Your ex came to you to get back together, what should you do?

Updated on society 2024-02-29
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you also love him now, of course, it's good to get back together, after all, do you have a lover who will eventually become a family, but if you're not sure if you still love him now, then you should think about whether it's time to get back together, in fact, with your previous boyfriend, it's not a wise choice to get back together, because after all, there have been problems, and you've been hurt, so there will be a separation between you in this reunion, but if you're sure that you still love each other as you did at the beginning, you should get back together.

    Think about why you broke up in the first place, whether this kind of problem will happen again, and then think about whether it is time to reconcile.

    I hope you will find your happiness and sincere blessings to you. ~~

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's up to you to see if you like him or not.

    If the feelings are already weaker than before.

    Then forget it.

    What's more, you proposed to break up before.

    That's not to mention.

    You could have said you broke up.

    Now you can say no.

    There are many people in the world.

    Why do you want to go around him in circles?

    Socializing is tiring.

    It's better not to socialize.

    If you were me. Nine words.

    I'm sorry! I can't accept you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You should call him up to a 20-storey building, kick him down, and shout "bye-bye".

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Drops may have been caused by previous separations. Now who knows if there is a reason for coming back. If you like it, believe him, otherwise don't do it, to prevent your heart from hurting again, it's very painful.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It depends on whether you like him or not, and if you don't like him, then definitely don't.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What would you do if your ex was going to get back together with you?

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Wasn't it the funeral that just took place four months ago, how did you cheat the corpse?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I'll probably reply, "Oh. ”

    I won't agree to the reunion of my ex, I think there is already some kind of estrangement between the two people, it is impossible to return to the way it was, and it was the other party who proposed the breakup first.

    I feel like I'm going to move forward and can't dwell on the memories of the past, and if he can imagine how sad I was when we broke up, he shouldn't easily say that he wants to get back together with me, right?

    So I don't think I'm going to look back because there will be people who are more suitable for me waiting for me in the future.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you don't mean to get back together, just say that it's hard to reunite after breaking the mirror, and you'll find someone better. If you want to get back together, it's a thousand miles away, and it's good to live up to what I'm waiting for, and it's good for my lover to be old.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you are also interested in him, you can accept his kindness first and see how he performs next. If you don't want to get back together, just say no.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Well, if you are looking for a reunion, the key depends on your own thoughts, if you want to get back together, just get back together with him, if you don't want to, don't embarrass yourself, the key depends on your own thoughts.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then find you to get back together, at this time it depends on whether you still like your ex in your heart, if you don't have any feelings for your ex anymore, and it is impossible to be with him, then you should decisively reject him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I'm a person who wants my emotions to be clearer, and I'm reluctant to choose this way of reuniting. Therefore, I would prefer to disown my ex than accept the situation of getting back together.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If your ex is looking for you to get back together, it's best not to get back together with him, because a good horse doesn't eat back grass, let him become the past, in order to meet a better one.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    See if you want to get back together.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If my ex were to come back together with me, I would refuse. You don't know how to cherish me when you're together, and I don't believe that you can get better after a breakup. If you have to experience another disappointment after getting back together, why torture each other?

    Don't say anything about still loving your ex, and you can't forget your ex. Basically, the ex asked for a reunion, and there was only one reason why I didn't find a better one. But if there is a better one, let alone get back together, it's too late to hide from you.

    When you broke up, why didn't you think he loved you so much? I just can't find a more suitable one, and I start thinking about you here, or there, or do you want to go back and relive the old feelings?

    An ex is like a ticking time bomb, and whether you still have feelings for him or not, you don't know how dangerous he will be in your life. When you have the incumbent, the ex is like a thorn. When you haven't found the current one, the ex is still a poisonous needle stuck in your heart, and you can't get rid of it.

    It took a long time for the wound to heal slowly, so why would you have to put a knife in it yourself?

    I don't think the word compound should appear in the world of relationships, because if you love each other, you will not give the other person a chance to break up with you, even if the other party proposes to break up, you have thousands of ways to keep and coax him back, and you will know how to cherish the other person. So once you break up, it must be one person who is disappointed, and one person who gives up on retaining.

    It's ridiculous that your ex came to you to get back together, since you can't bear me and still love me, why didn't you coax me at the beginning, just make me sad and sad, and let me go? Now that we're back together, I can't accept it emotionally. Even if I haven't let go of it myself, I can't give you another chance to hurt me.

    When there was a quarrel, you didn't coax me to keep me, and when you broke up for a long time and found that you couldn't find a better person, you began to think of you and wanted to get back together with you. What's the difference between this and a spare tire? Why let yourself be so humbled? So I won't get back together with my ex after the breakup.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Make decisions based on what you really think in your heart so that you don't regret it. Look at what your feelings are for him, and then think about it carefully.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If your ex is looking for you to get back together, then you should get back together according to the actual situation, after all, two people know each other better in life together, and getting back together is good for the children and the family

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The ex is a thing of the past after all. Therefore, he may have his own reason for getting back together with you. But I won't agree to get back together anyway. Because from the moment we turned around, we were already destined to be strangers.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    What about your resurrection? If you can't bear your ex too, right? You can consider getting back together, you have to think about this clearly, don't break up again at that time, if you don't feel like you want to be together, just refuse.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    First of all, you have to determine what was the reason for the separation? It doesn't involve its own bottom line, or issues of principle.

    Of course, if you don't like her anymore and you don't think it's possible to get back together again, then make it clear.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Of course, it depends on whether you have feelings for him, if you really don't like it anymore, just say it, most of the exes are still quite sensible, if you encounter the kind of person you don't like and he is still stalking, just block and report it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    In fact, it's not easy for outsiders to say anything about things like this, but you still have to respect your inner thoughts. Only what you feel is right or not is the most important thing to be able to make the right decision.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    What if your ex gets back together with you? If my ex asks me to get back together, it depends on what the reason for the breakup was at the time, and I am considering whether to get back together, I will not get back together.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In response to this problem, I have actually had a similar experience. The most important thing about feelings is to make yourself happy and happy.

    The ex is looking for you to get back together, first of all, you can think about what the reason for your breakup is, and now that you are getting back together, whether you recognize and accept his changes, and even whether he makes changes for you.

    In addition, you need to think calmly about whether you still like him, if you like it, you might as well give it a try, life is short, don't miss the person you really love. It is recommended not to be soft-hearted because of being moved, or the bitter drama of the other party, you must recognize your feelings for him, I hope you will be happier!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You can tell him a little bit.

    Cut off his thoughts.

    Just say you don't want to be with him anymore.

    You're ready to start a new life without him.

    You're not good with him.

    I hope he can think about it.

    Questions. How to tactfully refuse.

    Let's just say, I think it's good for us to be separated, I'm not a nostalgic person, I don't want to go back to the past, you want to open up too.

    In fact, if you refuse, you won't give others a chance to think about it.

    Otherwise, he still thinks that you have feelings and hopes for him. It's better to break the thoughts, it's good for everyone.

    Questions. Is there anything else.

    To put it mildly: we are not suitable, time has already proven.

    Which sentence is almost the same, actually.

    Questions. Ok thanks.

    You're welcome, and I wish you met the right people.

    than the heart] asked.

    Okay [than heart].

    Celebration] [Flowers].

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    When my ex asked me to get back together, I would make it very clear to him that since you chose to break up with me in the first place, you have to accept all the consequences, whether you regret breaking up with me now, or you think that I have suddenly changed for the better, and it is impossible to get back together with me.

    The decisions I make make make will go all the way to the end.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    People who love each other don't have to be together.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you still love each other, you can consider getting back together.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Good horses don't eat back grass (it's up to you whether you're a good horse or not).

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    In the face of her ex's request to get back together, a smart woman generally won't agree, because she knows that in the other party's heart, she doesn't really love her, but only because of a moment of loneliness and loneliness, so she turns back.

    Many men don't cherish it when they love, and they don't think the other party is good until they lose the place, but at that time, it's too late.

    If, after a divorce or breakup, you want to make your ex regret, the best thing to do is to make yourself better. When you get better, you don't have to say anything, he already feels ashamed. He even wonders how great it would be if the two of them could go back to the way they were.

    People evolve and change, once there is a rift in the relationship between you. It's really impossible to go back to the way it was before. Even if one party regrets it, the other party will not agree.

    After a breakup, don't be friends with each other, just be a stranger. You will have your new life, and he will have his own brilliance. Not bothering each other may be the best outcome.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You have to recognize your own heart, but also recognize his heart, if you are all in love, you are together, if you are only in love, you are no longer suitable to be together.

    Some exes find you back, not because they love you so much, but because they feel lonely and want to find someone to accompany them, so why is there any need to get back together! If the other person still loves you, you still love each other, and of course you can still be together. But it's just the will of one side, so forget it!

    Together, the end result is still separate.

    Say goodbye to each other, and be well:

    Many people break up because they can't love anymore, and if they love enough, they won't break up. Because every day when we are not together is a torture for both parties. But if you break up, there will be no future. Those pasts are in the past after all.

    There are many reasons why your ex is looking for you to get back together, but it's not because he still loves you, in that case, what's the need to get back together! When lovers break up, it's more about parting and happy, and each life is happy. In the days to come, there shouldn't be so many entanglements.

    The most familiar stranger is that he can't have the same old age. Those who have passed away cannot come back after all, and no one is still in the same place.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    First, recognize your heart.

    The ex is looking for a reunion, don't be afraid at this time, don't be at a loss, but think about your heart clearly, can you still accept such an ex? Can I still live with my ex? Do you still love your ex?

    If you feel that you still love your ex, but your ex's love for you is not strong, it means that your ex is just a whim to find yourself to get back together, if one party is not in love, what is the point of getting back together? It's important to think about what you want, and don't be overwhelmed by a man's actions.

    Clause. 2. Accept it if you still love it.

    A woman still loves her ex, and she must hope that her ex will find her back together, because she has not let go and still loves each other. Since this is the case, you can test the other party and see if the ex really wants to get back together and meets your own standards, then you agree to get back together.

    There is not so much truth in love, the important thing is that two people are still in love, and the ex loves him and finds himself to get back together, which is naturally acceptable.

    Happiness is in your own hands, so after thinking it through, you can naturally make a decision. Love is good love, don't reject your ex because of a momentary anger, this will outweigh the losses.

    Clause. 3. Don't dwell on it if you don't love it anymore.

    Once some women break up, they really don't love each other, or they are dead to each other, in this case, when the ex is looking for him, he doesn't need to worry, and he doesn't need to be cold, just tell the ex that he doesn't love the ex anymore.

    Two people who don't love each other, being together will only be torture, so there is no need to entangle, if you don't love each other, it's useless for your ex to do anything, you just need to tell each other calmly that it's no longer possible for two people, talk about things, and your ex will naturally not be entangled anymore.

    Clause. Fourth, the two of them are well.

    Many people break up because they can't love anymore, if they love enough, they won't break up, because every day they are not together is a torture for both parties, but if they break up, there will be no future.

    Clause. Fifth, those past, after all, is in the past, the ex is looking for himself to get back together, there are many reasons, but it is not because he still loves himself, in this case, what is the need to reunite, lovers break up, more is a farewell and two happy, each life is happy, in the future, there should not be so many entanglements, the most familiar strangers, that is, can no longer have old age, the deceased, after all, can not come back, no one is still in the same place.

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