There is no one in the post 90s generation who is not in early love

As a post-90s generation, I think early love is just early"Practice"That's it, there are fewer people who fall in love in junior high school, even if there is that kind of it, it's just a budding, a good impression of that person, junior high school may not know what true love is, junior high school is about to face the pressure of the high school entrance examination, it is better to keep this beauty, and when you feel mature in high school, you can handle the relationship between love and study when you are bold in love, do the right thing at the right time, isn't it. If you pierce this layer of paper too early, it will not only affect yourself, but also hurt the other party, and no one will agree with falling in love at that age in junior high school. Don't compare ourselves with Western countries, our cultural background and way of thinking are too different from those of the West, and we cannot generalize whether China is better or the West is better.

But you live in China, and your parents, relatives and friends grew up in traditional thinking. Brother, I hope you will concentrate on studying now, save your beauty, and wait until high school, isn't it?

…A lot of people in my class don't fall in love.

Our class is very simple.

I am a post-90s generation. Thank you.

Regarding the issue of post-90s early love, parents and teachers oppose it because they are afraid of delaying our learning, and they are also afraid that we will do something bad, and they are also afraid that our learning will decline. Parents abroad don't pay so much attention to this right of their children, and the others don't know either, they are them, and we in China are China. And.

China has always been like this. Not just now. Puppy love is a simple liking, but parents don't want to delay their future because of this, so they probably oppose it like this.

In fact, for us, there are still benefits. But we don't like it (including me, who I like, hee-hee). We also have our thoughts, adults also have adult thoughts, we might as well communicate with each other about something, understand and understand, maybe we can resolve that!

On this issue, don't compare with foreign countries.

People abroad, after their children become adults, do not pay to support them, and ask for money from their families to make IOUs.

So don't compare yourself with other countries.

I am a post-90s generation in the 1990s, and I am not a puppy love.

It depends on what everyone thinks, maybe this is the realization of the policy and the countermeasure.

This is China, China has Chinese traditions, and teachers have to do a good job of this, so in fact, they just do what they should do, please understand the teachers.

As for parents, they hope that their sons will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes, if the children don't learn well when they are young, how will they mix when they grow up? Besides, parents are also thinking about their children, children are immature, and they can't make friends, what if they accidentally get into trouble? So please understand the parents.

We do ours, they say theirs, the two have nothing to do with each other. How nice!

I was in 1992 and never talked about it. Neither did some of my good friends. We're all very well-behaved, and we're usually very inconspicuous on the street, so you see the puppy lovers, but you don't see us singles.

Ay. Pulled after 90.

It's all like this.

Adolescence is always like this.

Everyone's concept of love is different.

Traditionally speaking, there is a big difference between the traditional concepts of China and European and American countries, so on the one hand, China is still a developing country, and people's ideas have yet to be developed. Therefore, these problems are all necessary stages of social development, and with the development of this society, there will only be more and better solutions to these problems, which is also the goal of our development.

There's nothing wrong with early love, if you can encourage each other!

Forehead. I am a post-90s generation.

I don't think puppy love is a big problem!

Just know what you're doing.

It's OK if you shouldn't be able to!

Nothing. So what.

Pure love.

Isn't that good?

I am born in the 90s, and I don't have early love.

And not early love, such as me. It's just that there are more early loves.

Personal perception. Today's young people want to realize their own value through their own efforts, rather than devoting themselves to marriage prematurely and being troubled by the firewood, rice, oil and salt of life, of course, there are many people who like to live such a life.

I don't want to find a repentant rough person to complete the task in order to get married.

Marriage should be two people who love each other together, not to reduce the worries of the elders, go against their own hearts and choose a person they think is suitable to live with, everyone's life is not long, not short, should follow their own hearts, not in order to accommodate others, let yourself twist.

City life is stressful.

Marriage will face the living expenses of two families, mortgage, car loan, high living expenses, after having a baby, the baby's education and living expenses, as the child grows up, the cost of education will be more and more, the cost of training classes, etc., corresponding to the increase in the age of both parents, the decrease in income, or even no, the medical expenses of the whole family will also increase, most of the current young generation are only children, poor monthly wages, in addition to the basic living expenses, How much money can be saved to deal with future emergencies is an invisible pressure on the vast majority of young people.

Of course, some people will say that it is because they are not good enough, yes, how many people in the whole society can be young and promising, most young people still survive under the noise of the metropolis every day, maybe this word is not appropriate, but it is indeed a realistic portrayal.

No, happiness comes from the following aspects:

1. Family relationships, health status, and income level are the three major factors that affect happiness. And the importance of "family relationship" is the most important in their hearts, followed by work, followed by boyfriend and girlfriend.

2. "China Economic Life Survey (2017-2018)" conducted a special survey for 18-25-year-old school students, most of them are post-90s, among them, in the consideration of mate selection, family and economic conditions are not their priority, the first place in their eyes is the other party is gentle, considerate, and has a family concept, and its importance even exceeds the appearance and talent.

3. After all, a lifetime is so long, if you are with a boring person, even if he has a house and a car, the two of them are just people who live together under the eaves of the same house and respect each other like ice. It can be seen that the post-90s generation still has a very clear understanding of what they want.

4. In addition to these emotional problems, the survey also shows that today's post-90s generation also has very high requirements for the quality of life. Food safety, air quality, and housing security are all qualities of the city that they value very much. Not only that, the post-90s generation also understands that they can't just ask for things and don't do things, they are willing to spend time on "reading" and self-improvement, and their collection of articles is also full of information.

This is just an individual phenomenon, not everyone is like this, of course, everyone's thinking is different, and there are indeed such people.

College love is a dream, but many people have been single for four years, why.

Before going to college, students' minds are full of beautiful visions of college life, what to participate in the student union, get scholarships, fight for graduate school, etc., and the most planned list should be to talk about a sweet campus love.

High school does not allow early love, mainly because of the fear of delaying students' learning, and also for fear that they will be immature and guided by bad emotions, but there are still some high school students who are secretly in early love, and they are usually criticized and educated when they are discovered, and even more so they are punished with demerits, and the price is not small, even so it can't stop the throbbing of some adolescent students.

In college, love can be above board, and there are many students who have this plan in college, but in today's college campuses, single people abound, and many students have never been in love in four years of college, and there are many students who have good looks and conditions in all aspects.

In the matter of falling in love, usually boys take the initiative more, there are many beautiful girls on the college campus, and even if you don't fall in love, you can become friends, but many college boys would rather play games in the dormitory, and they don't go far out of the dormitory to make friends, and they regret it after being single for four years, why didn't they fall in love.

College students would rather live in dormitories than make friends, why are they so "rebellious"?

Not only boys, but many girls would rather stay in the dormitory, than go out to meet new friends, in the dormitory naturally there is no way to fall in love, high school does not allow non-early love, college let and single, can't help but wonder why college students are so rebellious? Ruined boys.

One of the reasons for the analysis of the aftermath of the chain is the "involution", all say that today's college students are really easy to mix, and they will graduate after playing for four years, that is, you don't see all.

Today's college students take college as a high school a lot, not only to take care of their studies, to ensure the results of each subject, but also to continue to enrich, improve the overall quality, but also to participate in various organizational activities, enrich personal resume, a week down there is no free time at all, finally can have a relaxing time, boys play games, girls are chasing dramas, but not just don't want to go out.

Of course, part of the reason is that many college students are unwilling to reduce their quality of life, falling in love is more expensive, college students' living expenses are limited, if they are in love, their daily expenses will also increase, then their quality of life will decline, many college students want to understand this, and they are more willing to make themselves comfortable than in love.

There is also the development of the Internet and technology so that many college students prefer online love, that is, online love, online dating does not have to spend time and cost to accompany, nor does it cost money to operate, and under the beauty of college students can see a relatively perfect appearance, this fast way to make friends with a hazy sense of making friends, so that many college students know that it is unreliable, but they are still immersed in it.

College students focus on their studies, so there are only a few people who fall in love. ......Therefore, it is normal for college students to fall in love less.

Happiness is a feeling, it does not depend on people's living conditions, but on people's state of mind, the characteristic of happiness is the peace of mind, the so-called contented people are always happy.

Happiness is the feeling that people's desires feel when they are satisfied or partially satisfied, and it is a spiritual pleasure. The happiness that people get is temporary, just like misfortune, and with the passage of time, the sense of happiness and unhappiness will gradually fade, so if we want to continue to have happiness and live a happy life, we must continue to satisfy more desires. After people get a happiness, then people's desire for the same or the same type of happiness will decrease, when people get this or this kind of happiness again, the happiness will gradually decrease, and when they reach enough n times, the desire will become zero, and the happiness will become zero.

When you fulfill a wish, achieve a goal, love someone, be loved, be in a momentary mood, be happy, and so on, all belong to happiness. Happiness has no distance, no standard, happiness is a feeling. When you're satisfied, you're happy.

Contentment keeps happiness fresh (attachment).

Puppy love is actually not early.

I am also a post-90s generation.

A girl born in the 90s.

All are precocious. Or no longer a girl.

It should be called a woman.

Falling in love is an essential psychological need for everyone.

It's the same with them.

A woman born in the 90s.

Not kids. They just want the same thing you do.

In fact, a few people will have early love. That's just precociousness. But don't try it lightly.

The troubles are all because of my excessive attachment.

Even if you go on like this.

Not to mention that there will be no good results.

Why do we just give blindly? No one is selfless.

Everyone wants to be rewarded for their efforts.

At the very least, it has to be recognized, in fact, the situation is very clear, but you don't face it, and it just takes a while to forget.

To let go, if you can't love yourself well, then what can you do to love others well, yes, every truth is difficult to do.

Maybe it's easier said than done.

But all I can say is.

If you are neglected, why should you practice yourself?

Maybe I was like you in the past.

Time really can change everything.

Learn to be strong.

I think so.

There is no reason for this.

Being in love can make us mature.

Hello

It doesn't matter if you're in the post-teens.

Early love seems to be a little wrong.

You're so interesting

I think it should be due to financial pressure, low self-esteem or lack of time and energy. The post-90s generation is the main force of contemporary young people. The youngest post-90s generation is already 20 years old, and the oldest post-90s generation is nearly 30 years old

This group of young people has entered society. They are the first generation of people who are exposed to idol dramas in school, such as Meteor Garden, so they have established their own concept of love very early on, and there is early love in every corner of the school.

At present, China is an era of rapid economic growth, but it is also an era of rapid economic pressure. People before the 90s just went out into society and had a few meals。However, children born in the 90s need to repay loans, buy a house, buy a car, a credit card, and flowers.

Ordinary young people are actually at the bottom of society. Although they sit in their offices, they only have enough rent, water, electricity and food, and their wages are meager, and they even have to struggle for a day and a half to buy a new dress. Imagine how hard it is to live alone and how easy it is to live together?

When they are alone, they sleep and play games, but when they are alone, they have to go shopping and go out to play. Even if they don't buy something, they should watch movies. Otherwise, how do they maintain their feelings?

In fact, the working hours of the contemporary post-90s youth are very tight. The subway was packed with people every night. Even if the company does not require overtime, the performance required by the company forces every young person to work overtime late into the night

Not everyone can be excellent, talented, and able to meet deadlines. It's normal to have only one day off in a first-tier city, and there are a lot of jobs that have to be taken two days off a month. I use all my time and energy to sustain my work and life.

How can I be distracted to fall in love? Do you like to use your phone to surf the Internet every day? Interesting?

It's better to be single than to live so hard!

In fact, the self-confidence of contemporary post-90s youth is generally insufficient, and even inferior. In addition to being born in a superior family environment, the post-90s generation generally does not have strong psychological tolerance. Due to the lack of family education and the lack of educational environment, the post-90s generation has brought a lot of psychological distress, unable to understand themselves clearly, have no confidence in themselves, and have a strong inferiority complex compared with excellent peers.

However, when ordinary people like one person, they usually think that the other person is perfect. Therefore, when the post-90s generation meets the person they like, they will basically have an inferiority complex and dare not express themselves. So I think it should be due to financial pressure, low self-esteem or lack of time and energy.