How do excellent children come into being?

What does a good kid look like?

Someone has concluded that excellent children have the following things in common:

Not long after the Kunlun Duel 81 Beijing Station competition, there was a group of young people in the event who attracted special attention. The two children are only 10 and 11 years old respectively, their confident stride on the red carpet, brave fighting in the ring, and not arrogant and not discouraged after the game, such a performance can't help but make the parents in the audience think: How do excellent children be made?

In addition to their own talents and efforts, the answer also includes family education, and a good family education environment can benefit children immensely.

Just like the concept of responsible family education - the environment makes people. The specific environment here is like where every child lives and grows"Dye vat", such as home dye vat, school dye vat, network dye vat, community dye vat, and so on. Only certainty"Dye vat"Only by intrinsically linking with educating people can we seek advantages and avoid disadvantages and optimize education"Dye vat", to serve the healthy and happy growth of children.

Education:

1 Spend half an hour a day talking to your child.

2 Also use civilized language at home with children, such as "good morning, please, thank you, good night", etc.

3. Let children develop good habits of hygiene.

4 Listen to your child's voice! ——With patience, love, and happiness, the heart has eyes!

5 Don't always reveal your child's scars in order to remind them.

6 Seriously point out your child's mistakes!

7 Don't always be serious with your children, but laugh with them more: because laughter can make children love life more; Guide your child to look at things positively, easily and happily.

8 Be patient when telling stories to your children, as they have educational significance.

9 Don't impose on your children the ideals that you didn't realize in the past, and want them to achieve them.

10 Care for the child, but appropriate punishment at the right time is also needed, do not protect the child's shortcomings.

11 Education does not have to be just reasoning, and sometimes it is appropriate to take some strong measures.

12 Think about at least one question about your child's development every day in light of your child's performance.

13. It is very beneficial to carry out art education for children, cultivate children's elegant aesthetic taste, pay attention to guide and enrich children's perceptual understanding, and deepen children's emotional experience in nature.

14 For children in early childhood, do not allow them to live with their parents for long periods of time, as it is not conducive to education. Maybe there is no scientific reason, but it definitely applies.

15 Pay attention to nurturing kindness in your children. The ancients said: Don't take evil as small, don't take good as small.

16 Teach your children to smile, to smile at everything in life, to smile at life.

17 Do not make random wishes to your children, and do everything you can to fulfill your promises.

18 Always put yourself in their shoes! Parents should always empathize with what their children do and think, if I were a child, what would happen to me?

19 Give your child a certain amount of space and freedom, and at the same time give a certain amount of pressure and responsibility!

20 Explain to your child that he is already lovely and that he does not need to express himself.

21 Never say that a child is worse than another child.

22 Never punish a child with verbal abuse.

23 In what your child does, keep looking for something to be praised.

24 Don't scare your child. So as not to cause the child to be too timid and afraid.

25 Do not criticize and ridicule your child in public, so as not to cause psychological deformities, loss of self-confidence, etc.

26 Don't be overly your children. lest children be afraid and shy to express their own opinions, and develop a character of good and evil.

27 Don't praise your child too much. lest children develop the bad habit of "selling fame and reputation".

28 Don't suggest that your child is doing something undesirable. For example, you must fight back, don't give your own things to eat, don't buy tickets for the bus, etc.

29 Let the child set up the right idols in his mind.

From the beginning of pregnancy to the living habits after childbirth, according to early infant education, go to the bookstore to buy some formal education books as a reference.

A good daughter-in-law's life wisdom No. 72.

How do excellent children be raised?1: A healthy environment for growing up is important

Parents should not always have a cold face in front of their children, they should always maintain a warm smile, if there is a conflict between husband and wife, they should solve it privately, do not quarrel in front of their children, and do their best to create a warm environment for their children, which is very important for the healthy growth of children's souls.

2: Do not spoil your child uncontrollably

Because most of them are only children, now children generally live in honey pots since they were young, and most of them have become flowers in the greenhouse, forming a selfish, indifferent, and impersonal character, which is very fatal. From an early age, we must correctly guide the child's three views, and the three views must be correct, of course, it also depends on the mentality of the parents, first of all, the parents' mentality must be correct. If a child makes a mistake and says something that should not be said, it must be corrected at the first time, and the child must have a correct view of right and wrong from a young age.

3: Let the child have an independent personalityAs the saying goes, it is better to ask for others than to seek yourself, and it is the most important thing to strengthen yourself, so that children can develop a good habit of independently doing what they can from an early age, do not do everything yourself, do everything well, so that children will slowly lose their sense of independence, unable to form an independent character, and will not be able to survive independently in the future, which is also very fatal, and must let children have the ability to make a living independently, and they can only support themselves when they grow up.

4: The attitude towards life must be positive and optimisticMentality is a very important thing, people who live with a positive and optimistic attitude will also make the people around them full of hope and will be willing to contact you, because all the sunshine and positive energy emanating from you are all positive energy, don't always pass on negative energy to your children, only when you see the sun in your eyes, there is sunshine in your heart.