Unspeakable grievances are the most grievances A feeling, anyone can deceive it, only

In my early years, when I read "Flowers Bloom Extravagantly", Yishu's sharp sentence penetrated into my heart: "The grievances that can be said are not grievances." ”

I think so.

When you can get things out of your mouth, a little comfort from your perspective can soothe your heart.

And things are difficult to talk about, you can't tell others, and you can only know it by yourself, which is considered a grievance.

I remember when I was a child, I was a little wronged, and I cried to my parents, I wanted the whole world to come and watch, that kind of coquettish and anticipatory attention is really not a grievance.

When I am an adult, even if I have a full heart, I will only cry silently alone, and even continue to smile, pretending that nothing has happened.

This kind of unspeakable grievance can be regarded as a grievance.

Some grievances are only understood by yourself, and you can only be strong alone if you are wronged, and you don't have to tell others if you are wronged. Time is changing everything, everything is changing us, and we are used to it. What I once wanted so much is no longer needed, and what I started to be very persistent is now free and easy.

Loss creates pain, but it also creates strength. Experienced the price paid. to understand the meaning of growth.

When you know what it means to cry without tears and laugh without a voice, you are truly mature. When you're tired, no one hurts, you have to learn to rest. No one coaxes you to cry, you have to know self-reliance.

Don't complain anymore, some grievances are not just someone who understands them. Even if someone asks, they don't know where to start. Even if someone hurts, it can't replace that pain.

When you can talk about it, you find that you don't want to mention it. I can only hold it silently in my heart.

Even if you say it, you can't say it when you have something in your heart. Silence is everything. Be sad, let the tears fall to your heart's content, don't grieve yourself.

When you are sad, you can pretend to be happy and let yourself forget about your sadness for a while. If you're sad, you don't have to tell someone, they will never understand how you feel. Sad, look up at the sky, the sky is so big, it can accommodate all your grievances.

I know you are very wronged, and you choose to forgive because of kindness. Because self-cultivation is willing to tolerate. Tears can only win sympathy, not feelings.

Pity can only be despised and cannot be taken seriously. But looking back, in fact, people make their own decisions for their whole lives, whether they are happy or not, and they don't have to change themselves for anyone. If you are sad and wronged, hug yourself, and at the same time, you must believe that there will be such a person who understands all your language and naivety, and understands all your grievance tears.