How to raise a smart and sensible good baby

Every mom is a first-time parent, and the sudden change in roles makes us re-examine our responsibilities. It is said that parents are the best teachers for children, if even we don't learn to enrich ourselves, how can we ask children to learn?

When you keep forging ahead and maintain a high enthusiasm for life and a learning attitude, it is natural that children will be able to immerse themselves in a living environment full of positive energy.

Therefore, it is not that parents need to be very knowledgeable, but a learning attitude and spiritual guidance. It is difficult for us to change the family conditions in a short period of time, but we should be willing to study and work hard for our children, create an upward family atmosphere, and learn together, progress and grow with our children.

A lot of parents talk to each other when they're together"Meaning" said: Oh, your child is so good-looking, and he is so good at learning, unlike my child, who is too ignorant, and his learning is not as good as your child'......

In fact, parents may just talk about it, but they still think their children are the best. But the child can distinguish the meaning of the adult, and if he listens to it more, he is likely to take the adult's words as a hint and feel that he is inferior to others.

Therefore, in front of outsiders, save some "face" for the child, don't blindly demean the child, for the child's strengths, please don't be stingy with your praise, which will bring great encouragement to the child.

When the child grows to a certain age, parents should be willing to let the child do some things independently.

This will not only exercise the child's independence ability, but also help the child develop an outgoing and lively personality.

Babies who are more independent from an early age will have a much higher ability to deal with problems on their own when they grow up, and will be more sensible and mature, and will be able to face setbacks and failures better in the future.

Hope that the son will become a dragon, and the daughter will become a phoenix" is the wish of all parents in the world, and I hope that in the process of education, you will be on the right path from the beginning!

There are many ways to learn, such as playing and interacting with the baby, teaching in the process of life, and reading and drawing, but this thing is easy for the baby to eat, and.

And it's not image enough.

My daughter began to contact Chinese characters at the age of three, and now it takes a year to recognize more than 300 words, basically learned in the software, there are a lot of animated stories inside, the baby likes to watch, and the game can be played (the game is to consolidate literacy), at first I was worried that playing too long is not good for the baby's eyes, and then found that there is a setting function inside, you can set the learning time, and the use time is automatically turned off, awesome. After using it for a long time, it also exercises the baby's eye habits. Search for [cat (what) learn Chinese characters], the answer is Xiao Shuai, now I learn more words, I hear more stories, I will come back from work to tell me stories, super heartwarming (although the story is intermittent, but super cute).

A particularly sensible child usually behaves:

1.Able to do some daily life tasks independently, such as dressing, eating, washing face, etc.

2.Listen to your parents' advice and rules, and don't talk or do things casually.

3.Be polite and respect the feelings and rights of others.

4.Know what you should do, what you shouldn't shout about, and don't run around where it's not prescribed.

5.Know how to conserve resources and don't waste precious resources such as food and water.

Parents can educate their children to be sensible through the following aspects:

1.Lead by example. Parents should be role models for their children, so that their children can learn the principles and methods of life in themselves.

2.Practice what you preach. Parents should tell their children the importance of being sensible through words and deeds, so that children can absorb moral cultivation through imitation.

3.Incentive rewards. Parents should give timely praise and rewards to their children when they do a good job, so that their children understand that it is beneficial for them to be sensible.

4.Constraint Specification. Parents should set some rules and constraints so that their children know their responsibilities and obligations.

5.Personality development. Parents should be individualized, and education should be based on the child's personality and characteristics, and it is not possible to generalize.

Every parent likes sensible and well-behaved children, and people will feel particularly envious when they meet particularly sensible children around them, but they often forget that it is their responsibility to educate their children. So how can we educate a well-behaved and sensible child? Smart parents will learn both.

1. Be patient with your child

1. Children make mistakes.

Every child makes mistakes, and the process of children's growth is actually a process of making mistakes, so parents should be patient with their children. is like the mother in the show, who has never murdered her own children. She is always gentle and gentle, coils her hair up, does not apply powder, is gentle and gentle in everything, and wants her children to become sensible, so parents should be patient with their children.

2. Be patient in the process of educating children.

Many parents have a temper tantrum, and they will be particularly impulsive when they encounter things, and this is also the case in the process of educating their children. In fact, parents are a sample of children, and if parents are too short-tempered, then children will also learn from their parents to do things. In an irritable environment, the child will either grow up to be very irritable and learn the way his parents behave, so that he or she can interact with his classmates, or the child will become particularly cowardly, only doing things with promises, and not having the courage to take responsibility.

No matter which one it is, it will not educate a sensible and well-behaved child, so parents must pay attention to their patience in the process of education, and must be patient with their children.

2. Keep your child company

1. Watch TV with your children.

In the show, Xin'er's mother often hugs Xin'er to watch TV together, and Xin'er dances and shouts "pull the radish". It is precisely because of the mother's company that the child will grow into a sensible and well-behaved child. Now the social pressure is so great, everyone's life is in a hurry, every parent wants to let their children win at the starting line, and they can't wait to be that starting line, so they work hard to make money, work hard to support their families, and hope to give their children better material living conditions, but sometimes, this is not what children want.

In addition to work, you may wish to spend more time with your children, don't play with your mobile phone all the time, don't ignore your children all the time, pay more attention to your children's growth, and pay more attention to your children's mental health. Other than that. In the process of accompaniment, pay attention to attention, do not be the child watching TV, you yourself are looking at the phone.

Give your child high-quality companionship, not companionship.

2. Play games together.

In life, you always have to play games with your children. In the process of playing games with your child, you can not only give your child a good companionship, give your child a feeling of love, but also bring your relationship closer. Don't think that the child's game is childish, just lazy to take care of the child, the child is your own, everyone is from that time to the feast, to give the child patience, give the child time, let the child grow.

In addition, if there are any parent-child activities in the school, you must take your children to participate, don't let your children develop an inferiority complex, others are accompanied by parents, and they have nothing, such a child is sensitive, and his sensible and well-behaved will make him grow up inappropriately.

Slowly cultivate patience education.

If you want to raise your children to be sensible and well-behaved, I think parents need to be emotionally stable.

Slowly cultivate patience education.