How can children be trained to be better? How to raise excellent children?

Based on personal experience, I think we should cultivate excellent children in three aspects.

First, children should first cultivate good living habits. Many children are spoiled by their parents and the elderly from birth, some children don't know how to do housework at all, some children don't know how to wash clothes at all, it's really food to open their mouths, clothes to stretch their hands, such children will not have self-reliance when they are cultivated, and they will not be able to integrate into society when they grow up, and they will not have a sense of happiness, because children who do housework will be very happy. Good living habits mainly refer to paying attention to hygiene, doing what you can do to your best, and helping your parents to complete some household chores.

2. Parents should accompany their children. As the saying goes, companionship is the best education, no matter how busy you are at work, you should take time to play with your children, accompany your children to read, and play more when you are not around. The focus of cultivating excellent children is to cultivate children's love of reading, because reading can allow children to acquire a lot of knowledge, establish a correct outlook on life, and also help them learn well.

In addition, you can also let children play reading software tools, such as jint speed reading memory tools installed on the computer for children to play, there are many Schulte tables, memory ** training games are very fun and interesting, but also improve attention, children will like to learn to read and remember in the process of playing, unconsciously have a strong interest in reading.

3. Don't forget to take your child to exercise. Good health is a prerequisite for excellence, such as not eating junk food and allowing children to eat more healthy food. In their spare time, parents take their children on outings to the countryside to feel the breath of nature, participate in sports such as table tennis, badminton, football and basketball, and exercise their children's bodies to be very strong, so that the children will be physically excellent.

If you want to train your children to be better, you can start with the following aspects:

1. Don't limit your child by concepts.

Many parents believe that with their own experience and experience, they can let their children take less unnecessary detours, from clothing and dietary requirements, to interests and preferences, and school choices, and there is no room for more choices for their children.

To a certain extent, this can indeed make children's growth smoother, but it does not give children more room to play, which will limit their thinking and mind in the long run, making it difficult for them to grow better.

The best way is to provide advice from the side, to encourage children to choose, and to give them more choices. There may be some unsatisfactory results in the process, but it can also help them grow. Of course, some choices that are easy to go astray should still be strongly blocked and avoided.

2. Use the goal to tap the potential.

When many parents ask their children to complete a thing, they will give them a detailed operation method, let them complete each step in an orderly manner, and evaluate the child by completing the effect of each step. However, there are major drawbacks to this approach.

Let children accurately follow the method to achieve the goal, which is easy to erase their imagination and lack the ability to think critically over time; On the contrary, after explaining a thing, let them do it independently, based on some necessary reminders and guidance, so that they can tap their potential. When they step into society, the solution is obviously much more reliable than the "standard answer".

3. Guide your child out of the shadows.

When children fail to do something, and then hit a wall many times, they can easily form a fixed habit, do not want to try again, and often unconsciously avoid it.

At this time, as parents, what they should do is not to blindly appease, but to analyze the crux of the wall for them, which steps can be optimized, guide them to make up for it, to adjust themselves, and let them always pay attention to every detail, which is also of great benefit to their future life.

Fourth, the punishment of mistakes should be fair.

Some parents' love for their children has gradually evolved into doting, and they often disagree with their children's mistakes, and even some behaviors that infringe on others do not attract their attention.

In the long run, it is difficult for children to realize the seriousness of their mistakes and do not take responsibility for their own mistakes. When you enter the society in the future, this kind of behavior will become more and more intense, and once you touch the law, you will regret it.

Therefore, qualified parents should not make excuses for their children's mistakes, let alone deal with them in the form of stick education; Instead, they should have a correct attitude, be polite, punish and let the child bear the consequences.

1. Fundamentally cultivate. Cultivate good morals, good habits.

2. Exercise and have a strong physique.

3. Cultivate a dedicated character, study actively, have a good attitude, and learning will not be bad.

4. Cultivate good ability to deal with the world. Able to have a harmonious relationship.

Children raise three gases, and women raise three appearances.

Successful homeschooling produces children who are undoubtedly excellent. And successful homeschooling is nothing more than doing the following three things right:

1. Teach children to know how to love and be grateful. The family environment is the environment that children will be exposed to as soon as they are born into this world, so it is important to start from an early age if you want to raise children who are full of loving abilities. Love is a two-way emotional exchange.

That is, while receiving love, children also hope to love others, and in the process of loving others, they can develop the ability to love and get the experience of emotional satisfaction. A healthy personality means both receiving and giving love. Therefore, if we want our children to grow up and achieve something, we must forge a healthy personality and pay attention to the cultivation of children's ability to love.

2. Establish a positive attitude of optimism in children. Abraham Lincoln once said, "It's better to have a positive mindset than to own a gold mine."

Optimism is a beautiful character, and optimistic children are more likely to be accepted by society. An optimistic and confident attitude is also a powerful way for children to cope with adverse events such as sadness, misfortune, failure, and pain in life. If your child is pessimistic and lacks self-confidence all day long, he will become depressed and lose confidence in his future.

Parents should create a happy environment for their children to grow up, so as to cultivate their children's optimistic personality.

3. Cultivate children's skills. Many parents want their children to be well-rounded and as good as they can be. But in fact, no one is perfect, and every child's abilities are different.

Therefore, there is no need to rush to train them into all-round talents, but they should be trained according to their own interests and hobbies.

How to cultivate excellent children, parents need to observe and discover the development and changes of children in the process of accompanying children in preschool, and adopt an education method that teaches children according to their aptitude and adapts to local conditions, so as to promote the better growth of children. It is recommended that parents start from the following aspects to carry out all-round education and training for preschool children.

1. Grasp the education of children's sensitive periods. For example, the critical period of language sensitivity, the critical period of action sensitivity, and so on.

2. Cultivate children's good habits. For example, good living habits, good behavior habits, good study habits, and so on.

3. Help children build character, character, personality and physique.

4. Cultivate children's various interests and hobbies, especially reading hobbies. A child who truly loves to read will have an advantage in learning that most of his peers cannot match.

5. Create various opportunities for children to express themselves and build strong self-confidence.

6. Cultivate children's awareness of rules and avoid slipping into the ranks of "bear children" that everyone hates.

7. Cultivate children's awareness of self-protection. The reverence for life must be cultivated from an early age in order to protect children for a lifetime of happiness.

8. Cultivate children's hands-on ability. Children with strong hands-on skills are more likely to have a desire to explore new things.

9. Cultivate children's sense of independence. In order for preschool children to go far in their future learning careers, it is necessary to cultivate children's sense of independence and autonomy from an early age.