I promised my husband not to associate with him, but he always gave gifts, and I couldn t help it

First of all, you are cowardly.

Secondly, you have no sense of responsibility.

If you are a brave woman, then you will decisively reject a third person.

Don't make excuses, excuses are cowardly spokesmen.

Do you feel like you're looking directly at your actions???

Do you think you can accept other men's dedication to you??

Don't forget, you are a woman with a marriage and a husband.

Whether at home or abroad, from ancient times to the present, marriage is inviolable, unless you don't get married, once you get married, you must be clean and self-loving.

When you say that you can't do anything about him, I think you are moved by him, otherwise you won't have a feeling of nostalgia, maybe you can't feel it yourself, but your behavior has told me that you care about him, you want to be with him, maybe his confession to you moved you, maybe what he did for you moved you, but no matter what, his goal has been achieved, if you really have been with him one day, you have been together for a long time, He will also abandon you like he abandoned his ex-wife today, because he met a third woman like you, I hope you can sober up, live a good life with your husband, don't care what he says or does, maintain your marriage, believe that your husband is the best, maybe he can't give you a better material life, but he can give you a safe and stable home.

This kind of thing still has to make your own decisions, your husband is so good to you, knowing that you have a relationship with other men, you can forgive you, which is something that ordinary men can't do, so it shows that your husband loves you very much, you have to cherish it, as for the lover you said, whether people are good to their wives has nothing to do with you, and you can't fully believe men's words, such a non-dedicated man, he can find you and can also find others, you think clearly, don't have nothing at that time, women must learn to love themselves.

As long as you are determined, this problem is easy to solve. Since the other party is entangled in life and death has ruined your life, you don't need to worry about the other party's face. Don't open the gift, just hand it over to your husband, and let your husband send it to the other party's wife, or send it by courier.

This gift was bought with their joint property, and it was the right thing to do for his wife.

If you really don't want to associate with him, then take the gift as it is, but no matter how he contacts you, you should not take it as if you didn't see it. As for gifts, you can also say that you are not in the company, tell colleagues in the company not to accept them for you, in short, don't say a word to him.

Don't get entangled, cutting and tidying up will only hurt the two families, now is the time when both of you are very impulsive, you will look back and feel naïve at that time, for the sake of your two families, and in order to maintain this beauty, decisively cut off contact with him. Advice from the past.

Hello! I don't think it's impossible, it's that you're not decisive enough. If you don't take it, will you force it to him? If you want to keep your family, you have to say no. Dragging mud and water will never solve the problem.

Be resolute, or let your husband come forward to talk to him, after all, he hasn't divorced yet, even if he marries you in the future, it's hard to ensure that he won't look for him outside, and his nature is difficult to change.

You're actually a little tempted, aren't you?

Will he get a divorce with you? What if we can't be together?

The final belonging of all love is family life, you and him may go to the end is also oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea, live a boring family life together, a little sense of responsibility, okay? Is your current husband really no match for this man with a family? His shining point now is to give gifts, if you don't give gifts, will you still be so concerned?

Since he can do this to his wife, he will do that to you one day, you better maintain the current family, and put what he says in the left ear and out of the right ear

Ignore him... He loves to send it... Put things aside... Leave it alone... You just have to remember that you love your husband.

This man's trick is to break through the bad relationship with his wife, I really admire the innocence of a 33-year-old 23-year-old, if I refused at the beginning, I don't think it would have dragged on until now, I'm embarrassed to ask if you just wanted to prove how attractive you are, to be honest, it's normal for us married women to have a little vanity.

Sometimes it's really because of fate, so explain it to him clearly, his love does not affect your life, and the principle problem is that it has affected your life now.

If you do leave your husband, you are a complete fool. The love value of a third party like you is limited to the state of not being divorced, and once you are divorced, there is nothing left.

I advise you to give up and don't start a fire**. And you have to give up completely and return to your own family.

Your life is a tragedy Perhaps, you and your current husband don't take you seriously and feel that you should reflect on yourself.

Don't believe such a man, it's not the same if you're really married.

First of all, I understand how you feel, it makes you feel uncomfortable and ignored. However, we can't just look at the problem from one side, maybe your husband has his ideas and reasons. Therefore, I advise you to communicate openly with your husband and ask him if there is any reason why he does not buy you a gift or if he has any thoughts on this issue.

Maybe you can tell him that the gift is not the most important thing, but there are small surprises and care that will make you feel valued and loved. If you can reach a common understanding and build a good relationship of mutual understanding and concern, maybe your problem will be solved. If your communication cannot be resolved, you will be advised to seek professional counseling.

In a woman's consciousness, when a man pursues himself, he always gives himself some gifts and gives himself some romance, which is good for himself, indicating that he has himself in his heart and can choose him.

And when a woman chooses to marry such a man, she will also yearn for it in her heart, and men will always be like this in the future, always with surprises and gifts.

However, for men, when pursuing a woman, they often spend time giving gifts, and the bridge is helpless, in order to win the hearts of women. Once a woman is in love with herself, after getting married, too many men will feel that this is completely unnecessary.

Therefore, once you enter into marriage, there is no longer a man's gift, and the woman will feel that she is married to the wrong Sola, and the man does not love herself.

At this time, as a woman, you will inevitably be very sad, and you may even be indifferent to men, but in fact, whether you are sad alone or give men face, that is not a wise way.

Many women don't receive gifts during the holidays, sometimes it may be because you have not accepted the other person's heart correctly at some point, and did not give the right response, resulting in the other party not wanting to continue.

If not, then it is very likely that your husband or boyfriend probably does not have the word "ritual" in the dictionary.

The other party takes the initiative to give you a gift, which is naturally a kind of romance and mood, and the other party must not send it for a reason, in fact, these husbands who do not give gifts after marriage may have the following reasons:

1. Some men have directly entered the recent intimate relationship after marriage, he feels that he is his own person, and he may take it for granted that it is not necessary, and this part of the man may be a type of man who is relatively unromantic and dull.

Second, there are still some men who feel that they have been married for many years, and their husbands and wives are embarrassed to give gifts such as "flowers" on Valentine's Day.

Fourth, this situation is the worst, he may have accumulated a lot of negative impressions of you in the past, the relationship is not good, or the relationship between you has been bad recently, he has prejudices against you, negative emotions, etc., so he will not be in the mood to buy gifts to coax you!

There are two scenarios:

1. Can't express, and the limbs are relatively wooden.

It's better for you in this situation, although it's not romantic enough, but it's more pragmatic. The salary will be handed over, all for the family, but more than the fleeting romance, I like the long-term companionship of each other. If this is the case, there is no need to worry, because everyone has their own unique view of love, and they can communicate more and understand each other, and there is no need to sulk because of this.

2. Ignoring marriage and not paying attention to it.

If it is because of his own reasons that the festival is not important, and the love of two people is not important, then this situation is that the two people have a big problem getting along, and they must communicate and communicate well, so that the other party's contribution can be equal.

How husband and wife get along:

1. Share weal and woe. The meaning of this proverb is to tell people that couples who can share hardships are rare, and most people can share blessings and shares, but they can't share difficulties.

2. Mutual understanding. Couples who understand each other and trust each other, while the modern pre-answer society is developing rapidly, the divorce rate is also increasing year by year. In the past, the romantic feelings of "carriages and horses are very slow in mail, and I only love one person in my life" is now estimated to be thousands of miles away.

One, one out of a hundred.

3. Take the initiative to express your thoughts. There are many girls who have the idea that if a boy loves him, he should know himself completely, and he should know his needs without being clear.