Why do most adults have a breakdown?

I think that because most of today's adults are short of money, there is a lot of pressure on mortgages and car loans. For 99% of people, a lack of money is a bargaining chip to beat an adult. Recently I saw a message about a man who was going to commit suicide on the railroad tracks.

The man looked around beside the railway fence. The railway police found out and took the man away from the station. When the police asked about the man, he said he didn't want to live anymore.

His wife secretly used up the family's 20,000 yuan. The man said he didn't want to live anymore and wanted to commit suicide lying on the railroad tracks. 20,000 yuan can deprive a young man of his life, from which we can see that his life is full of holes.

Maybe it's hard for me to understand how $20,000 can bring a person to the end of their life. It is only when you are short of money that you realize how helpless life is. There is a famous Japanese movie.

A 50-year-old man was eventually fired from the company due to poor benefits. The 50-year-old man had to work more than 16 hours a day at three different gas stations. He had no choice but to support his family and two universities.

There used to be such a post: "What is the scariest thing in the world?" Most people say that a lack of money destroys a young person's self-esteem.

What's even more cruel is that whether you like it or not, no matter how much effort you put in, you can't resist the violence, anxiety, and stress that you love and endure the most in life. No one can resist the weakness, helplessness and helplessness that comes with lack of money. Without the support of money, no matter how much you love, it is just a weak empty fist.

When life hits you, you simply can't fight back. Therefore, what are the hardships of life? Lack of money is the beginning of an adult collapse.

Money means choice. Because you have money, you can choose who you like and how you like to live, regardless of anyone's eyes.

The confidence that money gives you can be achieved without flinching. Money brings freedom of choice. What you can do, not what you can only do.

Lack of money, can only live a cramped life in a limited world. After their friends graduated, they worked hard and continued to be promoted and grown. People who graduated with him either play games or watch idol dramas after work.

After a period of hard work, as the salary continued to increase, the friend realized the gap at that time. The level of economy will really affect a person's world size and his fertility pattern. Later, the gap between this friend and the others became wider and wider.

So I think because most of today's adults are short of money, the pressure on mortgages and car loans is very high.

Because the adult world is not easy.

Because they may be forced by the pressures of life.

The first thing a woman has to do when she is in love is to marry you.

Because they're really under too much pressure.

It's because these people are really hard to get along with.

<> when I saw this topic, I felt that as an adult, I felt that every adult had such a feeling. When I stepped into the society, I always had a lot of emotions in my heart in the face of the pressure of work, life, family, etc.

I remember that when I first came out of college, I also had a lot of pressure when I got my first job. In fact, human beings are sometimes very strange creatures. When you are in school, you always feel that the outside world is very exciting, and you always wish that you have graduated with bare limbs and can step into the society to struggle, not only do you have no homework every day, but you can also earn money every month.

But when you really come out of the campus and enter this complex society, you find that campus life is the purest time in your life, because you hardly have to worry about the life of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea every day, you don't have to worry about trivial things in life, and you don't have to be urged to marry by your family because ......of your ageOn campus, you just need to read your books with peace of mind and imagine your future life. At least, I still had dreams at that time, and my dreams were still beautiful.

I've always read a sentence before: "In the adult world, there is no such thing as easy." "It's true that there are so many things that an adult has to shoulder.

Especially with the passage of time, every time you are one year older, your parents will be one year older, and your parents are well, but when your parents are old and disabled, if you don't have strong economic ability, how can you let your parents rely on you? So, it's really not easy to be an adult today.

Car loans, housing loans, children's education, parental support, ......Everything is pressed on the adults. But no matter how difficult life is, the sun will still rise tomorrow, how can we as adults give up easily?

It's very easy to slippery. This is because the collapse of adults is only in an instant, and the things that are pressed on them are very trusting, and the usual pressure is particularly great, and life is not easy, so it can be said that adults are healing themselves while collapsing.

It is very easy for adults to have a breakdown, because they may feel it in a split second and lash out at their own minds.

It's very easy, because adults go through a lot of things, and negative emotions become more and more numerous, and a small thing can lead to a whole person breakdown.

There are several breakdowns for adults:1. There are old people to support and a small person to take care of, and the sandwich layer in the first spring.

2. Low work income, high mortgage pressure, and high living expenses.

3. The pace of life is fast and the work pressure is high.

4. Interpersonal relationships continue to complicate, and the circle of friends and life circles continue to shrink.

5. Laughing eggplant is powerless in the face of challenges, and wants to change but can't.

This is because we understand that we can only rely on ourselves, and we can only take care of everything on our own.

As social pressure grows, the burden on people becomes heavier and heavier, and often adults are overwhelmed in an instant. In modern society, urban white-collar workers shuttling through the bustling city, honest farmers rooted in the soil, and workers living in reinforced concrete are all under unprecedented pressure, and their hearts are full of unspeakable sadness and pain. Happiness is similar to total rent, while sadness is often different.

You can't understand my sadness, but you are asking me with concern, I don't know how to tell you, I can only tell you with a wry smile, "It's okay".

There may be a lot of old people, who have experienced the disadvantages of not having enough to eat, and it is difficult for the old people who do not wear warm clothes to understand that people nowadays have food and drink every day, and life is younger than ours, what qualifications do you have to say that you are tired. Many times, we can only smile bitterly when we hear this statement. Grief isn't just about being hungry and having no clothes to wear.

Sometimes the mental stress is even a hundred times more severe than the physical hardship. The car, the house, the children's education, the medical care of the elderly, the squeeze of the boss, and the overdraft of the body, that is not like a sharp knife stuck in the hearts of contemporary people. We bear the expectations of our parents and children, there is no option to back down in our world, there is no qualification to admit defeat, we just grit our teeth desperately and persevere.

If social pressure is one thing, then on the other hand, maybe it's loneliness, we will have a lot of friends, but none of them can let us talk to our heart's content, mountains and rivers are always out of reach, not everyone can encounter the Bo Yazi period, a lot of suffering can not be mentioned to the family, everything can only be piled up in the heart. As Mr. Lu Xun wrote in the book, "Their sorrows are different, and I just think they are noisy", so we can only tell others "it's okay".

There are several breakdowns for adults:1. There are old people to raise, and small ones to take care of, and the middle sandwich layer.

2. Low work income, high mortgage pressure, and high living expenses.

3. The pace of life is fast and the work pressure is high.

4. Interpersonal relationships continue to complicate, and the circle of friends and life circles continue to shrink.

5. Weak in the face of challenges, wanting to change but unable to change.

The collapse of the post-90s generation began with an early morning when they learned not to cry.

After wearing the mask for a long time, do you still remember how you really looked?

After wearing the mask for a long time, do you still remember how you really looked?

The collapse of the post-90s generation began with an early morning when they learned not to cry.

After wearing the mask for a long time, do you still remember how you really looked?

The collapse of the post-90s generation began with an early morning when they learned not to cry.

The collapse of the post-90s generation began with an early morning when they learned not to cry.

After wearing the mask for a long time, do you still remember how you really looked?

The collapse of the post-90s generation began in the early morning when things learned not to cry.