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Hello. We are actually fellow villagers, I am from Chaozhou. I have been with my boyfriend for more than 6 years, and after graduating from college in '08, we didn't work in the same place, you know, we were together every day for the previous 5 years.
Because we were classmates in college, and like you, my boyfriend was very self-motivated. He went to Foshan, and I came to Shenzhen. In fact, the distance is quite far, and we meet once in a month.
I was also miserable at first, and our relationship may be deeper than yours. But now slowly I don't think about it so much, I care about him when I should care about him, and I don't want to quarrel with him anymore. You have to know that if he is emotional, you don't need to say so much and think so much.
So we thought we'd work together, and we're going to get married next year. You have to let go and encourage your boyfriend well. If you believe that you will be together, none of my families is rich, but with my encouragement, he is now working well.
And I decided to give up my job here next year and go to him, by that time I already have work experience, and I am not afraid to burden him. So you have to work hard, and if you have a lover, you will eventually become a family. Your boyfriend will appreciate you doing this.
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If you love him very much, go to him, there will be a lack of love communication between the two places, and slowly there will be some concealment, some alienation, and you will go away unconsciously. When something urgent happens to him (you) and you (he) are not around, they will reduce their trust in each other, and they will correct the sentence "Maybe love is still there, but I can only leave......"This is my experience and I hope it can help you.
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If it's a small farewell, your relationship will be tighter, but only if you love each other very much! If it is a long time away, time will prove love, and it will also overthrow love....Keep in touch with him, as long as he loves you very much, you can stand the test of time...Hey, the so-called, if you don't see each other for a day, this kind of taste is heartbreaking....
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It is the rarest thing in the world for two people to truly love each other. If you have faith in the future, and you have the faith to work hard, and you are prepared to endure hardships, then I believe that nothing can be an obstacle.
Having said that, separating different places is indeed very hard, if you don't want to let go of this relationship so easily, one party must sacrifice for the other to create happiness for two people.
Sincerity is very precious, I hope you cherish it. Finally, I wish you all the best in finding your own happiness.
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I fell in love with a boy born in the 80s, he was 6 years older than me, and our hometown was also very far apart. My family was against it from the beginning of our conversation, but my personality was so strong, my mother couldn't control it, so I said something that I couldn't even dream of: 'You pay off the money I raised you since I was a child, you will be with him, we will not be mother and daughter in the future' I cried ......at this momentA week later I said yes to my mom.
Loving a person is right, I will stick to our love, nothing can stop us from being together.
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Your story is similar to mine. Seeing your comments about your boyfriend reminds me of the past. I was doing business in Zhejiang, and he was studying in Changsha, but a year after I came out, we separated.
I liked him very much, but I couldn't bear the pressure that people put on me, and he told me that as long as I didn't mention it, he would never mention breaking up, which gave me a lot of encouragement, and I once believed that I could do it. But no, so I hurt him very much. And I, now that I have a boyfriend, I can't find that feeling anymore.
This has always been a regret in my heart.
If you're all sincere, don't let it go easily. As long as you insist on each other, you will definitely be able to. If you break up when both of you still like it, then you miss it in addition to missing it.
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Persistence, you will succeed, since you love him, then give him trust, give you the confidence to struggle.
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Yes, it is not necessary to be together to love someone, it is all comfort when the person is helpless. I think that if you love someone, you have to get him, and you have to live together and start a business, anyway, if you get rid of the foundation of being together, everything is in vain. You are born in the 90s and are still young, but how much young time can girls squander?
Your boyfriend is a gentleman, and it's for your own good, so I suggest you separate from each other. After all, ethereal love may not hold up in the face of real life.
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The first half of your story is similar to ours, but we didn't delay or delay. I don't know what your concept is, at least in my opinion, you can wait for the post-90s. I'm a post-80s generation, and I'm still waiting, aren't I?
At the same time, you should let him know your determination, tell him not to say those, grasshoppers tied to a rope, tell him not to live up to your expectations, and marry you in the future after becoming famous.
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If the two love for a long time, how can it be in the morning and twilight?
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If both of them are sincere, it will definitely succeed!
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If the foundation is good, probably not.
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Loving one another will bear fruit.