5 years of love, will you really give up because of the third person? Why? What is the reason?

I think so! After all, there are some things that cannot be forced.

My friend's seven-year relationship has been separated, he said that he has gone through three years of pain, not seven years of itching... But I don't think my relationship will go away for a year...

The age at which we fall in love is the age at which we are most vulnerable.

Five years is enough for a 360-degree conversion. If love is still five years ago, it can't keep up with the development of the times. The boy gets drunk and lives again tomorrow. Schoolgirl? There are only tears to say goodbye.

The appearance of a third party is inevitable, but the fact that a third party can break in means that there is something wrong with your relationship. No matter how many years it takes, it can only mean that something is wrong between you or your lover. Find out why.

It could be that you have changed, or that he (she has changed).

Maybe your dependence on him has made him feel pressured, so he will avoid you consciously or unconsciously. Maybe what you should do now is to live an independent personality, don't rely on anyone, and live bravely to be yourself, so that you will become more attractive, and if you have fate, he will come back to you.

Give up, you will live better without him, with him, you may not be able to live, maybe one day you will ......

You've wasted five years on him, and since he's not the same person you used to be, is it necessary to waste it on him again?

There are a lot of people who cherish you, but you don't find it.

Mind going to a pig farm to raise pigs.

Women must be kind to themselves, and the length of time they have been in love does not mean anything. There is still a long way to go, so you must make yourself happy.

Feelings without a material foundation are really too fragile, but there are exceptions, the focus is on him, maybe he is under a lot of pressure to support his parents or what, you can talk to him about why he abandoned you, men will be under pressure, especially men with poor family backgrounds, they are not easy, and it is even difficult for some women to understand. My girlfriend often doesn't understand why I care so much about the future, and she just wants to live happily and comfortably, and I'm really lonely. But finding a woman with good conditions to marry does not mean happiness for a man, what is happiness in the end?

Then you can find out what his mind is thinking about;

I don't understand what he thinks;

Thinking about yourself will only make you more annoyed;

Put this love in the bottom of your heart, there is too much helplessness in reality.

Why bother to think about what he thinks, why do you have to figure out if he still loves you or not?

Since you are not destined to be together, the more you know, the more troubles you have.

Men are like this, more ruthless than women, and more willing than women. In the face of love, men are more rational than women.

You better find someone else, it must be better than him, now you may not be able to let go of this relationship, the psychology is very painful, but after a long time, it will fade. Look ahead, you are happier than him. Cheer up, friend.

Sometimes, people always have to bow their heads in front of reality. Maybe he chooses a woman with better conditions to marry, and you choose a man with better conditions to marry, which is the wisest choice for you.

Poor couples mourn everything.

Friend, maybe you don't understand the meaning of family for a woman, maybe when she is with you, she really makes up her mind to divorce, but when she returns home, she will find that she has too many memories to put at home, after all, home is a warm place. So I feel that there is not much hope for you to be together, and even if you are together, you still need to carry the shadow of breaking up a family.

As for your girlfriend, I just want to tell you one thing: sometimes in love, you may be the last person to realize it. Do you know?

Many people we thought we would never forget in our lives, but in fact, in this process of remembering, you have forgotten her. There are even times when you actually get something you've been dreaming of, and you may find that it doesn't appeal to you for a long time.

In my opinion, it was a big mistake for you to break up with your current girlfriend, but the result is still that you decide your own feelings, and only you know your feelings.

5 years, what are you doing, you haven't given promises, a woman's youth can't afford to waste, you are a thoughtless man, you won't have any of those two women.

For the sake of love, you have also suffered what you have suffered; For the sake of love, you have suffered anything; For the sake of love, I endured any grievances

Can't you really live well for yourself?!

It is advisable for the landlord to continue to wait, not to be afraid of a long time, rest assured - what should come will always come!

It must be waiting for the girl you really like to return.

Marriage is a lifelong thing, but don't ignore it.

Don't give your youth too many regrets.

It's not 5 years of love, you choose to give up, but after 5 years, you finally wake up, liberate, and see away, isn't it a good thing? Do you want to wait until 10 years later, 15 years later, and you should be glad that you chose to give up at this time, hehe, have you heard Adu's "let go"? Give it a try

Emotional matters cannot be avoided. I want to ask you, do you still love your current girlfriend? If you love her, why hurt her so deeply?

No matter how much you loved your ex-girlfriend before, you have been separated for 5 years, and 5 years is enough to change your feelings for her. (If that's not the case, why did you get your current girlfriend back?) Do you believe that five years later, can you be sure that you will be happy if you are reconciled with her?

In the past 5 years, it is your current girlfriend who has been with you, and you hold your chest and think about it, don't you know a little about her, or are you dependent. The same goes for your ex-girlfriend, she wants to be nice to you now, and she can be sure that you are better than her husband? Can you be in the position she had in mind?

At the end of the day, I think it's better to find someone who loves me than someone I love, just like your ex-girlfriend maybe he sees through this and asks you, do you want to go back to the path she has walked? Maybe mine is just prejudice!!

You have to have a clear choice for yourself.

You and the girl for 9 years are just your feelings for a while, perhaps, you and your girlfriend of 5 years spend a lot of time together, it is inevitable that you are a little tired, but you have to know, who is the best for you, if you regret it, you are in a hurry to find her now, if she gets married, you will regret it for the rest of your life.

It can be done in five years!

You still need to be merciful!

Wake up! Women need men to love!

But there must be men who are worthy of love.

See you're doing well and you're back, what do you mean?

What did you do before?

Forget it, it's been 5 years. Since he's determined to let go, I don't think it's much use for you to keep it.

Feelings are a matter of two people, and it is useless to be consensual.

Only time can dilute everything.

He has decided, you should wake up, all is in the past, but you still need to move forward.

Hehe, the current farmers are really dragging, I don't think your man will be for such a simple reason, a discerning person will know at a glance, what is 5 years? If he can give it up, why should you be wishful thinking? Don't you think it's in vain to waste the rest of your time on him?

You may be worried about your age, after all, it took five years, for a woman this is the most precious five years of youth in her life, you are reluctant to give up, you are afraid of the future, so you are miserable, you hesitate. You don't dare to face the facts. Even if you can marry him, what does that mean?

Only you know whether you are happy or not. Why deceive yourself. Look at the point, leaving this kind of man is to get rid of disasters, and being emotional will only kill yourself.

Don't trap yourself in the trap of love.

I was wondering why he was suddenly so decisive..Is it the result of the accumulation of small conflicts between the two of them, or is there a lot of gossip? Xiaoxiao is not in good health, and he wants to break up his 5-year relationship? Give up if there is nothing to be proud of? Wait, wait.

For 5 years, I felt that love definitely existed.

It may seem like an overnight thing, but everything has a process. Whether the reason he said for breaking up is true or not, wait until you guys have a good talk.

Maybe you're emotionally excited right now, or maybe he's very determined right now. I think the best time is to talk after a few days when everyone is calm, and you don't rush to find him, don't text or call.

In a few days, you can think about it, should you love? Can you love it? Is it worth love? Let him think about it too.

In the end, it's fate.

It is said that it is better to destroy a thousand temples.

Don't break down a relationship.

But I thought you should have forgotten.

Because you can redeem it now.

It will be difficult to be happy in the future.

He's going to ask questions like that.

I'm going to embarrass you. Besides, your conditions are not bad.

Why do you have to be him?

I know you have feelings.

But you can also cultivate another relationship.

For someone who can casually say break up.

I really don't think it's worth it.

I hope you think it through.

Just be serious. I can definitely find a better one.

Bless you ! ~

I think he must have been suffering beyond words!

Do you know what love is when you love someone else and have you ever thought about what love is? Who can tell.

It's been 5 years, after all, it's not easy, so why not try to keep going? Are you not doing well? Find out why. I don't think the 5-year relationship will break up easily, what do you say?

If you still have love, don't let go, and if not, don't hold on.

It depends on whether you are suitable or not, if the two of them can't get together together, let alone 5 years, even 10 years, I will advise you to divide it, otherwise it will be torture for everyone. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and we broke up eventually, but now I realize that I made a wise choice.

Gan is really going to ask you a heart.

My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years, but because I have been engaging in unilateral actions, we broke up very happily yesterday. Decide for yourself your own situation.

After talking for 5 years and breaking up, then there must be a big problem between you, try to solve it, and if it is really irreparable, then accept it bravely!

Stay the course ... I'm sticking with you.

If she doesn't love you anymore, let it go, otherwise there will be a gap between you and you.

What if you don't give up, so give up.

If you can't be together for 5 years, it means that the two of you are not suitable together.

I have lived with her for five years, I love her very much, I broke up with me a month ago because I couldn't buy a house, she took the initiative to be together, I am much older than her, and I promised her the original intention of taking care of her and loving her. I gave up everything to be with her. I texted and begged so far, and she was still very determined.

What can be done?

In love between the two places, one party can only compromise with the other party to develop in his city Can you give up everything now Just to be with him Change your bad temper for him For him to "endure humiliation and burden" in front of his family Although he has nothing now, but if you love you as much as you say He will do everything for you Just to make you happier He is a good man worthy of TOEFL There are many people around me who got married and even had children without buying a house They are also living very well Because they are very happy The house is still discussed with him and decided whether to buy it or not Because a man has a strong sense of self-esteem, if he wants the woman to buy a house when he gets married, he will feel that he is useless and can't hold his head up, discuss everything with him, if it doesn't work, rent a house to live and work hard for a few more years, let him feel how much you are calling him If you want to redeem it now, you must make your decision as soon as possible Don't always be very passive You have to wait for him to decide Everything will be too late for him to decide After all, the situation like today is accumulated bit by bit Don't think that you can reconcile in three or two days Be mentally prepared for success or failure The attitude towards him and his family must be pious No matter what kind of excessive behavior his family makes to you, let him feel your sincerity, your love, you can fly over when you decide, don't listen to him, he doesn't know how to face you, you give up everything just for him, and rush to him all the way to him, and you are in a strange city, can he look at you and ignore you, don't cry, don't make a fool, leave tears to the critical moment, and try to change the attitude of his family, be good to you and him, may a lover eventually become a family, I wish you success.

You'd be stupid to marry. If you don't have a house, do you have to rent a house for the rest of your life? If you live with his family, there will be a lot of contradictions, and you won't be able to live this life.

Of course, men want to get married without a house; To put it simply. And.

It's impossible for the family to listen to whatever they say. A man really loves you. I can't hear anything my family says.

Won't leave you alone. When you encounter a problem, you run away like this. Can it work?

Every time you encounter a problem like this, do you endure it? Be realistic.

Human nature is manifested in the ubiquitous details. Whether you care about the house or not about the money is not something you can get from a conversation or two. Do you want to think about what you're a good fit for?

Personally, I think you rarely observe each other's feelings and rarely care, if you really want to redeem yourself, you can express yourself from every detail of life, just talking is not enough to make people believe, do you understand? Your real problem is that you don't value communication. I advise you to care and give more, because he is worth it.

Good luck.