My husband looks down on me, can I live this life?

Hello: Didn't you get married because of love?

Since you are together for love, you say that your husband looks down on you.

Have you ever reviewed your own problems? Or does your husband himself have strabismus?

Be yourself first, and then look at your husband, both parties should be people who know how to reflect, and don't blindly blame each other.

What should you do if your husband looks down on you and doesn't respect you, through the following considerations:

1. If the husband looks down on his wife, then he must refuse to be sloppy, it may be that the wife does not know how to dress herself, and she can't because she doesn't care about her dress after marriage, in fact, there will be aesthetic fatigue for men, everyone wants their wives to be very beautiful, so you usually have to dress yourself carefully, so that your husband is willing to get along with you.

2. If the wife is teaching her husband and children, to be honest, there are very few in today's society, and the vast majority of women are financially independent, that is to say, they will go out to work, and they are the most attractive when they work.

3. Don't always touch your phone at home, but accumulate more knowledge, such as reading more books, or going to some training institutions to make your life more fulfilling.

Finally, there are many, many ways and means for the husband to look down on his wife, by changing some small things in life, when you slowly change, the other party will find that you are slowly changing.

Let me teach you to think about a few questions, you think like this, people are a lifetime, this life is only a hundred years, except for the first eighteen years and ten years after that, how long do you have left? The rest of the time to have children is spent on children and family, how much is left? How much time do you have left for yourself?

People are in this life, and no one knows if there will be a next life. Why bother yourself in these short decades.

I have time to read more books and books about logical thinking, I personally think that what we Chinese women lack the most is logical thinking. Of course, this is something to do in your spare time, learn a skill, find a class, and don't let you revolve around the stove for decades.

What I said can only be used when you are extreme, don't let these words become an excuse for you to do something wrong, wrong is wrong, and no excuse can change it.

Through your friend's description, you must have said a language that your husband or makes your husband very shameless, which is really disgusting to your husband and his male friends. Secondly, no matter what happens, you must cook for your husband. After marriage, like before marriage, I go home every day and have no food, who can stand it.

And you must be financially independent, except for the living expenses of the two of you, let your husband pay, and don't want other money if your husband doesn't give it to you, and you can save up the money you earn yourself.

After marriage, a woman does: 1. Don't talk much; 2. Cook for your husband; 3. You have the ability to make money (you can have less money). Even if this husband doesn't want you, there are many men who want you.

Then why does he look down on you, women should still have their own jobs or careers, and can't let men think that this family can only rely on him, make themselves better, and make him feel a sense of crisis, so that his attitude towards you will change immediately.

You wake up first, whether you are doing something wrong in that aspect, or not good enough, change yourself first, optimize yourself, strengthen yourself, and your husband will slowly treat you well.

Try to make yourself better, not so that he can look down on you, but to make yourself confident and live better.

Find excuses to look down on why this is happening. Find a way to change that.

Summary. It is recommended that you find a good way out for yourself first, such as a good job and then divorce, and you can raise only one child.

My husband looks down on me, can I live this life?

What exactly do you look down on? You can say thank you.

One is that I am a big grinning person, and sometimes I speak without proportion in front of my good friends, and the other is that after giving birth to a baby and breastfeeding, my chest is flat somehow, and every time he sees other women with big breasts, he will feast in front of me and say that this is good, I feel very heartbroken after hearing it, and it is because of this humiliation that I have secretly cried countless times. And I'm not as smart as other women, wide shed**. But I take care of my family, and I don't care about it, no matter what I do, it should be done in his opinion.

In fact, I feel that you lack communication, and the man is too comfortable, you can tell the other party that you feel tired, go back to your parents' house for a few days, see what reaction, and scare him.

My husband is a person who sells Qi Chang and loves to play cards, he is uncomfortable if he doesn't play for a few days, even if he is divorced, he has to play, and he looks down on his wife, I think he doesn't care, I like mahjong more than I see my wife, we have three babies, the pickpocket car is a loan, no house, no deposit, I'm so broken now, so desperate.

If you think about it, divorce is also a good way for such a man. Such a man does not know how to feel sorry for people.

It's useless, before the Chinese New Year, it was because of playing mahjong, I quarreled, I ignored him for two days, he talked to me and I ignored him, we were all cold drafts, he proposed to divorce me, I was blinded at that time, I have been married to you for 12 years, don't you have a little feeling, what about the three children, we are doing business outside, selling fruits, vegetables, no house in our hometown, no money, car or loan Wang Peng, what should I do if I am divorced? A lot of questions came up at once, for the sake of the child, for the sake of my elderly parents, I was wronged, I mustered up the courage to talk a lot with him, he agreed to ignore it, and there was a little bit that he especially listened to fucking words.

It is recommended that you find a good way out for yourself first, such as a good job and then divorce, and you can raise only one child.

The three children were raised by me alone, I am reluctant, the eldest girl is 12 years old, the second girl is 9 years old, and the son is 6 years old

If you don't get divorced, you have the ability to make more money on your own, and it is difficult to expect your husband to change.

I believe this, but there are no people at the vegetable stall, and I have to guard the stall every day, but he plays cards.

If you don't get divorced in this kind of life, just stay up and wait for him to get better.

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The teacher thinks that this is a very complex issue, and there are many aspects to consider. First of all, you need to clarify what is the reason why your husband looks down on you, whether it is because of your career, family background, or other reasons. If it's for these reasons, you can consider communicating with him and telling him about your thoughts and feelings so that he understands your worth and abilities.

If he still looks down on you, it may be necessary to consider whether there is a future in your marriage. However, if he looks down on you because of his personality and attitude problems, then it is necessary to consider whether you can tolerate his attitude and continue the marriage relationship with this attitude. If you're feeling depressed and helpless, consider seeking advice and support from a counsellor.

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The teacher thinks that this is a complicated problem that is not a hail brother, and there are many aspects to consider. First of all, you need to clarify what is the reason why your husband looks down on you, whether it is because of your profession, family background, or other reasons. If it's for these reasons, you can consider communicating with him and telling him about your thoughts and feelings so that he understands your worth and abilities.

If he still looks down on you, it may be necessary to consider whether there is a future in your marriage. However, if he looks down on you because of his personality and attitude problems, then it is necessary to consider whether you can tolerate his attitude and continue the marriage relationship with this attitude. If you're feeling depressed and helpless, consider seeking advice and support from a counsellor.

<> dear, what does your husband look down on you?

First of all, reflect on whether you have something wrong there. If it's not your own problem, then your husband has a problem.

Marriage is originally a poor old process of mutual understanding and mutual tolerance between two people, if you can't tolerate it, you won't be able to go on, you don't care who is good and who is bad, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, it depends on whether you can tolerate each other, and whether the three views will fit.

Marriage and family should be truly respectful, understanding, tolerant and inclusive.