My girlfriend left me to pursue her first love

First of all, I feel sorry for your sadness.

Once a woman changes her mind, don't force it, at least for now, it's useless.

In fact, the brothers encourage you to let go of her, and if you don't let go, it will only bring more harm to yourself, teach you a good way, and try to think about it, in the future, if you are separated from her for 4 or 6 months, are you sure that you still love her?

If the girl comes back to you in a few months and tells you to love her, will you still love her, touch your conscience, don't want me now, wait a few months for you to be with me, if you don't contact that woman in a few months, then you still love her very much, and I'll bow to the wind Because I'm also a person from the past Every time I break up with a girl, it's always very sad (dumped) Because everything comes very suddenly, and the woman who gets along with herself every day suddenly wants to leave herself, of course it's very sad, people have feelings, or the old saying." After being together for a long time, feelings will naturally occur, because I see a lot of advantages in each other, so I am deeply attracted".

Time can dilute everything, new hope is tomorrow, we'll talk in a few months, and you will definitely see a different you when the time comes, brother, there is a better beauty waiting for you.........

There should be people in the world who can make themselves so sad, otherwise the world will be too boring. If it's a man, you shouldn't invest more in this irreparable thing! If I talk about sadness, I may not be less than you, but what can be done?

She is also a person, she will make such a choice, you have to make the choice to let go of her, even if it really makes you very sad!

At least you've loved her and want to open a little! Nabs!

Try to talk to her, and if she can make a decision calmly and maturely, you should respect that decision.

Give up and don't try to redeem it.

It's the same as mine.

My girlfriend is the same as yours.

I don't know what to do now.

I tried to get myself to give up on her, but.

I can't because I love her so much.

Love her and respect her choices

If you are sad about a breakup, here are a few ways you can get yourself out of here. I think one of the best ways to do this is to just find a new love, because once you find a new love, you basically forget about the former. If you don't want to find a new love so early, then you can also keep your life busy and try not to have too much free time so that you don't think about it.

Then it's about knowing that time will slowly heal your wounds, and you have to calm your mind.

The new love is better than the old love

If you always limit your eyes to your ex-girlfriend, then you will definitely miss her and will be sad all the time. But if you can open up your pattern and find that there are so many people out there who can also be your girlfriends, you can quickly come out. When you find a new girlfriend, you may immediately fall in love, and this time you will basically forget all the sorrows of your ex-girlfriend.

The ** effect that a new love can bring to you is absolutely powerful enough. <>

Get busy

If a person always thinks of his ex after a breakup, then it is most likely because you are generally idle now. If you're so busy with work that you need to do it late every day, you basically don't have time to think about it. In such a situation, you will slowly forget him, and you will not have much time to think about him, so you will naturally not be sad.

I think it's also a great way to reduce your pain before you find a new love. <>

Time to heal wounds

After you break up, don't think too much about it, and don't think that he is the only one in your life. You have to know that time can heal your wounds, as long as it is in a short period of time, you don't always think about it, and after a while, you will naturally feel nothing. If during this period of time, you always take the initiative to let yourself think about it, and always listen to some sad **, then you will probably become more painful because of it.

You should be thankful that she has played such an important role in your life and has made you grow a lot. But you don't have to be so sad, because she is a passerby in your life, and she has fulfilled her role in your life, so you can accept it safely.

You have to calm down, change your emotions, don't always think about it, and sometimes encourage yourself to become confident.

You can divert your attention, you can focus all your energy on your work, and you can accept more love from other people of the opposite sex.

You let them meet first, and you tell his boyfriend that you really love your girlfriend. Kiss one directly, her boyfriend will be jealous That's good, you must choose me.

Break up with her, I see that she is eating from the bowl and looking at the pot, and when I break up with you, maybe I will tell others again, I can't forget you, I'm the most disgusting like this, I don't have a sense of responsibility at all, since I can't forget his ex-boyfriend, why should I be nice to you, I don't know the woman who cherishes you, it's not good to get married, find someone who cherishes yourself, don't let this blind your eyes, it's not worth it.

You first find out how she feels about her first love, and if you just want to make a final break, you can go with her.

There's no way around it, so you just let them meet.

It's actually quite simple, you ask her the same question and see how she reacts.

Even if you can't forget it, it's not love.

Separate and find the next one, women are too hypocritical to consider, and it is a good thing to break up. Women are like clothes, they earn money well, and women don't have money when they have money. People must find someone who loves you, and if she wants to love you, it won't be like this.

Now you can think about it, no matter how much money and effort you spend to get her back, and have a good time, just find a foreign player to play, and then you kick her.

The power of first love is something that everyone knows. But now that it's gone, he's let go, and there's already a significant other, I don't think it's better to worry about him. Anyway, in the days to come, the mountains are high and the roads are far away, and there are crowds of people, and you can love while walking.

First love only exists in the past, only in your youth, and since it is the first love, it is understandable that it is difficult to forget. But since it hasn't gone all the way to the present, it still shows that fate is not enough. And now that he has his own girlfriend, then you should choose to forget, forget completely, either find a boyfriend, or always prefer to be lacking.

When you meet someone who can make you forget your first love, you will be truly happy. You shouldn't live in the shadow of your first love forever, you should look at someone else.

The yearning of youth is not necessarily the pursuit of a lifetime, and the love and inability to let go of youth are just the wrong time. You still have a lot of time to squander, you don't have the right to spend your whole life on someone with an uncertain future, he can't do it and still likes you, he's no longer waiting for you in the same place, he never wants to come back from the day he waved his hand and parted. It's you who always thought you liked, and he still likes you.

You just don't know how far your time is from his light-years, and you just don't love yourself enough.

If you love each other, you will grow old, and if you don't love, you will protect him. When I fell in love with my youth, I was young. It's not him that you can't forget, it's just the memories he brought you, and now, he has a girlfriend and is about to start the next story with his girlfriend, so you can't forget it anymore.

It's disgusting, others have wronged themselves, so why bother. Good girl shines brightly, and you can only free up your hands to embrace the present when you let go of the past. So you're going to let it go.

Don't forget, don't think about him. You should think about poverty alleviation, and you should think about how much money you have when he gets married.

Of course, as your first teacher in love, you still have to thank him. He's the one who taught you to love, after all. So if there is anything you can't let go, you shouldn't let go of your first love, not to mention your first love with a girlfriend. Let's forget about it.

We all know that the first love is a very special existence, and it is normal to not forget, because it is the first person to love, and it is more sincere, including myself, and I can't forget the first love, I think if you can't forget the first love, and he doesn't have a girlfriend now, you can do whatever you want, it's okay to chase him back, but you have to know that he has a girlfriend now, it's not what you want to do, when people have a girlfriend, It's your fault for what you're doing, it's all you're meddling in other people's feelings, and I suggest you really don't do that in terms of morality.

Like myself, I can't forget my first love, but even if he doesn't have a girlfriend, I won't take the initiative to chase him back, mainly because I think I'm a girl, even if I like me no matter how much I don't take the initiative, no way, girls are the kind of creatures who would rather miss than take the initiative, and I think since I missed it, I missed it, and there was a gap in chasing it back, and the revival of the old love may still repeat the mistakes of the past, the first love is beautiful, don't ruin it, maybe regret is the most beautiful, It is also the best treatment of first love. What's more, the first love already has a girlfriend, and it is even more impossible for us to do this, which is immoral, meddling in other people's feelings and affecting other people's lives, even if we chase it back? Burdened with infamy, he dismantled others to fulfill himself.

So in my opinion, don't chase this situation, don't disturb other people's lives, just let our first love stay in our memory, don't ruin it.

Shouldn't. No matter what the reason is, the other party already has a girlfriend, you have broken up, there is only one thing you have to do, bless others.

A person has to meet many people in his life, and first love is indeed very beautiful and unforgettable, but why not cherish it when you were together? You still love him, but what about him? Does he still love you?

You can't decide the development of a thing based on your feelings, and it is an innocent girl who is hurt in the end. We will still meet others, leave it to time, let time decide what to do, what to do?

I also broke up last year, isn't it okay now? At first, I was very unwilling and didn't want to break up, but so what, if you break up, you don't need to worry about it, so you should get in touch with new things, for example, watch movies, go out to travel, learn to cook by yourself, learn to summarize things by yourself, make more friends, and slowly you will find that in fact, without him, you are really doing well. Now my predecessor, I mentioned him very lightly, and when others mentioned it to me, I also laughed it off, because I understood that there are some things, and really only I am the best to rely on.

You have a lot of life a lot, there is no need to go like this, instead of entangled in the first love, it is better to see more beautiful things, I flew to Beijing alone in May, I have never been on a plane, but I can be alone, once I was thinking that without him, I will not go anywhere, but now I am not also here, a person to work in the field, a person to travel to Beijing, a person to run around, a person to live, a person to solve all the things I encountered. There is no need to rely on anyone, relying on yourself is the best.

Believe me, without your first love, you will be better, you are single now, and enjoy the freedom of being single, there is no need to be accompanied by anyone, you can be very exciting. Although I am not wonderful now, I have changed compared to before, I have become more free, more free, and I am more calm in seeing things.

He may have really let go of your past, why would he hurt someone you like! Isn't it!

If you really like her, and you can't bless them, then it's far away! At least you won't hurt yourself!

People are always so complicated, and they feel so precious when they can't get it. Remorse is never useful in the first place, so let's let it go. If you can't do it now, then take your time.

The person you are waiting for may also be waiting for you around a certain corner.

Lei Jun said it well, always believe that good things are about to happen. It's really like this, as long as we still have our own beliefs in life, good things will come eventually.

And we shouldn't hurt an irrelevant person, for the sake of our own happiness, just run over to the happiness of the boy who will love your ex-girlfriend as much as you do, this is a bit of robber logic, right? We should not do what we want and demolish others.

Since it has become a success, why bother talking about it. It's because there's a because, that's why it's there! Find out more about your own shortcomings, so that you can become more perfect when you meet the next girl you like!

This is in line with the concept of win-win, and it can also make you appear more chic. If you break them up in time, you will look so moody when you chase them.

Men, sometimes look a little away. Good horses don't eat back grass! Why hang yourself on a book.

I believe that your discomfort is only temporary, and I also believe that you can find your own happiness. It's just that at that time, don't let the tragedy happen again, and hold on to him firmly is the most important thing you should do. Now you have to do it, of course, you are ready!