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The self is not a character, but an individual's cognition of his or her state of being, including his own physical state and psychological stateRelationshipsand cognition of social roles.
Self-awareness. It is the individual's awareness of himself and the relationship between the world around him, and the awareness of his own existence. Knowing everything about oneself roughly includes the following three aspects: First, the individual's understanding and evaluation of his own physiological state.
It mainly includes the awareness of one's body image and gender such as weight, height, figure, appearance, etc., as well as the feeling of physical pain, hunger, tiredness, etc. The second is the understanding and evaluation of one's own psychological state. It mainly includes the understanding and evaluation of one's own ability, knowledge, emotion, temperament, personality, ideals, beliefs, interests, hobbies, etc.
The third is to recognize and evaluate the relationship between oneself and one's surroundings. It mainly includes a certain social relationship with oneself.
and the perception and evaluation of one's own relationship with others.
Functions of Self-Awareness:
1. Guiding and excitation function.
Objectives are a navigation mechanism for talent development. If a person wants to achieve a career, he must start from his own reality and set clear goals, only in this way will he mobilize his potential and stimulate strong motivation.
2. Self-control function.
If a person has development goals and does not act on them, the result is still nothing. If an individual wants to make achievements in the future, he must first have a scientific goal, and at the same time, he must have a sense of self-reliance, autonomy, self-confidence, and self-control, and regulate and control his emotions and actions that deviate from the goal.
3. Introspective adjustment function.
Individuals with sound self-consciousness are not only able to establish an "ideal self" that conforms to the individual, but also can achieve the desired goals through self-control. Due to the constraints of subjective and objective conditions, the realization of the "ideal self" often encounters various obstacles, resulting in varying degrees of frustration among individuals.
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The character ego is the "egotist", representing radical selfish thinking, self-centered, unable to listen to the opinions of others, advocating complete freedom, doing whatever he wants, and doing things according to his own will.
This type of person is more concerned about his own feelings, often exaggerates his emotional reactions, adheres to his own behavioral standards and beliefs, is not easily influenced by the external environment, and often adopts an indifferent attitude towards the persuasion and advice of others.
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Answering the character of the egoistic personality, his emotional curve point is to himself, often a sad emotion, sometimes seeing a meaningless emoji or ** can spontaneously pull to himself. Emotionally sensitive, wanting to be different and different from others. The egoistic personality likes to close himself in his own emotional world and focuses only on his own emotional world, which he considers unique in the world.
In interpersonal interactions, egoistic personalities tend to meet people who are better than themselves, and they will only focus on what they have compared to what others do not have, and what they have always ignores.
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1.The requirements for others are high, and the requirements for oneself are low.
The lazy, incompetent and selfish person will put his hope in others, because then he will be happy and lazy.
2.Turning a blind eye to one's own problems, holding on to the problems of others.
The more you lack something, the more you like to show off, and the more you will be jealous of what others have. Once they catch other people's problems, they will make a big fuss to satisfy their own vanity.
3.He thinks very highly of himself, and always feels that others owe him.
Selfish people are always self-centered, they dare to brag about everything, and they look down on those who listen to him.
4.Others turn a blind eye to his goodness, and he talks about his kindness to others every day.
Selfish people don't know how to be grateful to others, but they remember their kindness to others very clearly, for fear that others will forget, so they will often find someone to talk to you, in order to make you return the favor faster. At the same time, I also want to show my "benevolence" side in front of outsiders.
5.Speaking harshly, doing things mercilessly, turning faces ruthlessly.
Selfish people don't take into account the feelings of others, and when faced with a conflict of interests, the previous friendship can be "written off" in their eyes.
In fact, everyone is selfish, but everything has a degree, and it is hateful when you cross the line. If you meet people with these kinds of behaviors in your life, please stay away from them, because you can't get along with them, and you will get a lot of unnecessary trouble.
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One: The main manifestation of self-centeredness:
1. Less concern for others and estrangement from others;
2. Stubbornness and self-respect;
3. Excessive self-esteem, excessive defense, and obvious jealousy.
Two: Self-centered psychoanalysis:
Self-centered people are always unable to empathize, always very indifferent to other people's pain, and I always pretend not to hear when others tell him about their pain and troubles. Or also start talking about his pain, as if he is living in his own world, desperately trying to break through his own bondage, but he just can't get out.
I can't communicate with others, I can't understand the state of mind of others when they speak, I just blindly emphasize my own feelings, and I want others to know my feelings, but I can't understand other people's feelings at all. This is called self-centeredness.
There are some reasons for this. Self-centered people are not unable to feel the inner world of others, but sometimes they do not believe that the state of mind of others they perceive is real, and always look at these inner manifestations of others with a skeptical attitude, because they feel that the true thoughts of a person's heart will not be easily expressed, and what is shown to others is the inner world that has been processed, and it is a disguise of the real and ulterior inner world, and these disguised things can be completely ignored and ignored. Because the purpose of showing these inner things is to take advantage of the weakness of human kindness to win the sympathy of others, so as to obtain the forgiveness of others for their actions, which is a bit like a "bitter meat trick".
So how do you overcome self-centeredness?
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In everything, think only of oneself and not of others; As long as you are doing well and happy in your heart, nothing else matters; Expect others to respect you, but don't know how to respect others.
People who are very self-conscious, they are only willing to touch the things they like, and are unwilling to try and learn, which leads to a decline in their ability to work and live. Because they only stay in the areas they are familiar with and are happy with, and are unwilling to come into contact with people and environments that make them uncomfortable but conducive to development and progress, over time, they form a "strawberry personality" - they seem glamorous on the outside, but they are actually pale and fragile on the inside, and they lack self-regulation when they encounter setbacks and difficulties, and they will only avoid and be anxious.
Also, always putting oneself first, so that people who are too selfish cannot have real friends, and when they are in trouble, they lack people to come to help, which makes them more and more isolated. "Self-centeredness" is a kind of character defect, if you don't change it, you will run into walls everywhere, fall into pain, and even induce depression, anxiety and other mental illnesses.
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Test 1: A person who is extremely self-centered, whose mind is completely possessed by self-consciousness and is so accustomed to taking himself as the center of attention that it is difficult for other people, things, and objects to arouse his interest or divert his attention.
Test 2: You are a person who is prone to jealousy. You are extremely reluctant to see someone close to you, or even inferior to you, doing better than you.
A considerable part of jealousy comes from a lack of self-confidence, which can also lead to a sensitive and depressed state of being always in a state of sensitivity.
Test 3: You have a desire to protect yourself adequately, but you are unwilling to hurt your friends, and you are torn between your own interests and those of your friends.
Test 4: You tend to put the common needs ahead of the individual and be disciplined. Duduplicity, you just reluctantly went with the flow, do you promise you won't regret your missed date in the future?
Comprehensive test: Your self is more mature, your sense of self-identity is deeper, and in real life, it is manifested as a desire to be recognized by others.
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I am very confident, I am self-centered every day, I feel that the whole world should revolve around me, and I feel that the world collapses when something goes wrong.
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Self-centered, what others say or do is different from their own opinions or ideas.
Those who do not humbly seek advice think that they are right. You want others to think the way they think.
Always ignore the problems of others and ask him to listen to his own practices.
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If you want to do something, you have to do it, and this kind of reason should be very selfish.
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