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In social life, it is inevitable that husband and wife will live separately, such as the families of military personnel, geological workers, road construction workers, mobile engineering workers, etc., who are all over the world, and the separation has become commonplace. So, how do you get it right? (1) Relieve the pain of lovesickness.
Husbands and wives should deliberately distract and downplay each other's thoughts and turn their attention to career or study. Strive for excellence in work and strive to achieve something in the work, so that you can fill your emptiness and hesitation.
2) Read and learn. Choose some books and periodicals, let books become your bosom friends, enjoy endless fun in the pursuit of knowledge, and have no time to feel lonely, lonely, and living like a year.
3) Enrich life. Choose your hobbies carefully, study hard, and show your skills in the spare world, learn painting, photography, tailoring, cooking, flowers, or use letters to learn to write. A rich and colorful life will bring a sense of fulfillment to living alone, and it is also a comfort and compensation for each other and oneself.
4) Hongyan carries books. Couples who love each other deeply and live separately should maintain frequent correspondence.
These letters are the bond of affection, the golden bridge of love, and the Feihong for deepening understanding and trust. Correspondence can exchange information to relieve concerns; It can exchange feelings and eliminate loneliness; You can pass on good news and share happiness together; You can also pour out your troubles and sorrows to the other person and ask the other party for help.
Therefore, no matter how busy or tired you are, you should write diligently and write more letters.
5) Internet talk. Nowadays**, the Internet is so popular, every day, set up some thoughts, a few days a time**, you can chat face-to-face on the Internet, what is the distance?
6) Deal with practical problems. Generally speaking, the party at home deals with more specific things in life, and the party outside must be more considerate, care and help. If you save financially, you can often send money or gifts to your loved ones at home to show that you will never forget the love between husband and wife; Greetings and congratulations should be given on festivals, birthdays of relatives, wedding anniversaries, etc.; During the family visit, you should express your love for each other, accompany your lover to play, eat some delicious food, do more housework, etc., so as to compensate for the hard work of your lover in taking care of the housework at home alone.
7) Nowadays, the national hukou policy has been significantly adjusted and changed, which provides great convenience for solving the difficulties of separation between the two places. The husband and wife have ended their separate lives, and the obstacle to the hukou problem has been removed. Therefore, those couples who cannot be reunited due to household registration problems should seize the opportunity to transfer to one place.
It is always happier to stay together than the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl.
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