If your classmate is jealous of you, she is not the same, and she is still in the same dormitory, wh

Updated on workplace 2024-02-09
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Your best bet is to do nothing

    Static braking. If you make a move now, people who don't know still think that you are jealous of her, she can do whatever she loves, just don't give her a good face and do your own thing.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Just deal with her on the surface. Don't worry about it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The opposite of love is not hate, but indifference, if you don't put her in your eyes at all, what if you can use it against her?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Then you don't know.

    It's okay to guard against it usually.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hehe, I have seen a lot of boys like this, and they ignore it.

    In fact, everyone knows in their hearts that no one likes to talk about it, and it's a waste of saliva to say it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's you again, isn't it the last time you were not satisfied, why do you keep getting this problem, haven't you solved it yet? Hey, you girl! Difficult to understand you guys.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Let's have a good chat!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Maybe it's because you're thinking too much about what others do and being yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It looks like you're even more annoying than that girl.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    First of all, if you could make that annoying boy change, stop scolding and beating people in class, and listen carefully to the class, would you feel a sense of accomplishment?

    Secondly, when you encounter a problem, you should find a way to solve it, rather than choosing to run away. You can try to change and help that pesky boy. In this way, you will not only gain friendship, but you will also gain joy when helping others. This will also be very helpful for your growth later on.

    Finally, when you help others answer questions, you also review your knowledge. Why not?

    If you try hard, try, and feel that you can't do it, and it affects your learning. At this time, if you don't want to continue to challenge yourself, you can apply for a teacher transfer.

    Most teachers would agree.

    However, as a teacher. I usually sit in the front row with the naughty kids. Or let him sit with a better, more popular child. Hopefully it will make him change. I don't want to give up on any of my children.

    Because I believe that there are no bad children, it's just that the education is not appropriate!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In the future, there are still a lot of people you don't like and you have to work with, you have to learn to make friends with people.

    Actually, I'm an elementary school student.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Directly let him transfer to another class and hand it over to the male teacher.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course I agree.

    Discuss with the teacher and discuss getting him away

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If your academic performance has dropped, you can use that as a reason.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Hey, if she's targeting you, you can ignore you. Such a human eye does not see pure.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Don't you know you're a warm-hearted and kind girl? So who wouldn't love a girl like that? You must be in your class. It's because I've been pressed by her that I'm doing nothing, and now that I've graduated from my internship, I'm also estranged from her by the way.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    All I can say is that you can ignore her, but please don't exclude her.

    Note here that it is your right to ignore her, and whether one person wants to communicate with another person or not, the choice is in your own hands; However, the concept of exclusion means that bullying and bullying and bullying are simply constituted malicious aggression, which is two different concepts.

    There are many reasons for not being social, not being good at communicating with strangers, shyness, different interests and hobbies, no intention to have deep friendships, etc., if you feel that the other person is not social, then you don't need to force a group with each other (maybe the other party also wants to stay quietly

    I'm not a gregarious person myself, at least in the eyes of my roommates. I just didn't really want to deal with my roommates, one because I was embarrassed, and the other because I couldn't go together. To be honest, it's funny that the school dormitory is divided, and it is understandable to forcibly compress people into a small and enclosed space according to geography or grades.

    When my roommate was talking about makeup and celebrities, I really didn't know how to answer, and when my roommate was troubled by the pronunciation of a word that seemed simple to me, I tried the so-called gregarious behavior, at least I thought I showed my friendliness, gently reminded me, and then was said by my roommate to show off ( I was also very embarrassed, I simply didn't try to fit in, and it was good, I enjoyed my own (

    So, ignore the misfit as much as you like, but please don't bully her. Advice from a stupid guy who was beaten up by a full-bed partner and forced to change his bed, and he hasn't learned how to deal with people so far (: In addition, I actually like my current roommates, but I blush for a long time just by talking to them, and there is no suitable topic to talk about, so if there is any way to make friends with my current roommate, please let me know (.)

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I don't know what the subject's unsociability refers to, is this girl's emotional intelligence particularly low, and always makes everyone unhappy when she gets along with everyone, or is this girl only focused on learning, so she usually doesn't participate in topics between girls? Either way, if she doesn't fit in, you can not play with her, in short, you can avoid interacting with her too much, but you must not exclude her, or be cold and violent, because she has not done anything to be sorry for you.

    Although the university is half of the society, but I have always felt that the school is a relatively simple place, everyone from all over the country to the same university, but also assigned to a dormitory, this is a kind of fate, if the dormitory members do not get along, it is really troublesome, but the matter is artificial, when there is a situation of misfit, you should first choose to try to find the problem, and then to solve the problem.

    1. Find the problem.

    You can try to find an opportunity to communicate with that girl, tell her how you feel, and also listen to her inner thoughts, sometimes you feel that she is not social and excludes her; She may also think that you don't like her, so she doesn't dare to approach you, and the misunderstanding is getting deeper and deeper. I used to have a primary school girl, who was very shy, always afraid to speak, bored over there, so several other girls thought she was too cold, and she felt that others didn't like her, and her timidity became smaller, she didn't dare to speak, and the misunderstanding between each other became deeper and deeper.

    2. Solve problems.

    If the problem between you and her can be solved by understanding and compromising with each other, then I don't think it will be an obstacle to annoying each other. The elementary school girl I just mentioned,Later, I also suggested that she talk to a few other girls.,In the end, everyone had conflicts.,Other girls often invite her to play together.,And the elementary school girl also began to become cheerful.,It's not as dull as before.。

    Therefore, don't be easy to be cold and violent or exclude a person, and if the other party is not socially friendly because ≠of bad character, it is recommended to negotiate with the school to ask for a change of dormitory.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When there is an unsociable girl in the dormitory, we should not exclude her, we are all from the north and south of the river, to be able to meet in the same dormitory, it means that we are very fateful, we have to get along for four years, we will definitely live like a family, because we always spend more time at school than at home, so the relationship between roommates is especially important. Sometimes we ostracize others because we are narrow-minded, and if we are more tolerant, then anything can be solved.

    When I first arrived at the university, my family sent me over, at first I wished they would go home quickly, I wanted to live my own life quickly, but then I didn't think so, because after they left, I was very reluctant, very homesick, almost cried, or because my roommates came to comfort me, and I played with me I slowly came out of the lost emotions, and I was very grateful to them, thinking that I must get along with them in the future, even if there will be all kinds of conflicts.

    I think when I first arrived in the dormitory, it was a girl next door to me who greeted me first, so I thought in my heart that she would definitely be very easy to get along with, because the first image was important, so I relied on her ever since. But after getting along for a long time, everyone's shortcomings began to be slowly exposed. Isn't there a saying on the Internet that there will only be more and more conflicts between the dormitories, and they will get along more and more because of this.

    That's where we were at the time. She is selfish and doesn't like to talk to us, she always does her own thing alone, she doesn't think about other people's feelings, she gets up early in the morning and makes a lot of noise, even if we talk a lot, but she still doesn't listen. After that, we all got a little angry because she was so unsociable, so we kind of started to isolate her.

    Slowly, I realized that that was wrong, so I tried to communicate with her, and then she did listen, and then she stopped what she was doing. So roommates need to be tolerant of each other. In this way, we can get along longer.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    First of all, it's not right to exclude someone anyway.

    Sometimes, you need to empathize, if the unsociable girl is herself, she is originally a classmate, and she is a step closer than ordinary people, and she is a roommate, and she is closer than her classmates. In a dormitory, it is also very convenient to help each other when there is a problem. But in this small collective, there is a person who is excluded by the people in the group because of his personality or something, which hurts people a lot.

    I remember when I was in junior high school, I was shy and cold. But this coldness is not pretending, I have the same attitude towards my family, I just don't like to be lively. My roommate knew that my personality was like this, so he kept playing with me and teasing me in different ways.

    Later, I was influenced by them, and I felt as if I was more outgoing than before, and I usually made a joke, but I also had no intention of being funny. We have a very good relationship, and there are some conflicts in other dormitories from time to time, but our dorm relationship is handled very well. Although they are all separated later, they have had a lot of influence on me.

    A single thought can sometimes change a person. There's nothing wrong with this girl being unsociable, and no one has the right to punish her.

    I hope you all get along well in the future. Also, look at the ...... of this questionIsn't it already crowding out ......

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Whether you fit in or not is actually relative. For example, if you are with a group of people who love to learn, and your three views are basically the same, and you all know to work hard, then you are more gregarious with these people. But if you put you in a group of people who only know how to dress up every day, focus all their attention on chasing stars and dramas, etc., and don't want to make progress, do you want to fit in?

    Will you fall with them? Obviously impossible. Our homeroom teacher once euphemistically expressed that I was a little unsociable, but I felt that I didn't have much in common with most of my classmates, and I wasn't very interested in what they liked, so I basically couldn't talk together.

    My classmates are basically not bad, some are very enthusiastic, some are very funny, they just don't pay much attention to studying, but in general they are a group of cute children.

    In school, if a person has an upright outlook, does not harm his classmates, and has a clear conscience, even if he is not social, if anyone dares to exclude such a person, I can only say that I really look down on such a person.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You can ignore it, but there is no need to exclude it, roommates are not necessarily friends, but it's not interesting to be enemies, so it's better to be a stranger.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I'm what you call a college student in a dorm room misfit. I don't fit in and don't go to every dormitory, but in the first year of the dormitory, the first period of time was good. But after getting along, I found out that I and the other roommates really weren't all the way, and I couldn't get along.

    From speaking and talking to the three views of personality, they are all different, and I slowly dislike them. Gradually, I stopped talking in the dormitory, and later, as the relationship became more and more stiff, I comforted myself and said that the dormitory was a place to sleep. However, in a few days, I will have to change dorms and leave, so happy!

    It is precisely because of this situation that I rarely stay in the dormitory, and naturally I like the library and self-study, which is still a good reward. Friends can get along, and if they can't get along, they would rather be lacking than excessive! Things gather like people in groups It really makes sense!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    That person just loves to show and warm-hearted, and the person who says she is jealous of her!

    You don't have to care about other people's eyes, just live your own wonderful life!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Don't care too much about what others say, live as you want to be, don't live as others want to see.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    When a person's[World view].After it is established, it will make a judgment on the people and things around it, and this judgment can only be made[Worldview].The change of change[World view].If it doesn't change, the judgment is fixed. Everyone and everything in the world has a different conclusion. It is not surprising that there are different views, nor can they be completely consistent.

    This is a philosophical question, and if you look at the surrounding examples, you will understand. So, there's no need to worry.

    After adoption, you can continue**!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You must know that the vast majority of people look at people based on their first impressions, even if they will gradually change with the deepening of their understanding in the relationship, it is undeniable that the first impression still occupies a lot.

    There is an old saying: If the wood is beautiful in the forest, the wind will destroy it. As an excellent person, it is normal to be more or less jealous and ostracized by those around you. Children who don't hide it are more direct.

    I think you probably have better conditions in your own life, and you do show a kind of childlike arrogance in words and deeds. Hehe, don't worry about this every day, the more you feel that they reject you, the more you will show some resistance. Both parties go out, and there will never be a fit.

    Girls will be very sensitive in the growth period of youth, and your thoughts can be understood. Moreover, male and female students in middle and high school have formed two different groups, and it is normal for a boy to have a good time with a group of girls, or a girl who likes boys very much, which will cause collective rejection by other people of the same sex.

    It's okay, play with them generously, don't care about it everywhere, you are secretly sad, and you will also show resistance to them, which is not good. Down-and-out and generous girls are very cute! Whoever it is.

    There will be no contradictions in the time of youth, and a few words are good friends. Jealousy is like she can't eat the candy in your hand, it's just the joy of later memories.

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