Huang Huiduo s Analysis and Coping Strategies for Psychological Problems of Middle School Students

No. Long-term habits have caused your current state (not yet a character), try to relax your mind, it may be that you just left home, I left home to go to school when I was in high school, and I am a sophomore this year, so I won't be particularly homesick. When people are homesick, they are often lost, and when they are sad, they think about the road ahead and have to walk alone, and try to make themselves stronger.

You say you have low self-esteem, find out the reason for your inferiority, you have to know that no one is perfect, tall people want to live, short people have to live, fat people have to live, thin people have to live, you have your life, they have their life. I have nothing to do with self-study, and study hard to enrich myself.

There is a little bit of autism.

My cousin is about the same as you. I want to take him out whenever I have time. wanted him to have more contact with the outside world, but he didn't dare, and his parents also thought he was too introverted to talk to people, and it would be embarrassing to take him out. Now I am getting less and less confident.

If you have friends or relatives who want to take you out to play, you must go together and have more contact with people, and you will be more confident.

A large percentage of today's college students are just like you. The difference is that you have realized that you are boring, ignorant and uninteresting. There are also many people who are still immersed in the game and can't extricate themselves.

When you want to go home, have you ever thought about how much your parents suffered for your studies, and you don't want to study and don't study. Is it that they are tired and don't want to work? If you really don't have the motivation to move forward, just think about the suffering of your parents.

There is no mental illness, but you can go to a psychiatrist, you know that if this is not right, it should not be a big problem.

Don't worry too much about others! People don't pay as much attention to you as you think, it's simple: do you remember what your best friend wore the day before yesterday?

1. Communicate more and trust students fully.

2. Help, support and help in action.

3. What kind of problems, whether they can solve them, if not, give suggestions and let them find help.

It is not possible to talk in generalities about adapting measures to local conditions.

Hello, it's an honor to be able to answer your question, for your question, I want to say that first of all, you must ask yourself to integrate into the life of everyone and the school, and making excuses for yourself to escape will only make you more overwhelmed, assuming that you really go home now, then you still need to face everyone when you take the exam, and you can really forget the troubles of school and concentrate on studying when you go home, and you are sure that you can learn well without the guidance of the teacher? Also, I want to remind you that no one is really psychologically problematic, unless he is born like this, which is an excuse imposed on yourself by not daring to face yourself correctly in reality, of course, it is also a shackle, and if you really want to be better, you must get rid of this shackle. Of course, revision is important now, and you may not have time to think about these issues, so I suggest that you study well in the short term with an attitude of going your own way and letting others say it, and then slowly adjust your attitude and views after the exam, and think about why you are not very pleasing to the people around you.

Dealing with interpersonal relationships well is not a matter of escaping. If the school doesn't handle it well, what about the job? If you can't handle it well, go home to work?

If you think about it, go home and study! You can make your question more detailed for analysis. Escaping just makes things worse.

If you know that you have a problem, you should take the initiative to fix it, instead of trying to avoid it, and the final result of you going home to study can only be that you have not been in contact with strangers for too long, which will make the problem more serious. It's just a matter of repeating, we work hard to learn to accumulate knowledge for ourselves in the future. It's so easy to get into a university now, and you don't have to worry about who got into it and you didn't get in.

You can take the right path in life that you like, and college is not the only way out. It's just a convenient entrance card.

Learning to deal with interpersonal relationships is a must for your life path People are social creatures. The handling of interpersonal relationships is not solved by avoidance.

Why do you think so, just because you are a repeater, you are inferior, and others alienate you? It's you who thinks others are alienating you and looking down on you. In fact, you can't see yourself clearly, some people may want to make friends with you, but because of your twists and pinching, it is difficult to speak, you should first adjust your mentality, let yourself be open, communicate more with your classmates [who have a common language], and of course, you should socialize with good friends.

I hope you will regain your self-confidence soon.

You learn from yours, do what others do, classmates humble each other, don't be too serious in everything (it's okay to study).

Escaping will not solve the problem. In fact, the classmates around you are not as difficult to get along with as you think, try to open your heart and contact them more, you will find that you dare not say everything, but most of the classmates are still very kind and good, try to find such a classmate, and then communicate more with him, you will not feel very lonely.

Either ask the teacher to move the table for you and make the first row, just your own one.

That way, no one will interfere with you.

First of all, the following analysis is mostly based on Jung's theory of personality classification and my personal experience of observing and practicing this theory for three years, which I will describe in the language of life:

You mature psychologically early, are very emotional, and perceive problems differently than most people, which creates an alternative in terms of your personality. But according to the division of personality type, this is very normal, because the personality type that belongs to you accounts for about 1% of the total population. This type of person, in my experience, is a more sensitive period than others at this age, and it is also a period of continuous transformation, so there is no need to worry.

I hate being pretentious because your attitude towards emotions is positive and relatively bold. According to what you have described and my experience, most of the girls in your class are emotionally reserved, melancholic, and have a great attachment to emotions. They don't mean it, these are all because emotions have an impact on it, because of the difference in seeing and hearing, causing them to be happy, scared, guilty and other emotions, resulting in their different ways of behaving (speaking voice, chasing stars, chasing **, etc.).

This also shows that you are very conscious, very sensible, good at using logic, like to doubt and guess, and worry about whether there is a conspiracy behind the surface of things. During your childhood, it may be that your parents did not pay much attention to you and gave you enough love, or that your childhood was very orbidden.

You see if the above narrative is somewhat similar to yours.

First point: Don't understand what you're trying to express?

In my opinion, you don't have any problems at all, girl, and you have more opinions and are relatively mature than your peers.

Don't deliberately think about what is wrong with you, (I can say for sure, everyone has some problems), everyone's youth is stumbling over, and decent youth is not interesting. It's good to live well, live your own wonderful, have a deep understanding of yourself or something, and talk about it later, everyone is in the process of knowing themselves all their lives, just let it be.

Also, appreciate your board size

Personally, I don't think it's going to be deliberate for the sake of being deliberate, not to be individual for the sake of being individual; Regarding the first point, many people don't call their parents' friends. I don't think there's anything; Regarding the second point, everyone has their own way of living, which is called outlook on life, values and personality traits. You can not be with them, because the Tao is different, but you can't think that your own so-called "personality" is superior because you despise them, maybe they despise you at the same time as you despise them.

Existence makes sense, and if you look at everything around you with an inclusive mindset, your mindset will naturally become very good. It doesn't matter what kind of head shape you have on the third point, but don't pursue individuality because of individuality, girls can cut their hair short, and boys can also have long hair. Regarding the results, I hope you can analyze and analyze your own reasons, the placement test does not mean anything, if it is a potential stock, never look at the present, but accumulate strength, build confidence, overcome difficulties, and overcome yourself.

Finally, you are a very thoughtful girl, it is normal to have these thoughts, and the process of growing up is a process of constantly knowing yourself, knowing the things and things around you.

You have your own unique views on the perception of things, you have an inexplicable aversion to interpersonal interactions, and you show too much ridicule about others. These are not good phenomena, it is good to be assertive, but do not think too highly of yourself, please be aware of the strengths of others, and do not magnify the shortcomings of others. Temporary gains and losses do not mean future success or failure, look at the problem and think more, do not make arbitrary decisions.

With a tolerant and tolerant heart, it may be better for you to receive people and things in the future than it is now.

It's a bit messy, it's not logical.

It shows that there is a bit of a problem with psychology and a lack of ideas in expression.

It should be the result of these troubles.

Your child is a girl.

If it's not a girl, there's really a possibility of paranoia.

If it's a girl. It is recommended that:

Introduce some decent men to be her friends.

Your child may be new to a new environment and have questions about places they don't like to see. Your child has a sense of right and wrong and shame, so talk to your child often to understand her thoughts.

Probably talking about problems among hotel staff.

The low-level pursuit of male employees over female employees.

The person who posted the post didn't like that environment.

The boss relied on his brother to have a friend from medical school, so he did nonsense!

If you're a girl, you can't stay here.

Let's change places, and leave the rest alone.

Maybe someone willing, aren't you a sinner?

There are also traces of paranoia of victimization.

Your child's expression skills are too poor

She is making up stories and has a talent for writing suspense.

There is a slight conjecture and it is easy to mess up the object.

Really want to help you come up with ideas ... But the point of your question is not clear...