How to treat the daughter of your husband s ex wife.

That depends on the state of your husband's ex-wife. Whether it is divorced or deceased, if it is divorced, it depends on how the wife educates the child, if the ex-wife always says bad things about the father and you, it will be very difficult, and if the child loves the mother very much, then it is difficult for you to enter the role. But no matter what, you have to be sincere to him and influence the other party, only sincerity is useful, and it may be very resistant at the beginning, but as long as you are sincere, you will see people's hearts over time.

Will accept you in the end. Be patient when dealing with problems, don't always make small reports, it's better to talk to him alone if there is any problem, and don't leave the problem to your father to deal with, otherwise both parties will be very unhappy. If he has any objections, try to tolerate them, and don't tell his father until they have to.

Be attentive, your husband's ex-wife says that about you, you tell your husband that you are very embarrassed, you want to be good to the child but the child is very resistant to you, making it difficult for you to do well, I hope your husband sometimes has to give the child the right guidance, saying that it is normal for parents to divorce, and also told him that sometimes what his mother says is not all right, not that your father does not give you to your mother, just give you to your mother, your mother will only be very hard to take you alone in the future, you don't believe you ask your mother directly, if your mother says she is willing to take you, say I lied to you, Dad let you talk to him, see how the ex-wife is still talking nonsense.

I know how you feel, because you're just like me. My boyfriend has a son, almost nine years old, although they divorced when he was more than a year old, but they have been living together in the next few years, but after all, two people divorced, there must be unsolvable contradictions and problems, so since the end of last year, they have separated, but because of the relationship for many years, the two are still in frequent contact (this is what I learned later); My boyfriend had two girlfriends before, but he didn't make it as formal as me, so his ex-wife didn't care too much, but seeing that we lived together like husband and wife, his ex-wife began to find a way to separate me from my boyfriend, and tried every means to use his son to create a lot of words and trouble among us, and now I am more than three months pregnant, and I am living in dire straits every day, and what is even more annoying is that my boyfriend is going to break up with me without asking indiscriminately, and ask me to take away the child, so, That's the sad part of finding a divorced man with children! Like you, I want to be a good mother, treat and educate my children as if they were my own, but he is almost nine years old, he has his own thinking, between me and his mother, he must believe in his own mother, so he is also used to provoke my relationship with my boyfriend, and my boyfriend must also feel sorry for his child, so he would rather break up with me and ask me to induce labor, but also to give his son a satisfaction; Everyone says that if you treat it with sincerity, you will definitely win the trust of your child, and it turns out that no matter how much you pay, there will never be a way for him to truly accept it, really!

Treat it with your heart, and she can feel your heart.

Talk to her, I think the most important thing is to be equal ......

Don't treat it with your heart, the best thing is to find a way to stay away.

Since you have chosen your husband for the second marriage, then you should love the house and the house. Especially your husband's children, you have to care about her and love her.

It can be said that children are as important as your life, so since you are married to your husband, you should love your husband with all your heart, love your husband's ex-wife's children, and love your husband's family, so that you can be the most virtuous woman and the kindest woman. Your love, your kindness will surely be repaid in the future.

As long as you warm them with love, care for them with love, and take care of them, your husband will love you even more.

On the contrary, if you can't treat your husband's ex-wife's child well, you can't treat this child well, then this innocent child, poor child, will be even more pitiful, and your husband will be unbearable. Your love will not last long.

Therefore, women must compromise and accept themselves, if they don't accept it, a man won't love you, and the marriage won't last long.

This problem involves a lot, maybe he feels guilty about his ex-wife, but the child knows, it is recommended that you also have a good relationship with his eldest son, after all, it is also your husband's child, and your family is still young, if there is hostility, everyone will be tired, if your husband does not feel your hostility, he may open his heart to you, and now you don't know what he wants to do.

It's already like this, I think you should let him have more contact with your son, strengthening the relationship between your family of three is the most important thing, as for that son, it's impossible not to let him care.