tell what happened before this, but since you're a lover ... In a boy's heart, it doesn't matter if you are a girlfriend or a lover, it's actually the same, because he just wants to be with you.

Then slowly begin to get to know you. Girls are careful, and boys are not bad. You can see and feel what kind of feelings you have for him.

Yes, you are not angry, nor is it love (far from true love), the initial liking is impulsive, but it is just liking, not love. Two people start by liking and then falling in love, there is no such thing as liking someone, there is no reason to be boring, and importantly, there is no reason to possess the other person when you like it, and there is no right or wrong. Therefore, it is more important than anything else to follow your heart when dating.

You yourself are confused, and the people who like you are just as confused. And you have to cherish yourself, love only exists to understand each other. Lover?

Two people who are in love know each other well and want to be together when they start to fall in love with each other, and they can do whatever they want It is wrong to be a lover with someone they don't know very well. Man matures in pain. If you give yourself a reason, you will always be confused.

What does it mean to be a lover? I think you were really ambiguous at the time, and when you said yes for the last time and a while, of course others will think that you don't take it seriously. If you really like him, don't pester him now, he needs to calm down and see if he really likes you.

The mirror is broken, can it be restored to its original appearance, even if you are still together, it will not be the same as before.

Everyone is the same, I hope that seriousness is exchanged for seriousness, and true feelings are exchanged for true feelings, your feelings do not give him a reliability, so that he has no way to stick to it, even if he likes it, it is better to give up.

Since that's it, it's also a good memory in my heart.

There is really no way to force feelings.

Let's take this as it is.

You have to learn to digest it yourself. Even if it hurts, maybe he doesn't feel good in his heart, he thinks it's not appropriate and separates is also a good thing for you, don't end up making it worse.

It's good after a long time, and you can talk about it in the future and treat it as a classmate. Just act as if nothing happened. Time is the best medicine. The same will make you see it more clearly.

If possible, seek psychological counseling if you have psychological problems.

Why should you go for counseling, when you feel that something is wrong with someone's situation, you should seek help, like asking for a doctor when you are sick. There are other ways we can solve our psychological problems, but psychological counseling is the fastest and most effective way to solve psychological problems, especially when we are overwhelmed.

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Some people have a misconception about psychological counseling, believing that psychological counseling is not useful. Because psychological counseling is not a process that can solve the problem once or twice, it is a process that requires a course of therapy to ** and help. It's like we can't just take one pill, but we also have to take it several times a day, take a few pills, and a course of treatment**.

So,If we find the problem early, we should seek help as soon as possible!

Moreover, this process requires the cooperation of the counselor, and sometimes even the cooperation of family members. Therefore, psychological counseling must trust the counselor! to achieve the best results.

Seeking help from a counselor must be that wayFormal professional, with a certain reputation and good serviceThis is up to you to judge. Generally, the first counselor will do an assessment for you, and if it is determined that you must go to the hospital**, they will naturally ask you to go to the hospital and will not accept the prescription and acceptance**. (The more formal the consulting agency, the less likely it is to accept high-risk visitors, which involves the bottom line of the industry and its own reputation; If the consultant does not have a doctor's certificate and wants to prescribe medication for you, please leave the consultation agency decisively and have the right to report it to the police.

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If you think he has psychological problems, you can communicate with him to see where the problem is, and if it is particularly serious, take her to see a psychologist in time.

You can't tell if a person has a psychological problem simply by his behavior? Sometimes you need to see a psychiatrist.

Everyone has their own fragile side in their hearts, and sometimes we face it calmly and do a good job of his psychological counseling, and he can also change.

If he has a mental problem, you can ask him to consult a psychiatrist.

If he has psychological problems, then you have to enlighten him well and let him come out.

If you have a problem in your heart, you have to go to the hospital to see it, and others will not know about other things.

Explain the specific situation clearly, otherwise how to judge, or have already found a professional doctor to see

You didn't make it clear what happened here, how could others judge whether he had a problem or not.

Whether there is a question that requires professional assessment and individual adaptability, and is not a simple question that can know the answer.

The more hasty the decision, the less realistic it is.

If he has psychological problems, you can find a psychologist to enlighten him.

If you feel that he has this problem, I think you should get to know him, or get along with him, because it does have this problem.

Whether a person has psychological problems or not can be seen through daily contact.

Hello for him has a mental problem, you can explain the other person, and at the same time don't put too much pressure on him.

If you think he has a mental problem, you should never tell him that you have a mental problem, because if you say that, he will be very angry.

If you have any questions, you can go to counseling, and you can find a senior counselor for psychological counseling. In this way, communication can make it a normal child.

If you have a problem in your heart, of course, you have to find a psychiatrist to solve it, and you also need to overcome it, and slowly become a normal person.