Why don t I crave love, why don t I crave love?

Love is warm and sweet, marriage is happy, and each of us hopes that we can have perfect love and a happy marriage. ......But in real life, some people have the problem of fear of marriage and childbearing, which has a very big impact on them. Whether these people can still desire love, on this issue, it is necessary to conduct a targeted analysis in combination with the relevant situation.

Specifically, it includes three aspects: people who have misconceptions about marriage and childbearing can have love, people who are prejudiced against marriage and childbearing find it difficult to pursue love, and people who refuse marriage and childbearing cannot find love.

1. People who have misconceptions about marriage and childbearing can have love.

Everyone has their own understanding of marriage, fertility and love, and some of them have some misunderstandings about marriage and childbirth, which leads to deviations in the process of chasing and seeking love, which in turn makes it difficult for them to pursue true love. ......However, as long as these people clear up their misunderstandings, they can get back on track and thus have true love for themselves.

2. It is difficult for people who are prejudiced against marriage and childbearing to pursue love.

For some people, their views on marriage and childbearing are incorrect, and there are many prejudices. ......For these people, they will only get the wrong results by dealing with various problems in love and marriage according to their own wrong understanding, and it is difficult for these people to pursue true love.

3. People who refuse marriage and childbearing are doomed to not be able to find their own love.

In addition to the above two situations, there are also some people who reject marriage and childbearing, and do not want to marry or have children. ......For these people, because of the attitude they adopt to refuse, they will not be able to find their own love, and these blind people will spend their lives alone in solitude.

Maybe it's not that you don't want to love, it's not that you don't want to fall in love, it's just that you prefer a person's simplicity and peace of mind than loving someone's gains and losses, sadness and grievances.

The relationship seems to be very simple, two people are happy with each other, and it is romantic enough to go both ways. The relationship seems to be very complicated, experiencing the baptism of firewood, rice, oil and salt, as if no one is an exception, all the beauty has turned into dullness, and all romance has become quarrels.

After all, the story is very beautiful, the ending is very miserable, I regret looking at the past, forgetting and slowly self-**.

Nowadays, young people don't want to fall in love because the breakup rate is too high. There is also too much pressure to sue for help, and if the three views do not match, you will have to divorce. Before marriage, love was incomparable, but once you have children, it will not work, and there are more and more contradictions, and finally you divorce.

So instead of falling in love and getting divorced, it's better not to fall in love and not get married. Because I have seen too many unfortunate love and unhappy marriages of men and women for a long time, I feel that it is better to take off my shoes early than when the road is rotten. It's better not to fall in love.

What is the reason for not longing for love.

It's not so much that I don't like it, but I have a fear of falling in love. First of all, people nowadays are flooded with various TV dramas and entertainment gossip, or have been hurt in their relationships, and most of them have a state of doubt about their view of love. Secondly, most of the current love models require a lot of energy and money, and many young people in society just take care of themselves and have to do their best.

Most responsible guys want to have a certain foundation so that they don't stretch themselves out on dates. And most girls also have the ability to live themselves well, so they feel that falling in love is a matter of fate.

It's not that we don't want to fall in love, it's just that most of us don't want to settle. And there are so few people who happen to be suitable. The final conclusion is that a person is very good, so everyone has formed such a tacit understanding.

For young people who have just graduated, it would be nice for them to be able to support themselves, not by their families. It's embarrassing to cause another person and yourself to suffer, as long as you have a little sense of responsibility, you will think so.

Actually, the single life is also very good, you don't need someone to take care of you every day, what do you want to do, and the whole family is not hungry when you are fed.

It's good to do what you like, as long as you get better, the other half you choose will not be bad one day in the future!

First of all, waiting is a common point of view when it comes to waiting for a good person, but that doesn't guarantee that you will be able to wait for a good person. In reality, sometimes people will find the right partner at the right time, and sometimes they need to take the initiative to find it. Proactive search doesn't mean giving up waiting, it's taking the initiative at the right time.

Secondly, not being in a relationship all the time does not necessarily mean that you will wait for someone who is very good. Everyone's situation and needs are different, so the answer to this question is different from person to person. However, keeping an open mind, learning how to build relationships with people, and cultivating your own attractiveness and charisma may make it easier for you to find the right partner in a relationship.

Finally, there are many other important things in your life, such as work, study, friendships, and interests. Investing in these aspects will make you more fulfilled and happy. At the same time, don't forget to pay attention to your own needs and feelings, and be brave enough to pursue love when you meet the right person.

Then you have no joy in life, you want to find another person to accompany you, you just lack a playmate instead of a lack of love.

We see that there are many young people now, they are not so eager for love, and even they do not fall in love or get married. Even for young people, they should know that love is very happy and very beautiful.

Especially for young people, they should be more looking forward to being happy. Good love is especially when they meet someone they like. Then they want to be with the people they like.

But we see that there are many people and even some young people nowadays, and they don't fall in love and don't want to get married. So some people wonder why a lot of young people don't want to get married.

First of all, because there are still a lot of young people, and they are not that good. It's because they're so ordinary. Even they don't have a stable job yet, so it's very impossible to have a good love, so they will be more active and work harder, because only if they themselves are more positive and hardworking.

In this way, they can be more excellent, and only when they are excellent, can they have happiness and beautiful love.

Of course, for more young people, the reason why they don't get married, or even fall in love, is because there are a lot of girls now, they. Very realistic, especially in love. They will put a lot of high demands on boys, and they will demand good jobs and good families.

And it also requires boys to care for and love girls all the time. If the boy does not do well a little bit. Then the girl won't be with the guy.

Therefore, we see that although there are many boys who want to fight with girls, because they cannot meet the requirements and conditions of girls, they can only choose to be single.

So we see that there are a lot of young people now, and they don't fall in love and they don't get married. But in fact, they also know that love is happy, and it is very beautiful.

Therefore, we still hope that every young person will still be more active and hardworking, because only when they themselves are more active and hardworking. In this way, they can be more excellent, and only in this way can they be better with the people they like, and eventually they will truly have a love that makes them happier and better.

Because love is crushed by all kinds of realities.