As a disciple of the Buddha, my husband wants to eat fish and meat, what should I do?

1. Don't be tough on it, which is not conducive to his tolerance of your study of Buddhism;

2. Tactfully tell him that he believes in Buddhism, can't kill, and can't make fish, so ask him to find his own way or go to a restaurant to eat.

3. Recite the Buddha number for the poor fish. bar.

This is an adverse fate, let's follow the fate first, try not to kill live fish, eat fish in the sea, you must be dead. You can tell him that the fish in the sea are better, and the freshwater fish are all farmed, and they are all fed with medicine, and they are not good to eat.

Recite the Heart Sutra for your lover and ask the Bodhisattva to open wisdom for him, and it will change in the future.

It is a better choice to be able to persuade gently, but if the family does not listen, there is no way.

Don't do it hard, it will cause your family to oppose your study of Buddhism, it will cause you many obstacles, and it will cause your family members to be disrespectful to Buddhism, create karma, and keep them away from the Dharma.

It's good that you cook a few vegan dishes for your family and yourself at the same time.

You can just buy the ones that are already dead.

You can eat three pure meats, not kill yourself, not ask others to kill, not just see the killing.

1. No, I can't see the scene when it is killed;

2. I do not hear, I do not hear the sound of its cry when it is killed;

3. There is no doubt that its death is undoubtedly that it was killed for me.

Then you just buy ready-made ones.

Do you mean that you want to eat meat, and you don't make it at home, or do you want your family to not let you eat it?

If you don't have meat at home and you want to eat it, please take care of it.

If the family doesn't let you eat it, it's a bit difficult to do, and it's better not to eat it. Or when you are hungry for meat, you quietly run outside to steal a little. There is a saying: "Wine and meat pass through the intestines, and the Buddha stays in his heart", it doesn't hurt to eat a little, but don't let your family see it.

You can change the way, you say that it is healthier to eat vegetarian, you can persuade them to eat less meat, don't say absolutely not to eat, because this is unacceptable to ordinary people at the beginning.

You can also give some examples, say that someone is a vegetarian, live a healthy and lively life, and then guide them in the scientific method, plant toxins are the least, and meat toxins are the most.

However, family harmony should be the most important, and if the family is unhappy because of the persuasion to eat meat, then it should not be.

Amitabha.

If you live in the temple, your family won't be able to ask for it. Daily believers need to know that Buddhism is based on crossing people to do good, and the so-called Buddha in his heart is a good deed, which is meritorious. The care of family members makes the elderly worry that it will also damage their cultivation.

Faith is born from the heart, all sentient beings are guilty, and practice is only to reduce sin. If you don't do anything that hurts nature and reason, killing people is cultivating merit. The food is mainly vegetarian, and it is okay to go with the flow on weekdays.

The Buddha is said to be good, to help the world and the people, an animal, a bird, a flower, a grass, a tree, a stone, all things are life. Vegetarianism is not for cultivating Buddhism, but for peace of mind, and meat is not to kill, but to replenish the body. In ancient times, there was a way to eat meat and vegetarians, so why can't we see people eating meat today?

With one heart to the Buddha and the common people, the Buddha cultivator is not trapped by taboos.

If you don't eat meat, that's their business, and if you don't eat it, it's okay. Then please ban women's sex!

Then follow along.

If you don't see or hear that the animal is being killed, and the animal is not killed specifically for you, then the meat is pure and can be eaten.

You eat what you think you should eat, and you don't eat what you think you shouldn't. After all, the mouth is your own. Hehe.

It's okay... Wine and meat have passed through the intestines, and the Buddha has left it in his heart! If you can't make the mud, then you can just watch them eat it.

Don't be embarrassed about yourself.

Because I don't want to ruin the relationship with my family and destroy family harmony, I only eat meat side dishes, I wonder if it's okay?

It's better not to kill.

Everything is difficult at the beginning, but it will be even more difficult to do great good deeds at the beginning, in fact, this may be a test.

When I first started to be a vegetarian, my family was very opposed to it, and the unit was very troublesome at first. But after a few months, the family is much better, and they will take the initiative to support it. The leaders of the unit are very understanding, and even take the initiative to tell the guests every time they have a meal with them, which makes them more harmonious.

After all, the family will slowly understand, learn a little more Buddhism, and after learning Buddhism, they will know more about tolerance, generosity, for the sake of others, and be more cheerful, so that the family can see the benefits you bring because of learning Buddhism and make them feel more warm, in comparison, they will understand.

Short-term unhappiness is a small matter, but life and death are a big matter. Remember to think more and guide more, and you will naturally have more understanding and support. Maybe they'll change because of you. There is no Amitabha Buddha in the south!

Good friends, if you really want to help your family, you must be happy with them, guide them skillfully, and value harmony in your family. Don't let your own stubbornness create more contradictions, so that the existing problems will not be solved. Therefore, when there is no wisdom and convenience, the only way to do it is to follow the circumstances.

I wish you good luck at six o'clock! Amitabha.

When you have to kill a living animal, recite the Buddha's name, and recite the mantra to return to them.

You don't blame yourself too much, there is no contradiction between handling family relationships and studying Buddhism, don't have attachment, but have compassion, and reciting Buddha dedication to them is compassion.

Turning over afflictions is bodhi, and there is no contradiction between everything and people, only in the use of pure mind and compassion.

Amitabha.

1. Non-killing is the bottom line, and there is no room for negotiation. The family is not happy now, just get used to it.

2. You can make meat for your family, you must use Sanjing meat, we can also eat meat side dishes, and Sanjing meat can also be eaten.

If you don't kill, your family won't kill you.

If you kill it, since you believe in Buddhism, you should know what the retribution is and what the sin is.

One is that you can't pull your face, and the other is the retribution of serious crimes, do you think it's worth it?

Are you now a meat eater? du

I didn't eat meat at first

At that time, the family **dao was very big. But I'm very responsive.

Insist, they don't have a problem with me.

I promised to buy a kitchen knife and cutting board separately, not the previous one.

If your family wants to eat meat, we recommend Sanjing meat.

Another is that you have to take care of your body well, and there are many types of vegetarian food, so that when your family members see that your body is better after eating a vegetarian diet, they will not talk about it.

Just like my face was ugly before, but after I became a vegetarian, my face brightened, and when I went home this time, my mother-in-law was surprised to see it, and she also told her family to eat more vegetarian dishes.

Changing with your own actions is the most effective.

I don't know if Bai microorganisms count in the eyes of you Buddhists.

Zhi life no? If this is the case, you will not be able to stop killing without eating or drinking, because if you eat and drink, you must kill. If you don't eat or drink, you kill yourself, and that's a transgression, and it's not just killing yourself, but you also kill a lot of beneficial or harmful microorganisms in your body.

Kill one, and none of you will escape.

Everything is a matter of fate, why be attached to it Refuge is just a formality.

Communicate more and take family harmony as the principle.

Let's substitute vegetarian dishes. It can also make the appearance of meat, and shiitake mushrooms are like the taste of meat.

People who hate superstition like you the most, let me tell you this, there is no cause and effect in this world, and there are no ghosts and gods, round holes, Buddhas, Bodhisattvas and the like, so you don't have to say anything about being afraid of killing and the like, if you are really afraid that you will simply not get married, or are you really so cheeky to ask those guests to be vegetarian??

Plants are also alive, and you shouldn't kill them either, so it's only you who ......The Buddha said: If you don't go to hell, who will go to hell?

Each believes in his own way, each has his own destiny, after all, you don't really want to be a nun.

Then after you get married, Mao Dun will definitely have a lot of opinions.

Now there is no taboo on eating and drinking in Buddhism. It's okay to be sincere.

You can talk to him about how you feel if he cares.

Wine and meat have passed through the heart of the Buddha, why did you say this when you haven't cut off the dust?

Tease, don't you eat meat? It is necessary to believe that wine and meat have passed through the intestines, and the Buddha has left it in his heart.

You're thinking too much. How many ants do you have to trample to death for a wedding!

I also believe that Buddhism is a couple!

Wine and meat passed through the intestines, and the Buddha stayed in his heart.

Then marry me, I also believe in Buddhism.

Drunk, isn't your boyfriend afraid that you will see through the red dust?

Let the Buddha witness your love.

Eat something like wild mushrooms.

It's not a child's body, so it doesn't matter.

It's easy to do it after marriage

It's like this now, and it's impossible to make all vegetarian dishes

Materialistic view: the genes of human beings'There is a part of the human being that eats meat.

Meat includes the meat of all sentient beings, and of course fish, shrimp and shellfish are also among them. It is best to be vegetarian, and it is okay to eat six fasts, ten fasts, etc.

Try not to drink alcohol, which hinders the mind. It is not a sin to drink without abstaining from alcohol, but I am afraid that I will be immoral after drinking and will commit everything else.

If you are a monk, you will abide by it, and if you are a monk, you will be free.