Because I broke up with my boyfriend who got along very well at work, I was unwilling to do anything

Updated on society 2024-02-08
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What do you work for?

    No matter how much money you take, what's the point of not having love?

    You won't regret it at the moment.

    Not in the future.

    It's just that when you're old, you're going to regret giving up what was supposed to be your other life for a ridiculous job.

    Life is your choice.

    No one can tell you what's right and what's wrong.

    It's just that if you choose, don't go back, you can only go on firmly, otherwise you will only hurt others and hurt yourself.

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  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Do you think that the happiness of your life is important, or your work is important, is this not easy to solve, you can find a good job, and it is difficult to find a good husband, I hope you are happy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    He gave so much for you, even turned his back on his parents, and in the end, he had nothing, can you understand how he feels now?

    I really don't feel worth it for him!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Weigh for yourself which is more important.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Personally, I think it's a bit late to think about these things when the relationship has reached the stage of talking about marriage. But I don't recommend that you give up a good job to choose what you think is happiness, the world is changeable, you should be God to test how deep your love is, so that the two places can also maintain a romantic relationship, this life in the two places will make the true love stronger and stronger, on the contrary

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Work is temporary, and there will always be a day when you retire. People are forever.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't be sad, go with your heart and be brave to love.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If it is true love, then for that quarrel, we must learn to understand, know how to tolerate, and when we quarrel, we say that we are angry, and it is normal to find an excuse. Don't think about having that kind of love like a fairy tale, love in reality is very realistic, it is difficult to maintain without an economic foundation, can you tolerate this happening, if not, then there is no need to continue. Disagreement can be a factor, after all, the two of you often quarrel.

    What's more fatal is that you don't trust each other enough, you don't trust your boyfriend, so you will always suspect that he and others are not pure. And your boyfriend is not sincere enough to you, otherwise he wouldn't have secretly added back and changed the note when it was clear that it had been deleted.

    The key point of this matter is not whether he and the female friend have an affair or not, but the attitude of the two of you towards this matter. If you trust him enough, you won't doubt it, and you won't have any doubts about it later. If he loves you enough, he doesn't really delete it when he knows that his girlfriend is dissatisfied, after all, he is a friend, but at least he will keep his distance and reduce his interactions.

    This is a very difficult knot for both of you to untie. Again, you said that his family didn't accept you, and he also mentioned breaking up with you, so what does it mean that his attitude has suddenly improved now? He is really reluctant to remember you, or is it just that there is no suitable starting point for chatting with you anyway?

    And when he clearly mentioned to you that his family disagrees, whether it is true or not, he has left himself a way out.

    It is necessary for both men and women to maintain a certain amount of personal space, and it is not difficult to see that you are squeezing his personal space too much. Distance produces beauty, if you pay too much attention to his private space, he will be very stressed, as if running naked without clothes, especially boring! In fact, as long as you care more about him, he will naturally know and be full of gratitude, on the contrary, if you interfere too much in his private space now, it is like tying him with a rope, he will naturally be very uncomfortable, and he will not feel good about you!

    Many people say that love is selfish, that is a kind of narrow love, great love is selfless, respecting each other's preferences, and making each other feel comfortable and happy is true love. Take a good look at your love for him, and then decide whether to contact him, if you don't reflect on yourself, it will only be boring to contact yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In a relationship, your boyfriend's job is unstable, and he will not choose to break up because of his unstable job, because your boyfriend's job is unstable and only temporary, as long as he is responsible and loves you enough, you should have the confidence to manage the love between you with him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In a relationship, your boyfriend's job is unstable, I don't think you should choose to break up, some men are very capable, don't have a job, and live well, so don't mention breaking up because of a little thing.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    We won't break up, because we feel that we are still relatively young, so it is normal for the job to be unstable, and it will slowly stabilize after a long time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If the relationship between two people is relatively deep, they will not break up just because their boyfriend has an unstable job. Because of instability, the job is unstable, which will only affect income and materials. life, and should not affect the feelings of two people.

    If the two people have been dating for a short time and have no feelings, then if the boyfriend's job is unstable at this time, they will consider breaking up. Because a stable income is very important for two people in their later lives. Hope.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    No, his job instability is temporary, and he will have a stable income in the future. Give him the opportunity to choose the career he likes, and he will settle down when he finds a job that suits him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Boys and girls with unstable jobs are, if this is one aspect, and other aspects, he is doing very well, in the near future, he will have a stable job, which is equivalent to the kind that will give you hope, you can also stick to being with him, if you are with him, you can't see a little hope, and he has been working unstable, it is his own cause, you see that he will still be such a character in the future, causing his work to be unstable, and other aspects are not doing well, It's also only for you and your family and friends, if you feel that he is not doing well, then you can choose to break up with him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    No, because a boy who has just come out of society, how can you expect him to have everything, you can accompany him to suffer, you can also separate from him, but it is you who suffers, and it is not you who will enjoy happiness in the future, you don't regret complaining.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I won't break up, because I feel that my boyfriend's job is unstable now, this is just an external condition, and it is possible that my boyfriend's job will get better and better after a while, so I will have such a hope, so I will not break up.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I won't choose to break up, because I think my boyfriend's job is unstable now, but as long as my boyfriend is good to work, he will definitely make his job stable, I believe in my boyfriend, I believe that my boyfriend will also make such a change, I will definitely wait patiently for my boyfriend.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I won't break up, my boyfriend's job is unstable, as long as he is self-motivated and can endure hardships, I believe he will be able to find a good job, and I will not leave him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In a relationship, your boyfriend has an unstable job, will you break up? I think as long as my boyfriend is hardworking, motivated, responsible, and talented, even if his job is unstable, he will not break up.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If my boyfriend has an unstable job, I won't break up, his job is unstable, as long as my job is stable, we um have a certain amount of money every month to be able to guarantee a living, um, there is also a part of the money to save, I think that's good.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If your boyfriend's job is unstable, this is also a very different type, depending on the reason for his unstable job. Is it unsatisfactory for the job, or does he not want to do this job?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    That's not true, unstable work is not the same thing as not working. As long as your boyfriend is hard-working, self-motivated, and willing to endure hardships. Maybe he's unstable now, just because he's always like this!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I will choose to break up, if the job is unstable, the risk of the relationship between two people is also very large, so I will definitely choose to break up.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In a relationship, as long as my boyfriend is good to me, even if his job is unstable, I will not break up with him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    In a relationship, job instability is not the reason for choosing to break up, people are really good, we can't have more requirements for a person who has just entered the society, so don't break up easily.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    He has an unstable job, you should encourage him, you should not choose to break up with him, if you leave him now, he will feel very sad and he will feel that he has lost the whole world.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    In a relationship, if my boyfriend has an unstable job, I won't break up, as long as he's working hard and positive.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If your boyfriend's job is not stable enough, he may not have a stable income, right? I shouldn't choose to break up slowly, and it will be fine.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If he hadn't been working well, I would have decided to break up, mainly because if he hadn't worked, our future might have been a problem, and even after getting married, the two of us would have constant quarrels every day over trivial things.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's okay if the job is unstable, but you haven't met him yet, you should encourage him to cheer him up more, so that he can find his own suitable job.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If my boyfriend's job is not stable yet, maybe for the time being, my job is stable, and the money can be used by everyone first, but I will advise my boyfriend to change to a stable job.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Everyone will encounter the most difficult times in life, and I feel that now you, as his girlfriend, are not thinking about separation, but by his side through this difficult time.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    In a relationship, if the job that you don't have is unstable, you can also tell him that you should find a stable job and not break up.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Cats shouldn't be unable to learn, even if the job is unstable, if the whole school is encouraged to work hard, I believe it must be very good. Wait.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If my boyfriend's job is unstable, I think I'll wait for him to have a stable job, and if it's a relationship, it's not just the job that decides, isn't it? So sometimes, I don't think it's so easy to break up.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Now that the job itself is hard to find and so competitive, I think you should give him a little more time, maybe in the near future, he will find a suitable job for himself.

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