My boyfriend is very verbose, what should I do if I think he is annoying around?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-19
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    We often say that girls are very verbose and annoying, but sometimes some boys are really more verbose than girls, and boys will be more annoying once they are verbose, if there is a boyfriend you think is very verbose, I think the experience must be very bad, but there is a very verbose boyfriend, I feel very annoying and there is still a way to solve it.

    1.Have a good talk with your boyfriend about this and tell him what you think. Once a couple has a problem before, they must make it clear, don't say nothing, and if they have a problem, they must solve it together, otherwise the problem will accumulate more and more, and it will lead to a breakup if it breaks out in the end.

    You can calm down with your boyfriend and have a good chat, tell him your thoughts, he will definitely change after he knows, and if he loves you, he definitely doesn't want you to hate him, and he will definitely make an effort, and if the problem is solved, each other will be happy. <>

    2.If you don't love him that much, you can consider breaking up. If a boy is very verbose and has become a habit, it must have something to do with the environment in which he lives.

    If you feel that he is very verbose and annoying now, then you probably don't love him so much, because why didn't you feel this way before, and it is better to break up early than to be together like this, so that it is a relief for both parties. But if you still love him very much, then you must slowly learn to accept his verbosity and don't feel that he will be annoyed by his side.

    In fact, two people are together to tolerate each other, you think he is very verbose, maybe his verbose is only for you alone, just because you are different from others, he cares about you very much, so he is very verbose.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I also hate this kind of boy, because I think boys are very bold creatures, I don't like this kind of boy who talks a lot, I feel like a sparrow chirping in my ear every day, what a patient girl, I don't think I will be patient with such a boyfriend. I used to see on the road, a girl kept complaining about her boyfriend there, and kept pulling the boy there to get angry, and the boy was full of impatience, as if he was finally angry with the girl. Think about the angry creature like a girl, and it's inevitable to complain, but think about what it would be like if it were a boy.

    So girls will definitely get angry and face such a troublesome boyfriend. It was hard for me to bear it, and I felt like I must say goodbye to such a boy.

    Since you feel this way about your boyfriend now, I think you can think about your relationship in a different way, because if there is a conflict in the relationship, it is better for the two of you to communicate well, otherwise it is like a landmine has been buried in that place, and one day a spark can detonate. That's when the big problem is. If you have thought in your heart that you still love your boyfriend very much, and you don't want to go to the point of breaking up, then it is good for the two of you to calm down and talk, if this way of getting along is not right, of course, you have to change.

    I don't actually have so many thoughts about feelings, I think there are only things that I love and don't love, how can there be so many annoying things, there is such a boyfriend who nagging every day, which makes you upset, then you have to solve it yourself, or you will have to endure it all the time. Think about it and love it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Actually, for everyone. Very wordy people. It's going to be annoying.

    To be clear, though. A person is very wordy about you. And not to others.

    That's because he cares about you. Only people who really care about you. He'll be so serious about you.

    Maybe you didn't understand it at the time. But you'll find out in hindsight. Being nice to a person is not an easy task.

    So, cherish your boyfriend well. <>

    Understand that your boyfriend is serious about you. But a lot of verbosity is really annoying. If sometimes this verbosity affects you.

    It makes you feel very unhappy. You need to have a good talk with your boyfriend. Tell him that you understand how much he cares about you.

    Understand why she did it. But his excessive verbosity has affected his normal life. It's okay to say it again later.

    You yourself know his heart. Believe. A boyfriend can also understand your own feelings.

    The last thing you can do is when your boyfriend cares about you. You find it annoying. Quarrel with him.

    This is bound to backfire. It would hurt my boyfriend's heart a lot. Therefore, you must be very careful when dealing with it, as long as two people understand each other.

    There's nothing that can't be done. Sometimes there is a lack of communication between the two. There will be so many misunderstandings.

    I remember having a friend who was too. Her boyfriend is also very wordy. When two people are together, they quarrel every day.

    What does her boyfriend tell her to take and what to do? Be careful of what? But every time, okay, I know, annoyed to death, at first my boyfriend thought it was just talking.

    But I didn't expect that friend to be in front of his colleagues. Once I was very angry and said. Are you my mother, so long-winded, like a woman.

    I don't care about the boy's face. At the same time, it also broke the boy's heart. But when the two broke up, they knew that they regretted it.

    Crying and crying to pester people. So be sure to talk to your boyfriend when you talk about things. Must, take care of his face.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Since you find him annoying like this, then you should tell him, I think your boyfriend really loves you, as long as you explain the situation to him, he will understand you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Then talk directly to your boyfriend about your problem and ask him to try not to say so much.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because he is verbose, it may be for your good, you feel annoyed now, and you will still understand what he means in the future.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If it were me, I would tell him, you are so verbose, sooner or later, I will be annoyed by you and want to break up with you!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you keep looking for him, he will haunt you (unless you keep looking for him, affecting his work) and I'm sure he doesn't love you as much as you love him. At least you love him more than he loves you, so to speak. In fact, two people love each other, just like you want to stick to him, he also likes to be stuck to you, and it is best to be together all the time.

    <> because everyone has a different concept of love, some people just want to get that person, as for the heart is not moved, but this kind of love does not have a long shelf life. So, the best way to love someone is for him to love you back. Since you said that you often look for him and are afraid that he will trouble you, why don't you follow his wishes, ignore him for the time being, and see his reaction?

    If he still doesn't come to you and isn't afraid of you, then your affairs are basically over, because it's all your thoughts. But on the contrary, if he is the same as you, he will take the initiative to come to you, because if you don't go to him, he will not be adaptable, so that he can take the initiative in the future, and you will understand that your initiative will not be in vain.

    There are many ways to do this, but this one is straightforward. First of all, why do you go to your boyfriend so often? He?

    Something seems to be wrong!? Isn't this normal behavior between boyfriends and girlfriends? I don't know how you could have that idea.

    Second, have you ever been annoyed by your boyfriend? Why? Who are you chasing?

    Finally, are you an extremely insecure or dependent person? In short, the reason why you think this way is a kind of distrust of your relationship. You should strengthen communication in a timely manner to avoid relationship crises.

    Do a detailed interpretation of the problem, I hope it will help you, if you have any questions, you can leave me a message in the comment area, you can comment with me more, if there is something wrong, you can also interact with me more, if you like the author, you can also follow me, your like is the biggest help to me, thank you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Understand the specific situation of your boyfriend's work and rest Try not to disturb him when he is working, and you can take the initiative to contact him when he is resting, and tell yourself that it doesn't matter if you miss him, because your boyfriend also loves you, and he also hopes that the two people can contact and communicate.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can send a message to your boyfriend's friend first, inquire about the situation, and make an appointment for the next chat when you usually chat.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think I should tell my boyfriend that as a man, you can't be so verbose, and you have to learn a little more generously.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Answer: If a man is more verbose, then there must be a reason, for your boyfriend is too verbose, if you feel distressed because of this, then you should find the reason and solve him, but we also have to distinguish that sometimes his verbosity may be because he loves you. For example, if there is some verbosity in your safety and your lifestyle, then you should pay attention to it, he may be more concerned about you, so he will be verbose with you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The best way is to break up with your boyfriend, so that you don't have to endure your boyfriend's verbosity anymore, and you can restore your peace and quiet.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Tell him directly, let him shut up, every day like a big girl, annoying, if he is still chattering, then tell him directly, either shut up or break up.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's okay to point it out directly, I believe that my boyfriend will change himself after he knows it, and there may be some shortcomings that he doesn't realize himself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Talk to your boyfriend about this and tell him to trust himself and not be so verbose all the time.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Talk to your boyfriend more and tell him that he really can't stand it anymore and hopes that his boyfriend will change.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think you can find a way to distract him while he's rambling and get him to do some work.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This question is divided into several levels, first, is it just to you wordy, chattering, thousands of advice, that is because I care about you, do not worry about you, should be grateful, if you don't want to be wordy, you have to be self-reliant, let many parties see that you can take care of yourself, do not rely on him, let him rest assured of you.

    Second, is it that the expression ability is not good, one thing is not clear, and it is repeated over and over again. No one is perfect, accept a person, accept all his advantages and disadvantages, ask yourself if you can't stand it, can't accept this problem, can accept it, endure it, if you have the ability, help him improve his expression ability, although this requires a lot of patience and time. When you want to leave a man, any of his shortcomings is a reason for you to leave.

    3. If you want to help him improve his ability to express himself, make it clear to him, and tell him that it is not the same thing to be able to speak and be able to speak, and it is the real ability to explain things concisely and clearly. In addition to reading books on expression, it is more important to practice slowly in the world of the two, strictly demanding him, thinking about how to say it before wanting to say a thing, or expressing a point of view, and then speaking, although it will be very tiring, but this kind of effort is worth it for both parties, and it will enhance feelings, help each other, and make progress together is a benign relationship between the sexes.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Isn't it too verbose... It's a personality problem. If you want to continue to get along, you have to slowly make changes for him.

    You should know what to do. Because I don't know him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Boys aren't as strong as girls think.

    There is a lyric that is very well written: "Men don't shed tears, they just hide and have a broken heart, and would rather stand limp than laugh and kneel".

    Your boyfriend just wants to show his strongest side in front of you, please be considerate of the man when he is injured, give more care and encouragement, and don't play a child's temper when the man is injured, then the man will be more distressed and uncomfortable! In this case, give your boyfriend a little more space, he just wants to be quiet, don't be stupid at this time to ask who your boyfriend is "Jingjing"!

    Just think that girls always have a few days a month, depressed and want to be quiet, don't ask who Jingjing is, because you asked Jingjing who will bring a third party to your feelings, at this time the boy needs you to accompany you silently, and after a while he will realize that he has snubbed you, and when he realizes it's time for you to get angry and ask the reason.

    Your boyfriend is in trouble, he doesn't want you to know that he doesn't like you, she is afraid that you are worried about him, so he has not told you, so often he does not say, it means that he likes you very much, you have to understand him, do not increase his burden, you have to silently support him, let him solve those troubles as soon as possible, so that he will be happy, will go outside with you, will talk and laugh with you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There are two possibilities for this. The positive aspect is that you are afraid of getting fire on you. I told you, I'm afraid you're worried about this. On the contrary, this aspect is not very good, and it doesn't reassure you at all. If he behaves like that, you're not even a spare tire.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    That's the problem. If he's afraid to take his anger out on you, then why can he tell anyone else? Right? Isn't he afraid to take his anger out on other people?

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