Men, if you love a woman, and that woman is a virgin, will you bear to hurt her?

Hello, please give a small pen ten minutes questions, during which don't worry about others, thank you.

Xiaobi doesn't know if what you said about forbearance hurt is only possessing you, if so, then Xiaobi will talk to you about men's opinions.

There are so few boys who can really love you and not possess you, and I think it must be your boyfriend who makes this request and you're not married, so you're asking questions in pain.

In fact, it is precisely because there are very few men with a sense of responsibility that there are fewer and fewer innocent girls now. Maybe it's a sign of unlove, as you said, but I think it's more of a sign of a man's pursuit of pleasure that hurts a girl.

So Xiaobi thinks that if it were me, I would naturally not bear to possess her and hurt him, but Xiaobi still regrets to tell you that most boys still don't care, he thinks it is unlikely that he will get married with you, and he will not occupy the psychology of not occupying nothing, and the psychology of not occupying who is not occupying it, plus what he said is very good, it is very good, and many girls have been hurt ...... like this

This is a common problem, and there is no way to do it with a small pen. But if you're a girl, you can choose whether or not to associate with this kind of irresponsible boy, because you can't control others, but you can control yourself, don't you say?

This is Xiaobi's view on this matter, Xiaobi finally hopes that you can meet someone who really values you, rather than a boy who must possess you before marriage, Xiaobi wishes you happiness.

Thank you for waiting.

The pen is affectionate to answer.

It's a real headache.

It depends on what kind of eyes you use to look at this matter, if you bear to hurt her, who can know your future. That's how cynicism is. Unless you guard her for the rest of your life. But you can't do it.

If you can't bear it. How can I say it, you can't bear it, there will always be someone. At that point, you'll regret why you didn't get rid of her in the first place. If you are kinder in your heart, you will say, I finally killed one less flower of the motherland.

Isn't it just how it is to go back and forth, and what is not what is it to be now? It's not all the same. Life is like this, constantly trying to figure out so many whys?

We can put aside that membrane, if there is no place to say wrong, can you be bold in your relationship, do you feel that you can deceive yourself and the person who really loves you, I think this statement is a manifestation of self-deception. However, I also want to remind you that you can't walk through the past, you can't see through the future, and some things need to be experienced and felt by yourself, otherwise, you will live in a society of one or two sentences for the rest of your life, and sometimes being hurt is not necessarily a bad thing, but the heart must be strong. I believe you will judge whether the other party is sincere, and under the sweet words, you also need a concentration!!

Harm? Is it mental or physical? If it's physiological, of course I don't want to, at least until after marriage....

The question is whether you can be sure that you can drink it and go on all the time, and if not, please don't hurt her.

Does the times care about this?

This shows that the boy loves this girl very much, and although he is deeply hurt by this girl, he is not willing to give up on this girl. Use your love to tolerate this girl, such a boy. A very kind boy for sure.

As a girl, don't let down such a good boy and measure that relationship.

Because his heart has been completely occupied by you, he doesn't care how you hurt him, because if he loves you, he can tolerate everything, he is a good man, don't let him down.

It shows that the boy loves girls very much, he knows how to tolerate the people he loves, he is a good boy, he should cherish and cherish the people who love you and tolerate you.

No, the premise of loving others is to love yourself well, and self-love can better love others.

He doesn't really love you, he wants to show you, make you soft-hearted, and what you see is what he wants to show you.

No. Because it was not his intention for a man to hurt a woman, he must have never been able to let go, and he always wanted to find an opportunity to apologize.

The deeper the love between men and women, the greater the hurt is often the more, if a man hurts the woman he loves the most, then his heart will definitely not let go of her, people's feelings are like this, noisy together, but the heart is concerned about each other.

Since I love it the most, I can't let it go in the short term, and I am forced to hurt people, and I feel guilty in my heart, and I can't let it go. It's just that after a long time, it will be put down, and time can dilute everything.

This boy is very handsome, with a good figure, **, and the ability to love others, it is very troublesome, and then use the school uniform of his friends and so on, the cost rate is like this, you say.

May or may not, depending on whether the woman loves the man.

It depends on how badly you're hurt.

Some women will hate, but some will not, and I won't.

1.There is filial piety.

As the saying goes, "filial piety comes first", a man who knows how to put himself in the shoes of his parents and can honor the elderly is worthy of your liking. Even if her parents are filial, how can she love her wife well?

2.Be responsible.

The sense of responsibility here refers to what a man who enters the siege of marriage must do. Single-minded love, create happiness for the beloved woman, take on the responsibility of life and work, and give the beloved a warm home.

3.Know how to love yourself.

Knowing how to love oneself means being able to protect oneself well, not to smoke excessively, not to drink too much, not to do illegal fights, as small as paying attention to traffic vehicles on the road, and as big as knowing what is important when in trouble. A man who knows how to love himself can know how to love his sweetheart.

4.Self-motivated.

Mr. Lu Xun said that dissatisfaction is an upward wheel. A man who is not satisfied with the status quo, always maintains enthusiasm and drive, and works hard for a happy life in the future, so that he is worthy of a woman's love. Of course, men who are too ambitious should also be wary!

A good man should be considerate of his own woman in life, and he should always create romance and make his woman happy. We must shoulder the burden of family and society, dare to face the attacks of rumors and vulgarity, honor the elderly, have foresight, be cheerful and open-minded, and have leadership skills. As the saying goes, no one is perfect.

Good men are hard to find. But the above four criteria should be the key to judging whether a man is worthy of your love!

I hope the people you love understand you, and the people who love you love you! May you always be in love and join hands in this life.

Sometimes, because of the heavy responsibility of a man, the pressure is also great, and he is angry or something outside, he will choose to vent here, at this time the woman should understand them, and will also feel happy, if he does not love you, he will not vent to you.

I can completely understand your feelings, I also love someone so deeply, but he was also injured by other girls.

If you are in love, you can choose what you love, but if you are rushing to get married, I suggest you think carefully, because it will be very hard for you to choose the one you love, of course, if you choose to love you, you can't give love to the person who loves you, it will be cruel to him.

Don't be too good to him, a man doesn't need to be taken care of by multiple mothers, if he leaves him, let him find your advantages and be attracted to you, which is much wiser than you take the initiative to cater to.

It's okay, no one is fighting with you, you have to comfort her, reflect your gentleness, as a boy, understand that you need the comfort of others at this time, and when he is free, the love must be you, do you think a person will be sad for a lifetime? No, but do you have the heart to wait for him?

Give him more time and let him accept it slowly, believing that time will change everything.