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First of all, I think you should talk to your girlfriend to find out where your immaturity is. Nowadays girls are usually precocious than boys, so it is not a big deal for her to think that you are immature, don't be too nervous, and don't put too much pressure on yourself. Maturity always requires a process, don't worry, don't deliberately disguise yourself in order to pretend to be mature, or it is very likely that you will not pretend to be mature, but it will make people think that you are not real.
Secondly, maturity is what every boy should pursue when he grows up, and it is not too difficult to achieve maturity. Here are a few of my suggestions:
1.Don't talk too much, you will lose too much, and mature people will not let their own troubles come out of their mouths.
2.Pay attention to the occasion, what kind of occasion to do what kind of thing you should know in your heart.
3.Pay attention to the dress, wearing clothes can often show a person's taste, and look at the dress of mature people, I believe it will be inspiring.
4.You must be assertive, you must have a temper, but don't be stubborn, don't lose your temper at every turn.
5.Don't panic when you encounter something, first tell yourself that anything will be solved, when you want to talk at a critical time, count 30 seconds in your heart now, if you don't have a good opinion, silence is better than opening your mouth.
6.To understand what money means to you, money is not everything, but the basics, work hard to earn money.
7.Be filial, very filial! Be nice to your girlfriend, but don't care everywhere, be a little machismo, so that the girl feels safe.
8.Be romantic, but not too much, and don't talk too much.
9.Say everything you do, don't say it and do it.
10.Don't shed tears often, it's very unproductive, don't be coquettish often, learn to be silent when you're in a bad mood... That's all for now, I hope it helps.
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I'll give you an example.
I also have a boyfriend... He is often said to be immature.
I think there are a few things about his immaturity.
I often have to comfort him as a girl... It gives me the illusion that I'm a man and she's a woman.
I like to cheat. Love to be spoiled 、、、
You say that this kind of man is not said to be immature by girls, and it can't be said that it is unreasonable.
It depends on you. But maturity is actually a kind of daring ... Brave... Steady... A symbol of wisdom.
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One is really like you, and it's testing you! The other is that I don't like you, it's better to call this excuse, you know it yourself!! It seems that if you really like her, you can't change the world, you can only change yourself, rise up,!!
There are too many places in the immature aspect, think about you! Only you can know and understand the things of men and women! The things in the book, on the Internet, and the advice given to you by others are all secondary, and your own direction is the master, otherwise the immortals will not be afraid of you!
Your coming to publish is one of your immature monetization.
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That is, if you are immature, what else can you do, if you really like her, you can change yourself.
Or maybe she doesn't like you, so she finds a reason.
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