Debate, the positive side People must be honest and cannot lie The opposite side Life sometimes need

When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by doctors, his parents, lovers, children, and all his relatives will not directly tell him: "Life cannot be saved", "At most, how long can I live in this world?" and so on. Although these are all truths, who would be so cruel as a judge to sentence a prisoner to death, and tell the truth to his relatives who are already sick.

At this time, everyone will form a united front, keep silent about the truth, and use white lies to make the patient full of hope for **, so that the patient can spend the rest of the years in a peaceful state. Is this an undermine to integrity?

When a child who does not rhyme with the world suddenly encounters misfortune and loses his relatives, how to explain to him that his relatives have gone. We think the best thing to do is not to tell him the real situation for the time being, just to say that he is far away for business, or studying and working abroad.

When the child is sensible and has a certain ability to bear, and then tell the truth, the child will also understand the behavior of his relatives and will not be angry because he did not know the truth earlier. Is it also an obstacle to integrity?

When the mother of a soldier who is on a mission in the field is terminally ill and breathes from the heat, how much he hopes to see his son for the last time, but the son can't come back, can't do a little filial piety for the old mother, take care of the mother who once broke her heart for her son, he is very sorry, and he is also very worried. And the old mother understood her son very well, and told her relatives around her that she should not tell her distant son after she left, and she could not distract him, but to say that his condition was stable, so that he could be loyal to the country with peace of mind. Is such a white lie an obstacle to integrity?

Debate: Lies of Honesty and White Intentions [Positive]: It is certainly a lie that we want to deceive, and a lie is not necessarily a deception.

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A white lie is always a lie, if everything is told the truth. It will harm yourself and others.

We must reject lies and insist on integrity. We thought that telling white lies would get you in trouble. Therefore, it is necessary to learn when to tell the truth and when to tell white lies, or it will lead to the inability to distinguish between truth and falsehood.

As an example, let's say you receive a birthday invitation from a friend who is not very close on the weekend, and you don't want to go, but you refuse and are afraid that the other person will be angry, so you agree ambiguously. Time flies quickly, and seeing that it's almost your friend's birthday, you still don't want to go, and now you find a reason to tell the other party that you can't go. Think about it, what will the other person think of you at this time?

The other party must be able to see that you are reluctant to go, and they will definitely be very angry.

What if you were invited to show your attitude? "I was very happy to be invited, but I couldn't go because I had something to do that day. "If you refuse at the beginning, you won't be embarrassed later.

Opposite]: Deception is certainly a lie, and a lie is not necessarily a deception.

There are two kinds of lies: malicious and benign. As for whether it is honest or not, the key lies in what kind of lie it is with. Then a malicious lie can of course be said to be deception, and a malicious lie is a manifestation of behavior that harms others and their own interests.

The lies that a person who is good in itself is "forced" to tell in a certain state are benevolent, and this lie is a kind of kindness, a kind of concern for the subject. This kind of lie is also a way of dealing with the world, a manifestation of the quality of thinking for others, and it is obvious that a white lie does not hinder integrity. A world without lies, like an earth without dust, does not exist, and white lies do not hinder integrity.

It is my great pleasure to present here today my opinion on the argument of whether a well-intentioned lie is an obstacle to good faith. Here's what our DAO thinks: There is no doubt that a white lie is a lie in itself.

Lies, lies are deception, deception is immoral, immoral things are unpopular, these are all taught by the junior teachers. But we ask ourselves, who hasn't told a lie? Whether it is to one's relatives, friends, or people we don't know, there are many kinds of purposes, but when we add a "good intention" to a lie, it seems that everyone may accept it, which is the concentrated expression of human weakness.

Even if it is a white lie, it is an act contrary to integrity as a lie in itself, so whether the lie is of a good purpose or not, it is bound to be an obstacle to integrity. Starting from the analysis of the word structure of a white lie, it is a partial phrase, and the central word is a lie, so a white lie is essentially a lie. Although the motive of a white lie is good faith, because there is a certain uncertainty in the good faith itself, it is often used by some "professional **" This is an indisputable fact.

The "lie" itself is dark, the likes and dislikes of things are not measured by the purpose of things, and the white lie itself is a lie. Although he has shed his beggar clothes and put on a cheongsam, he still cannot get rid of the essence of his lie, and a lie means deception, and thus hinders integrity. The starting point of a white lie is good, but often once this lie is exposed, the harm to the other party will be deeper, and as a lie itself, it is already an act contrary to integrity.

Where's the kindness?! That is, goodwill! Why lie?!

If a person loses his integrity, what he leaves behind is hypocrisy: if a company loses its integrity, it will face bankruptcy; And if a nation loses its integrity, it will be depraved and die!

If you are trustworthy, you will be trustworthy, you will be trustworthy, you will be trustworthy, you will be successful, and if you are trustworthy, the Chinese nation will be eternal.

Anyone who uses an excuse wants to use it to protect themselves or others. Help us save face so that we can endure setbacks.

Gesmail said, "It's fairly common to think you're better than you really are." "The excuses that people come up with are sometimes unexpected.

Why should people deceive themselves? The American humorist Ridler pointed out: "Most people do not live in reality, but in fantasy, especially about themselves."

Then again, knowing the truth about yourself and your friends can be cruel at times, and it's better not to know it.

However, most excuses are destructive. Unconsciously use excuses, even if you don't fool others, you fool yourself. So I ask the other party to recognize, more integrity, less excuses!

At the same time, I would like to ask the other side, if everyone has this viewpoint, how to build a trustworthy society, and how to make our country more prosperous in integrity?

The reason why it is said that you must be honest and not lying. It is because deceiving a person will bring harm;

The reason why he needs a white lie is because the reality that is too cruel is unacceptable at once, and it will also bring him harm;

No matter how the words are expressed, the ultimate goal of a person's words is to avoid harm to themselves.

Opposite: There are times in life when "white lies" are needed

"White lies" are acceptable, but if the so-called white lies are inseparable from malicious lies, then it is better not to lie, and sometimes it is necessary to make a little joke in life to increase the little fun of life. Sometimes in the face of a particularly hard-necked person, if you want to move him, you have to tell a little lie.

Be honest in life, our class had a debate, and I won.

In life, white lies can add color to life——— Shakespeare Sometimes, lies are a beautiful version, her name is "the right white lie". Mi Lucy Sanna.

The pure innocence of wordslessness is often more touching than speaking. — Shakespeare would rather be spoken ill of by one before everyone than by all before one. - Howell.

It's also better to say 'I don't know' than to lie. - Magen.

Lying for the sake of the better survival of others.

White lies are beautiful.

Being open and straightforward is a mistake, and I choose to lie.

Confession of truth is a disservice, and I choose to lie.

Flattery never comes from a great heart. - Balzac's true confession of frankness is a kind of harm, I choose to lie to the ruler of the world in talent, and the talent in the world is to educate. - Hu Ying classics.

White lies are motivated by kindness, telling the truth everywhere will inevitably hurt the self-esteem of others, and proper lies will protect others and others will be grateful to you. If this white lie is deception, then who hasn't lied since childhood?

Shakespeare once said that in life, lies can add color to life! White lies are beautiful. When we tell a small lie in moderation for the sake of the happiness and hope of others, the lie becomes understanding, respect, and tolerance, and has magical power.

This lie is not ill-intentioned, it is understanding, respect and tolerance, with miraculous powers, and there is no impurity.

Case 1: Hugo and Balzac are two giants of the world literary world, and at the same time, they are also a pair of very good friends.

On one occasion, Balzac made a special trip to visit Hugo's house. Balzac visited Hugo's apartment with great interest. While visiting Hugo's study, Balzac accidentally knocked a pen holder on the table to the ground.

Just listening to the sound of "pop", the pen holder immediately fell apart. Seeing this scene, Balzac couldn't help but get nervous, and his heart was full of guilt: you know, this is Hugo's favorite pen holder, and he has always used it to insert pens.

Subsequently, Balzac apologized to Hugo for his mistakes and asked for Hugo's forgiveness. Hugo was not angry at all, he smiled and said, "You don't have to feel guilty.

I also recently learned that it was just a very ordinary fake made of pear wood. It has deceived me for so long, and I want to throw it away. After listening to Hugo's explanation, Balzac was relieved.

In fact, that pen holder is a well-made, old-fashioned genuine product, and it is worth a lot of money. Even if the pen holder was broken, Hugo was reluctant to throw it away. When Balzac was gone, Hugo picked up all the fragments of the missing pen holder and carefully treasured them.

It turned out that Hugo didn't want Balzac to have scruples and pressure, so he made up such a beautiful "lie". Because, Hugo knows: although the pen holder is valuable, but in comparison, the friendship between the two is more precious, after all, friendship is priceless.

Case 2: When a poor mother lies to her child that she is full because she is reluctant to eat, is it immoral and dishonest to have pure and noble maternal love?

In the face of strong friendship and noble maternal love, can you still tell a white lie a deception? If you can't answer it, then prove that a white lie is no obstacle to integrity! White lies are needed in life!

You can't lie. Instead of letting people live in fantasy, it is better to tell him the truth so that he can do things for this matter, but if you deceive the other person with the panic that you feel is good, you will let the other person be at the mercy of your so-called good intentions, and thus lose the ability to distinguish between right and wrong. So you think that well-intentioned panic does not make the person you are cheating on sincerely feel comfortable.

Although the well-intentioned panic is a panic that you weave for the sake of others, it must ultimately be built on the basis of deception, so the virtues of the Chinese nation for more than 5,000 years will not be unable to withstand scrutiny.

It can be said that because white lies are words that can be heartwarming.

White lies are needed in life, it can help others, warm others!

Opposite: We also need to tell some white lies in life. These white lies can sometimes help others as well.

For example, a soldier died. His comrades-in-arms, in order not to make his family sad, deliberately concealed the facts.

Together, they sent money and letters to his comrades-in-arms every month. Some white lies are also needed in our daily lives.