What should I do if my wife is too strong and looks down on her husband?

Then you should communicate with him, after all, husband and wife can't always go toe-to-toe.

I feel that a woman's strength is the strength of the surface, any woman wants to find an excellent man to rely on, even if a woman can hold up half the sky, wisdom is outstanding, but a woman without a man, her courage is still limited, her heart is still empty, and she can't count on a man, so she feels that she looks down on a man.

If such a situation occurs, the two people should have a good talk together, after all, if the wife is too strong, it will not be good for the family, and they should correct their attitude.

In the family, a woman who is too strong is not conducive to the development of the family. I am neither a remnant of feudal society nor a feminist. In terms of yin and yang, the male protagonist is yang, the female protagonist is yin, and the harmony of yin and yang is the best.

If the yin is too strong, the yang will decline, which is not conducive to the harmony of the family; Ideologically speaking, most of the girls have a worse ideological pattern than men, and they do not consider the problem comprehensively.

If you just want to be strong and get more love from your husband, this is understandable, if it is really the kind of unreasonable that is strong, then you will not be happy if you stay together and live, it is better to end your marriage and find your own happiness.

This kind of marriage will have problems sooner or later, correct attitude, there is no status in marriage, only love or not love....

There is a strong woman called hardworking, who actively participates in men's careers, accompanies men to start businesses, and finally can surpass men on their own, and there are many such family businesses. Moreover, in many family businesses, it is men who start businesses, and when men are tired and have physical problems, they are finally taken over by women, and they are still doing their business prosperously. But women do not have the support of men in their careers, or men who have hind legs still can't do well in the end, which makes the brain bad and tired the body.

So the strong reaction of women to the incompetence of men. ‍‍

In married life, any party who is too strong is a cancer of marriage. The comprehensive reason is that the understanding of marriage is too superficial. Married life is a process in which husband and wife support each other.

It is obvious that the strong person can tolerate the faults of outsiders, but cannot tolerate the slightest bit of bad behavior of his own spouse, and the reason for this is a strong dissatisfaction with real life.

If you are not strong, it is no wonder that others are strong, whether you are strong or not is also you married home, there must be your reasons, maybe you will see that others are capable, now it is not that some mothers-in-law like the woman's family has money to post to her son, if there is this part of the reason, you can only say that you have to bear what you choose!

The husband should work hard and study, everything is on par with his wife, and when you have the ability, your wife will naturally not look down on you.

You can be strong as a woman, please look in the mirror at your strong capital, pat your conscience and ask, do you really care about the person who is nominally your husband? You're looking for a husband, not a long-term worker!

The cowardly man learns and grows from the shadow of cowardice caused by his childhood, and becomes a strong man, and the strong woman transforms and grows from the fearful and manipulative survival mode to become a relaxed, gentle and considerate wife of love.

I think that as a husband and wife, if there is any problem, you should sit down and talk calmly, so that your marriage can go further.

Regarding the husband looking down on his wife, do you still want such a marriage?

As the old saying goes, it is better to fold ten temples than break a marriage. There are children in the family, and of course a woman can remarry after divorce, but it is not easy to bring the child to find a man who is really good to the doll.

Find shortcomings from yourself in everything, and only by improving your own conditions will there be nothing difficult to do. If you look down on it, choose to give up! Otherwise, you'll be tired.

Marriage is something that needs to be managed. How to manage one's own marriage is now a hot topic, and at least people are beginning to realize that the permanence and happiness of marriage is managed.

But how to manage it, this needs to be treated differently, because there are differences in people's concepts and habits, and the generation and degree of feelings are naturally different, so it cannot be said to completely define how to operate.

Running a good marriage, first of all, is a person's correct understanding of life, marriage, family reunion, relationship and love, the reason why a person can have self-confidence is based on his understanding of things, because understanding will be sure, because there is certainty, naturally you can run well.

When a person really continues to reflect, correct and improve from life and marriage, and know how to love people correctly, to guide life, to accommodate and coordinate differences and relationships, this person will naturally become more and more confident about life as he matures.

In short, life itself will gradually smooth and stabilize.

If a person can't have the mentality of improving and improving himself, and can't start from himself with the mentality of learning and reflecting, then managing a marriage is an empty talk. Whether life is happy or not, the key is still up to oneself.

The husband looks down on his wife, so don't continue such a marriage.

Your husband looks down on you, he looks down on you from the bottom of his heart, and you are not as good as a nanny in such a marriage.

The husband looks down on his wife, is this kind of marriage still necessary?

Why is the chain not changed?

If the reason is justified.

Then shout to change yourself.

Improve yourself. If it's purely to find something to do.

There's really no need to maintain that.

People say that they are tired of each other after a long relationship, and this is indeed the case. Sometimes people are like this, if you are good to her, she thinks you are annoying. When this happens, snub her for a while and wait for her to find you herself.

Reflect on it again, whether she didn't do a good job and made her angry.

If she points out that you really can't do a good job, then try to improve, if she is deliberately finding fault, then go through the formal process to end the marriage.

At this time, the husband should care more about his wife, help his wife cook and do housework, and often give his wife some surprises and small gifts.

Distance produces beauty. When you can't get used to seeing your husband, you feel that it is annoying in front of you, you can be separated for a while, out of sight is clean, and you will feel his benefits if you are not together.

If a woman is not used to her husband, then she should think about her husband's goodness, so that you will find that her husband is still very pleasing to the eye.

You need to change your mentality, and you must also be good at discovering the strengths of your husband, only in this way can you change the mode of getting along with you.

What happens if a wife looks down on her husband? In marriage, the woman is too strong and often looks down on her husband will have a very bad impact, which will lead to a man's inferiority complex, and he will retreat and escape when he encounters a little problem, which will also make the husband more and more afraid of his wife, which is not conducive to the formation of the marital relationship, and even leads to the breakdown of the marriage. Of course, there is also a possibility that the husband is belittled by his wife, driven by a strong heart, and finally makes a difference and goes to the peak of life.

1. Make men more and more inferior, and even slump

In marriage, a man is often disliked by his wife, counted, and looked down upon, and after a long time, the man will wonder if he is really cowardly and incompetent as his wife said, and slowly he will become more and more inferior, and he will choose to escape when he encounters a little setback in life and work. After all, every time I encounter difficulties, my wife's negative words about myself will fill my ears: You coward, you are really useless, you can't do anything well, and you will ......be poor for the rest of your lifeOver time, men can really become sluggish.

Anyone who gets along needs to give each other a little praise and encouragement, and the same is true in marriage, couples should see each other's points more, and help each other when they are in trouble, no one wants to hear some words that deny themselves all day long.

2. Men have worked hard since then and reached the pinnacle of life

The wife often looks down on her husband, and there is also a possibility that the husband takes his wife's words to heart, and the man with strong self-esteem will change himself, live a personal life, and make achievements to impress his wife. Due to the daily supervision of his wife, men work hard to change and improve themselves, pay attention to their image, improve their work ability, get promotions and salary increases, or start a business as a boss, earn a lot of money to give their wives and children a better life, and then become better and better, and since then they have reached the pinnacle of life.

3. Marriage splitting and destroying the relationship between husband and wife

A man is often denied by his wife, and usually can't bear to say anything, but one day it all breaks out and becomes out of control, all his dissatisfaction with his wife is poured out, and even does things that hurt his wife and children, after all, people's patience has a limit, and I don't know when it will break out.

The relationship between husband and wife for many years will also be broken because of the wife's contempt for her husband, so women still have to give their husbands some face, and they can't do too much, especially in front of friends, save some face for their husbands, men are good and dignified, and they can't stand your repeated counts.

4. It has an impact on the child's personality and the formation of three views

The original family has a great influence on the child, if the mother often counts down the father and scolds the father for being a waster, he will feel that the father is really useless in his heart, and the attitude of the wife towards the husband also determines the child's attitude towards the father. It may also be because of the constant quarrels of the parents, the personality becomes untalkative and autistic, which directly affects the child's three views and personality. Only when husband and wife are loving and have a positive outlook can they cultivate a filial and sunny child.

Parents should create a good environment for their children to grow up, pass on positive energy, and do a good job of correct guidance.

The wife is too strong, it is generally a superficial phenomenon, there is no woman who does not want to get the care and love of her husband, strong women are fragile in their hearts, so as a husband, they should express their love more, give their wives more comfort, care and love, and overcome rigidity with softness, in the face of love, no matter how strong the wife will become, she will become gentle.

If as a husband, he feels that he has paid more for the family, feels that he is more capable, and has a good job, that is, because his personality is more gentle, the wife does not care about her husband's feelings, and is blind and strong, in this case, the husband should communicate with his wife at the appropriate opportunity, give his wife a little reminder, talk about his feelings, don't suppress himself, his wife knows, and will naturally change a little.

First of all, the strong woman in the family must be materially or spiritually superior to the man, and the man will have a sense of frustration in the aspect of inferiority to the woman. So in the final analysis, the man must surpass the woman materially or spiritually in order to solve the problem. Secondly, if the first one can't be done, then we can retreat to the second, work harder on our own disadvantages, and tolerate the woman's strength, the woman sees that her man is self-motivated, and cares about herself and tolerates herself, then the so-called strength will slowly fade.

Finally, if it does reach the point where it is incompatible, it is recommended that two people sit down with each other and have a good talk, rather than using quarrels and divorces to solve the problem. Marriage is not easy, but it is done and cherished.

My wife is relatively strong, of course, the one that is strong at home and not too strong outside. My daughter and I usually tolerate my wife, and everyone in the family is basically the same, of course, there are many times when I can't stand the quarrel, but in the end, I coax and let go, and my wife is angry. There are also serious enough that they want to divorce, but they still haven't said it later.

But it wasn't like this when she was in love before, and it was still very quiet and gentle at that time. It wasn't on purpose, she was really good at the time. Later, there was a lot of friction in the house, and it slowly changed.

I am also envious of seeing many very loving and harmonious couples. I don't think I'll ever be like that in my life. I still have to face the reality, bear what I should bear, do my best, and live a positive life.

I think as a man is just considerate, and then respect each other, nothing serious. I am indecisive in dealing with things, and I look forward to everything. My wife is resolute and straightforward, but sometimes reckless.

I feel like my family can complement each other very well. At home, my wife never let me touch the housework, and we discussed big and small things. The most important thing is that the two of us have been married for five years, and we have never quarreled or blushed.

When she was angry and nagging, I didn't squeak, and I was telling her afterwards; When I sulked when I was angry, she would give in and soften in time, and I happily got off the donkey.

Strong depends on whether you can adapt to it, a woman with a strong heart will live a prosperous life than a person who is at peace with the situation, which is a good aspect for the family, but there is also a bad aspect that there may be family quarrels and weak children. My family is my mother is stronger, the good thing is that my family is living a good life with my parents cooperating with each other, and the bad thing is that my father's temperament is also very soft by my mother, this is not afraid of my mother, this is tolerance, so there are good and bad, and I will think about my own life.