Why is forbearance a vulgar philosophy of life?

There are a lot of philosophies about forbearance. This is a kind of self-cultivation as a human being.

Because there are too many things to endure in life, it is still a philosophy.

Maybe forbearance is not vulgar, but forbearance requires a bottom line, and the last line of defense for people is self-esteem.

Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky, this sentence is still very philosophical in life.

Maybe this is a state that most people are in, and if you can't bear it, you will make a big plan.

That's because life in the world doesn't necessarily have to endure everything, which will suppress one's own nature.

Because sometimes forbearance doesn't solve any problems, but it is indeed a philosophy of life that everyone recognizes.

Maybe it's because it makes a lot of sense to endure this.

This will become a habit, and slowly the character will become weak.

This will bend your backbone and leave you without blood.

The word forbearance, according to the Chinese character "six books" (six ways of making characters), should be a shape and sound character, that is, the upper part of the "blade" means to read the empty sound, and the lower part of the "heart" means the meaning of the fan. But since I was a child, I have heard a motto: "The word forbearance is a knife in the heart", which is to see the word "forbearance" as a word.

The folk do not pay much attention to the learning of the "Six Books", but they use the glyph of "Duan Loss to Disturb Forbearance" to illustrate the truth of "forbearance": you must endure until you stick a knife in your heart, and you will not resist. It's really endured to the end.

Chinese culture after the Song Dynasty emphasized the importance of patience.

In fact, forbearance, as a kind of self-cultivation, is often misinterpreted. Forbearance, it should not be held in the heart, nesting; Because the qi is not smooth, it is held in the chest, and if it is not smooth for a long time, it will be dizzy; If you are faint, you are prone to gaffes. In the end, the cultivation of forbearance will still be lost.

Therefore, forbearance should be actively and actively "resolved". It's ready to fly, if you endure it, you can only wait for death. Commonly known as:

The word forbearance is a knife in the heart", and I want to use the glyph of "forbearance" to explain the truth of "forbearance": "I have to endure until I stick a knife in my heart, and I will not resist." Actually, this is a negative attitude, and the result is very sad, at the cost of completely sacrificing oneself, and nothing substantive is solved.

This is not a positive attitude towards WTO accession, and it is not advisable. It is precisely because of this erroneous understanding among the Chinese people that many people have adopted a negative attitude when they could have resolved the contradictions well, and they have missed the best opportunity to solve the problem. Therefore, instead of misleading people to "endure to the point of sticking a knife in their hearts" to make senseless sacrifices, it is better to educate people to "endure", not be afraid of danger, make decisions at the right time, and adopt the method of actively avoiding their sharpness and roundabout resolution, and attacking them in a roundabout way; Learn to avoid head-on conflicts, reduce unnecessary consumption and losses, and use softening, differentiation and other methods to finally resolve conflicts completely.

Everyone in the world should "endure".

When we all walk together, it is inevitable that there will be differences at times. But the day of our lives is over, and no one will bring that resentment to Jiuquan, and no one remembers how you once had an argument with someone. Time returns to Li Neng to dilute everything, and forbearance may be unhappy for a while, but after enduring the Yiyan World Stool, you will find that you are right to endure, and forbearance is a noble sentiment.

When someone slaps you on the left cheek, you give him the right cheek. When someone is pointing fingers at you behind your back, you have to believe that the words spoken by the wicked are not effective compared to a rational person, are you a rational person?