How do you deal with the kind of good friend who doesn t take himself seriously?

Things have two sides, if it's another situation, he's shameless, nothing to do with you, don't treat yourself as an outsider, then I think you should be with him and don't treat yourself as an outsider, because people are like this now, if she is embarrassed to treat herself as an outsider, and you are particularly embarrassed, then you can look at it, she will become less and less an outsider in the future, so cherish what should be cherished, give up what should be given up, life is actually very short, There is no need to pay too much for these people who don't need to pay too much, leave more effort to people who know how to be grateful, and live this life more meaningfully!

Give someone a taste of their own medicine. Do unto her as she would have done to you. We have to admit that there are some people in this world who don't know how to be grateful.

What can be obtained without paying a price, people often do not know to cherish. But sometimes free things tend to be the most expensive, such as love and kindness.

There is another meaning of free: the giver can get it back at any time. If you want to give it to you, you will give it to you, and if you don't want to give it to you, you will not

Taking back your kindness and help is a loss to her, but in the face of a person who does not know how to be grateful and give back, who is afraid of whom. I think of a famous line: "If you want to hit you, you will be beaten, and you still have to pick a day?" ”

I'm the kind of stingy person who will repay the bullets, you don't take me seriously, why should I take you stupidly, I will treat you like you as you treat me, very polite contacts, just acquaintances, the relationship is not good.

Such a friend has a good mentality. If he did, he should. Sincerely to her.

Good faith. Be nice to her. Such friends are hard to find.

So everyone has to learn, and if you are good to your friends, your friends will naturally be good to you. If you are good to others, others will be good to you. Please learn a lot.

Remember to be nice to others. It's the same for every friend. Ha ha.

Sincerity relatively. There are such friends. Very good.

This life is your friend. Not in the next life.

Friends are made with heart, and if he really doesn't take you seriously, you should think about whether he sees you as a friend. Sometimes you see people as friends, and they only see you as knowing you, and that's sad.

Too much enthusiasm will lead to neglect, what you give may not be what others want, when you give too much what others don't want, it will make people irritated and away from you, you should find a balance in friendship, don't be too enthusiastic, communicate appropriately, keep your distance, remember to give others the right to reject your kindness.

And because he thinks too highly of himself, he may be nothing at all in his mind, so why bother to be bored with himself, practice himself, and unilaterally self-righteous pay may just add to the burden of others! People must learn to be smarter, and they must learn to give wholeheartedly to those who cherish themselves! That's because he didn't treat you as a friend.

Then I can only say goodbye in style. There's no need to worry about anything, and I don't pray that he will be true to me.

There is no need to pay in return, for example: if you give someone an apple, what will someone else do? Send you one back、Smile and say thank you、Don't!

So there are no absolutes in everything, do you think you are true to him, he must be true to you? Wrong! It's like a child often says:

If you don't give it back to me, I won't play with you." (Hey!) After all, you're not him, he's not you).

It's very sad, in fact, it's also because you haven't met the right person, and the person who really smells like you won't be like this. Sometimes I know that others don't take me seriously, but because of face, I am afraid of loneliness and choose to settle.

If my good friend is constantly acting unkindly towards me, I will first try to communicate with him or her to understand why this is the case. If I can have a one-on-one hand-to-head conversation in a calm environment, I will express my feelings and concerns and try to understand their thoughts and emotions. I'll also ask him if he has any grievances against my behavior, and see if I can improve our relationship by changing my behavior.

If communication is unsuccessful, or if I find that my friend's behavior is simply unbearable, I will consider keeping my distance for a while and giving myself and them some space to think calmly. During this process, I may talk to other friends and seek their advice and support.

The most important thing is that no matter what I do, I will do it with respect and understanding, and I will not make decisions lightly and will not give up on friendships with friends just because of one or two unpleasant experiences. Of course, to a certain extent, I will listen to my parents' opinions, but I will rely more on my own experience and intuition to make the final decision.

After all, true friendship is built on mutual respect, understanding and support, and even in the face of difficulties or challenges, it should be persevered rather than given up easily.

The so-called "friends" are to help each other when they are in trouble, share together when they are happy, and not disturb each other when they are not social.

Don't take your friends too seriously" I want to say to Xiaolin, I am that "friend". I especially hope that Xiaolin doesn't take me too seriously, because I don't care about my friends as much as she does.

Xiaolin is a very good girl, very kind, especially caring for the feelings of others, and especially willing to give ...... for her friendsSuddenly found out that she should be a "people-pleasing personality".

Oh my God, I have a friend with a people-pleasing personality, should I be happy or sad?

That's right, that's a bit cruel.

I don't like to be with her, because when I stay with her, I have to take into account her feelings, and if I don't think about it, I will feel guilty if I accidentally hurt her, how tiring it is!

She loves to smile very much, and you have to respond to her laughter when you see her laughing, otherwise people will look at you crying and sad, and feel so lost. But I don't want to laugh, why laugh when I'm not happy?

I kept telling her, "Take it easy, be yourself, don't care too much about other people's opinions, and if you can't do it, then don't contact the other person!" Isn't it good to put an end to the problem directly? ”

I'm also a very sensitive person who cares about other people's opinions, so I don't dare to make friends with others, I'm afraid that the other party will make me angry, because I'm going to be angry all day, it's a waste of time! (But I can't control my anger, so try not to make anyone or anything angry with me, and I won't be angry).

If you don't make friends, you won't have the trouble of relationships. It's the one I chose to live my best way of life.

I admit that I don't have high emotional intelligence, I admit that I am not a popular person, I admit that I have a lot of shortcomings, I admit that I can easily say the wrong thing......I don't want to upset people, and at the same time I'm afraid of getting hurt.

So, except for my boyfriend (who doesn't have a boyfriend yet), I keep my distance from anyone, don't bother others, and don't give others a chance to hurt themselves.

Now I don't have a boyfriend, it's my boyfriend, if there is any happiness or trouble, I tell it, in this way, to relieve the troubles in my heart.

Xiaolin, learn to love yourself, do anything to consider your own feelings in advance, and then consider the feelings of others, okay?

I don't want to fall in love because it's troublesome to fall in love, and I don't want to make friends, but it's also because it's troublesome to make friends. I don't like trouble, so I'm fit to live alone.

Who am I? A person who loves a lively atmosphere, but does not like to fall into the excitement.