Is it necessary for my child to attend an interest class?

Parent Mr. Chen: My son is already a senior primary school student, and he has participated in badminton, allegro, calligraphy, English and other interest classes on weekends, and there are four or five of them.

How should we parents look at the problem of our children attending interest classes? Teacher Huang Fang of Xinhua Primary School: "Do children need to attend interest classes?

What kind of interest classes do I need to attend? "Other people's children are in interest classes, will we fall behind if we don't go to them?" ”…I believe that problems like this are often the most common problems for parents today.

Here, I would like to talk about some of my own views: First of all, distinguish the concept and respect the child In order not to let their children lose at the starting line, many parents continue to enroll their children in this class and that class, and these classes can be roughly divided into two categories: "interest classes" and "tutorial classes": "tutorial classes" are used to improve for curriculum problems; "Interest classes" are based on your interests to improve your extracurricular skills.

I feel that students should try to "digest" the knowledge in class, and there is not much need to participate in tutorial classes. However, for those students who have spare time, it is also advisable to participate in some interest classes without increasing their burden. As the saying goes:

Everything will be a little better, and life will be more exciting. Parents should reasonably arrange their children's work and rest time, and they should not blindly arrange extracurricular interest classes for their children. Secondly, family investment and common growth I believe that children's growth is inseparable from the family investment of parents, and parents must take part of their time to get along with their children and communicate with each other, no matter how busy they are.

Parents should not have the idea of enrolling their children in an interest class and handing over everything to the teacher, but should pay attention to family guidance and grow together with their children: if their children practice the piano, parents may wish to learn the piano synchronously with their children, which is both a sparring partner and a coach, which is more conducive to the supervision and help of children; Children practice badminton, and parents can also have the opportunity to "compete" with their children; Children learn Allegro, you can let children be teachers, teach you the essentials of movements, teaching and learning, why not! A child's interest in learning is cultivated in this little bit.

In addition, when learning in interest classes, you should also lose no time in taking time to do small experiments with your children; playing chess, reading, and cycling with children; Go into nature with your children, learn about animals and plants, understand society, and promote their healthy growth. In short, parents should have a correct attitude, respect their children's wishes, and devote themselves to family affection, so that their children can have a happy and beautiful childhood.

Is it really necessary to have a lot of interest classes from tabloids?

Hello, glad you for this question.

It is necessary for children to attend interest classes, and if the budget is sufficient, they can choose some courses that are conducive to the development of children's interests and hobbies and their own preferences.

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And the ability to memorize is very fast. And if you don't cherish it when you are a child and wait until you grow up to study, you will not only have a lot of fun than your peers, but you will not have an advantage compared to your peers, and you may be compared by others.

It is useful for children to attend interest classes, but they should be taught according to their aptitude, do not force children, do not blindly follow the trend, and choose interest classes based on the characteristics of their children. Personally, I think logical thinking training is very helpful for children's learning.

Children under the age of 4 do not need to enroll in interest classes.

Many interest classes are enrolled in the enrollment brochure of 3-6 years old children, parents feel that the cultivation of interest should start from a young age, in fact, children who are too young, learning ability, adaptability and operation ability are limited, he is placed in the interest class in addition to torment, the fun of learning is too little.

It is not recommended for young children to enroll in art classes.

I studied art and knew the boredom of art. Especially for a 5 or 6-year-old child to sit there and learn to draw motionless, it is extremely boring. A child's lively and active nature should not be worn out at a young age.

** Classes and dance classes are more popular.

** and dance type of interest classes, is the most parents for their children to sign up, but also the most in line with the characteristics of children's interest classes, singing, dancing, edutainment atmosphere, children are easier to accept, will be more willing to learn. The impact is far-reaching and long-lasting.

It is not recommended for young children to learn musical instruments.

Playing the piano and playing the violin may seem high-end, but it takes ten times the effort to reap the rewards. Many pianists, after becoming famous, can't forget the painful nightmare of practicing the piano when they were children, you can imagine how difficult it was. If the child is not particularly interested, it is not recommended that parents give their children such heavy dreams.

Your child's interests come first.

Since it is an interest class, it is best to follow the child's interests to develop. If you like to sing and dance, you can sign up for the ** class, and if you like to sign up for the speech class, interest is the best teacher for your child, don't blindly follow the recommendations of other parents and teachers, and don't sign up for multiple interest classes for your child for all-round development, the child's usual learning tasks are heavy enough.

The so-called interest classes, what can really be used are nothing more than class evenings and campus evenings in the reading stage, which cannot be used at all after entering the society. The children of rich families accept the guidance of professional teachers, and if you pretend to be hard, you can only end up with a ridicule.

Do you say that children have special talents?

I can tell you in charge that basically every child has a specialty, but why can't ordinary children find out?

If you give an ordinary child to try more than ten kinds of projects, you will find the child's strengths and strengths, which can actually be done by ordinary people, but what ordinary people can't do is persistence in the later stage, enough time to learn, and guidance from famous teachers.

Many skills, such as playing the piano, the level of the piano teacher in those cram schools may only take the child to the beginning, yes, only to take the child to the beginning, because this kind of teacher is also the level of the entry.

If ordinary people insist, of course, they can also pay the fees, that is, they can sell their property, gamble, whether the child can become a talent, just like the piano lang, his family will sell the house and take him around to find famous teachers, but this is too risky for ordinary people, if the child does not become a talent, there is no house, it is very disturbing.

The reason why some people care about and struggle with this kind of problem is because they don't have money Rich people never think about whether they want it or not, but think about how to cultivate it. Parents at the bottom of the social ladder want to make their children cross classes in this way, which is very wrong. If you really want to achieve this goal, it is better to teach children how to get along with others--- that is, the cultivation of emotional intelligence!

It is better to teach children the ability to deal with various problems--- only academic qualifications and no ability, what class can we talk about?

Nowadays, many interest classes not only cultivate children's test-taking ability, but also often do games, interactions, competitions, and the curriculum is very systematic, cultivating children's organizational skills, speech skills, and leadership skills. Let children be careful at a very young age, and some also pay attention to the development of the child's whole brain, and after many years, the gap between children with good learning results and children without foundation will be widened. However, if the child can't sit still, and there is no interest in the interest class, parents can try to cultivate interest, but if they can't cultivate it, don't force anything, otherwise it will backfire and make the child tired of school.

Wait until your child is older to think about it.

If the child is interested and the economy can keep up, the child will be allowed to attend an interest class, and it is not required to learn well, and it is okay to cultivate his own interests and hobbies.

It is still necessary for children to attend interest classes, just one or two appropriately, not too much.

In the process of educating children, we should let children combine work and rest, let children feel the joy of learning, and let children know that learning is a very happy thing.

Instead of treating the child as a learning puppet, let the child go to this cram school, that cram school all day long. Is it necessary to enroll my child in an interest class? There are individual differences in this question, so it cannot be generalized.

If your child is a preschooler, it is recommended that you enroll your child in an interest class, and if you find something that your child is interested in, you can put that interest class.

Second, as a slippery parent, it is the responsibility to observe what the child is interested in, if you find that the child has a special strength, is particularly interested in a certain aspect, you should enroll the child in an interest class, cultivate his interest, and can also stimulate the child's enthusiasm for learning.

Third, in order to enable children to go to school smoothly, be able to sit still in class, and concentrate on concentration, children should be enrolled in an interest class before school, such as a puzzle board flower arrangement class, if targeted exercise children's concentration.

Fourth, if the child is in the primary school stage, because the learning pressure is not too great, you can appropriately register the child for an interest class according to the child's interests, such as a sketch, and will come to the junior high school and high school to have a Luo Ji thinking on the stereogram, and be able to analyze the stereo geometry in mathematics from different angles.

Fifth, according to your child's situation, if the child is unwilling to enroll in interest classes, as a parent, it should not be enforced.

Sixth, enrolling children in interest classes should be purposeful and targeted, and they should not follow the crowd.

It is necessary, but don't force the child to go, it's best to ask the child's opinion first, and arrange the time to go to the interest class reasonably, so that the brigade can have an effect.

In order to learn better, children can sign up for interest classes.

This is not a one-size-fits-all approach. Some children are not necessary, and some children are necessary to attend interest classes. For example, children have artistic talents, which can be cultivated from an early age.