How to learn to speak, behave and do things

The current society is a very powerful society, and it is also a very realistic society. Those who can talk have food, those who can do things have money, and those who can be people have a future. It can be seen that these three are indispensable, and if you want to achieve success, you must improve from these three aspects.

1.Talking

can speak, to put it in layman's terms, it is high emotional intelligence, and having a sense of humor can alleviate all kinds of embarrassing words. The famous host Meng Fei is a person with high emotional intelligence. If you really can't speak, read more relevant books or psychological books, so that you can enrich yourself with theoretical knowledge, and then practice when you have theory.

After a period of exercise, you will become emotionally intelligent and able to speak.

2.Will get things done

3.Will be a man

Being a good person is actually very studious, although the society is very complex and sinister, but good people will always be blessed. Remember the words of Confucius, do not do to others what you do not want to do to others, and when others need help, do your best to help others, so as to pave the way for your own accumulation of contacts. Andy Lau does this, what he learns must be taught to others, and what he earns must be given to others.

Doing so will also become a successful person.

Learning to speak, learn to do things, and learn to be a person is actually changing yourself and making yourself an excellent person. Since you want to change, you have to work hard to do it, these abstract things are not just talking about the effect, nor can you learn in a few days, if you want to be an excellent person, you need to keep learning, and persistence will have a certain effect.

Young people are people, speak, and do things, and sincerity comes first. We can easily sense what is true to us and what is hypocritical in the people we come into contact with every day.

There are some things that should not be taken too seriously, the Indian poet Rabindranath Tagore wrote in his poem:"If you cry over the loss of the sun, you will also miss the stars! "In the competition of life, there will be wins and losses, as long as you work hard and make yourself satisfied.

You're still young, it's a big deal to do it again.

Knowing that suffering is a blessing makes me think of a term - the depression effect. It is easier to gather more resources in low-lying places. If there is a depression on the flat ground, according to the laws of nature, water or other substances can easily collect into the depression, thus showing its aggregation effect on these substances.

Put yourself in your usual place and don't think too highly of yourself.

Accumulate your own popularity, as the saying goes"There are people in the DPRK who are good officials", with ability, you also need someone to appreciate and promote. Dealing with interpersonal relationships and forming our own network is also the best choice for each of us to reduce the cost of doing things.

If you want to be a top talent, you have to focus on expanding your network and networking. When you are more competitive, you will find opportunities to show your competitiveness in your work and life.

A person who can speak knows how to praise others in a timely and appropriate manner, and can express his love for others; People who know how to do things know that if they want to do their own things well, they must first help others do good things, and get help from others to do their own things better; A person who can be a person knows how to understand the general situation and make good connections. People rely on karma to survive in this world, and they should get in touch with others to make their lives broader and their future smoother!

When you see what people say, you should be improvised, and you must know how to take the initiative to greet others.

<> Hello, the skills of dealing with people are as follows: 1. Use your brain to speak, be cautious in your words, talk too much, your mouth is just a speaker, you must pay attention to supervise and control the FM knob and voice control switch, otherwise it will bring you a lot of trouble. Don't just talk about the momentary pleasure and open your mouth, thinking that people are appreciating your smile, and endlessly tell all the words that dig out your heart, and as a result, people have completely figured out the bottom of the family.

And secretly laughing at you. 2. Don't rush to conclusions, even if you have an answer, you have to wait, maybe there is a better way to solve it, there are different answers from different angles, you must learn to empathize, especially when you are in trouble, you must learn to wait and rely on, many times not only the trouble is resolved, maybe good luck is coming. 3. You must be patient with the villain, take a step back and shout the ruler of the sea and the sky, and give them their own space if they can't do it, so that they can be intoxicated like a warbler singing and dancing.

As the saying goes, adults measure big, don't take mundane things to heart, villains are rats and chickens, and if you provoke villains, you will wait and get into trouble, and the most villains in the world can't afford to provoke. Until now, I haven't figured out a better way to defeat the villain, and I don't know if it's feasible to stay away.