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Actually, you have to take the initiative to get others to pay attention.
Generally speaking, if you are outstanding, humorous and funny, or have top grades, or have a rich family, people will not take the initiative to take care of you.
Usually take the initiative and be enthusiastic with everyone. Be positive, playful, and cute when you are gathering or discussing. Don't always sit on the sidelines and listen to others, if you are always obscure, you can't get people to pay attention to you.
You don't like to take the initiative to talk to people you don't know, and that's okay. Encounter.
Although you are not familiar with it, but you still know someone, even if you don't speak, you can smile at her (him) very sweetly and say hello.
Also, a girl like the landlord should learn to be more refined. There are many people who think that it is a good thing for girls to be cheerful and lively, but it is best to be lively in exquisiteness. That's who I am, so everyone I know says I'm super cute.
Change your style, although the big girl feels very straightforward, but if I were her friend, I would only treat her as a playmate, not a girlfriend who can whisper.
Even when facing someone you don't like, don't show it too much. If you want to get good popularity, you have to be patient. There was a girl in our dormitory, who was basically a no-brainer.
is contrived and has a bad temper, and likes to cling to others, and quarrels with others every day. I used to be cold and sneering at her, just like the rest of my classmates. However, it turned out that this did not actually benefit both parties.
Later, I adopted a soft policy, even though she spoke very aggressively and had a bad attitude, I still talked to her softly with a smile on my face, and she was super nice to me later.
Huhu (o)zz is tired of me. I hope you find this helpful. Although there are no plus points...
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1. Improve self-confidence. Self-confidence is the most fundamental motivation to eliminate inferiority complex. Don't be afraid of failure, because failure is inevitable, think of "failure is the mother of success"; "Victory or defeat is a common thing in a soldier's life." We should analyze the causes of defeat with a positive attitude, believe in our own ability and perseverance, overcome difficulties, and work hard toward success.
2. Firmly believe in the truth that "I am born to be useful". Correctly understand yourself, see your own strengths, and discover your own value. Give full play to one's own strengths, actively participate in activities conducive to the development of one's strengths, and make use of one's advantages to make more achievements as much as possible, so that one's self-confidence can be continuously consolidated and enhanced.
3. Be clear: diligence is a good training to make up for clumsiness, and a point of hard work is a point of talent. Through diligent study and hard practice, we can completely narrow the gap between ourselves and others, and even catch up with or surpass others.
4. Maintain psychological balance. Students with low self-esteem should praise themselves more and use their own strengths to compare the shortcomings of others. Don't get discouraged when you encounter a setback, don't think "I can't do it", but show a strong sense of confidence: "I can do it." Do it again, and I'll make it."
Fifth, choose the right good method. Everyone's situation is different, and what is effective in others may not be applicable to them, and "Dong Shi Xiao Feng" often achieves twice the result with half the effort, and according to their own special circumstances, they can choose some good and practical methods to get twice the result with half the effort.
6. "Go your own way and let others say go!" Because other people's ridicule and belittlement are often due to jealousy or other reasons, remember: as long as you don't admit that you have an inferiority complex, no one can make you feel inferior!
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Friend, you're actually maturing. As long as you improve your own quality, one day people will be impressed by you.
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It's kind of like you, but I don't want revenge or anything like that.
In fact, you may be too accommodating to others, so others will gradually think that you don't care.
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If you want to be loved by others, you must first learn to love others.
If you don't pay, who will reciprocate, first care about others, take care of others, don't forget others.
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You have the needs you need to be.
You just don't notice it.
I wonder why everyone is ignoring me.
Just think about how well I did it.
Once you know it, you can get along with people in other ways.
It was found out later. It's not just about people who combine themselves.
I also have to combine everyone.
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You have to know that interpersonal communication is mutual, and if you don't like others and insist that others smile and say hello to you, this may not be too unreasonable, in the end, you should reflect on it. That's no one else's fault.
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To quote a sentence, it was originally a piece of advice for men, but now I will pass it on to you: if you like a mm who thinks that others should be good to her, please give up as soon as possible. No one is supposed to be good to a person. If she doesn't understand this truth, that is, she doesn't know how to cherish it at all.
Full text from. If you want to see it, you can experience it.
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How do you want to take revenge, it's still young, don't think so much, the one you said wants revenge is very naïve.
Look a little bit away, what I said upstairs is not wrong at all.
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You're just like me, but if you can be cheerful, there will be a lot of people willing to approach you.
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Haha, different people's evaluation of the same person should be similar ......
If everyone says that, you can think about the credibility of this review.
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If others don't take the initiative to talk to you, you take the initiative to talk to others
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I'll talk about my personal opinion, maybe you are a relatively low-key person, don't like to express yourself, or people themselves are more indifferent to the things around you feel boring, I suggest you get more involved in the colleagues (classmates) around you, maybe you will find some like-minded or sincere people, people like you I feel should be a very sincere person, On the other hand, you have to learn to express yourself in some public places, express your views and ideas, and share them with everyone. To make friends, you have to communicate to have feelings, isn't it... This is my point of view, I hope it will be helpful to you.
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At that time, you didn't have the results of self-confidence, and I think young people nowadays can do without anything.
You just can't be without self-confidence, once you don't have such things, then you will rarely do things.
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I think it's like the opposite sex, and the opposite sex can also be good friends. Besides, maybe you're lonely and lonely, but you just feel so? As long as you have self-confidence, then you will definitely become your confidant and sworn friend.
Friends are relative, you ignore people. Others don't come back to pay attention to you, perhaps, you walk over confidently and simply say "What are you doing?" "People are happy to talk to you?
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Our lives are like circles. You've been walking around in your own circle, how can you possibly get to know people. Get out there. Naturally, there are new friends.
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You're a little bit inferior, but you can enjoy the joy of being alone right now I like to be alone, and I'm often bothered by people when I'm enjoying myself.
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I also often feel that I am not good at expressing myself, and I just talk to others for a few words. There isn't much emotion without too much communication. I really want to change but I don't know how to change, and personality can't be changed quickly.
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Send two red envelopes, one by one, not like a dog seeing a bone...
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In real life, you certainly don't like to talk.
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You need to be active and talk about interesting topics.
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After a long time, Zheng Chen's contact will be less, but true friends don't need to be in contact often, but they will often think that no matter where they are, time is long, friends will always be friends, and those who are forgotten because of time are not real friends.
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To see. It doesn't matter, of course.
But if it's someone who matters, it won't.
Now communication is convenient.
No matter where you shout, you can also contact.
Naturally, if you don't bury slowly, you will be forgotten.
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Yes, time is the best tool for forgetting.
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Yes, some people will always be forgotten by others, just like me, when I have been remembered, I am always in a state of being forgotten, around my friends, when something happens, people will not remember me, they will always forget me, I am also thinking, why? Why am I forgotten by others, but not remembered? Just like me, I think I'm the kind of person who is boring, so I don't impress others at all, so I always get forgotten. The current society is different from before, like before, there are not many people who have been forgotten, and now, it is different from before. Adopt it.
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That's because you're sentimental and care too much. Haven't you heard a word It's not because the other person is too cold, it's because you care too much.
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I feel that I am always forgotten, probably because my presence is too thin.
Maybe you are a decent person, such a person seems to follow the trajectory of life too much in the crowd, people are not interested, and they will naturally ignore you first.
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Because you have too little security, you are afraid of being lonely, you are afraid of being abandoned by others, you are always very uneasy, and it is not easy to trust others.
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Just don't throw yourself away. Why are you worried about that.
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It's because you're so non-existent, that's why people always ignore you. So you need to do something to make people feel like you're there, but don't be too deliberate.
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In general, he is neither ugly nor handsome, he has not done any good things or even done any bad things, he is safe, he has nothing to be discussed by others, he has no criticism or praise, he can only hear his (her) name by chance, and he usually laughs in the eight women's pile.
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It mostly depends on the first impression. 1. A lively and smiling person will definitely make a good first impression 2. Talkative and humorous Talk to each other about interesting topics, 3. In fact, the most fundamental thing is that it is charismatic. Or depends on the face.
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Become a hot person, okay???
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Most of them choose to ignore it, thinking: 1, afraid of being deceived 2, why should they tell you.
If the girl is already in the heart, she will not bother, if there is something abrupt, I hope the girl understands, if the girl is not my lover, then it is not mediocre to disturb herself, and I hope that the girl is getting deeper and deeper, and I hope the girl will tell me as soon as possible, don't let me be so unbearable! At this point, I thank you again.
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Because your enthusiasm is too cheap for others to cherish.
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It's not because you're not good-looking.
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Why am I always the one who is overlooked? Talking to people, no matter who is looking for me, as long as I see it, I will reply in seconds, but I look for others, others are always very slow to reply, alas... Why am I always the one who is overlooked?
Why am I always the one who is overlooked? Talking to people, no matter who is looking for me, as long as I see it, I will reply in seconds, but I look for others, others are always very slow to reply, alas... Why am I always the one who is overlooked?
Why am I always the one who is overlooked? Talking to people, no matter who is looking for me, as long as I see it, I will reply in seconds, but I look for others, others are always very slow to reply, alas... Why am I always the one who is overlooked?
Why am I always the one who is overlooked? Talking to people, no matter who is looking for me, as long as I see it, I will reply in seconds, but I look for others, others are always very slow to reply, alas... Why am I always the one who is overlooked?
Why am I always the one who is overlooked? Talking to people, no matter who is looking for me, as long as I see it, I will reply in seconds, but I look for others, others are always very slow to reply, alas... Why am I always the one who is overlooked?
Why am I always the one who is overlooked? Talking to people, no matter who is looking for me, as long as I see it, I will reply in seconds, but I look for others, others are always very slow to reply, alas... Why am I always the one who is overlooked?
Why am I always the one who is overlooked? Talking to people, no matter who is looking for me, as long as I see it, I will reply in seconds, but I look for others, others are always very slow to reply, alas...
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